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is there a color that matches with one of the original rainbow colors ?? (rainbow colors being red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, violet.) thanks for all of your help!!!!

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if i call a suicide hotline, can they get my number nd like call the cops or sumthing?

never.

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Ok so I met a girl at a picnic. Shes very shy and so am I. Im 21 shes 19. I saw her again at another picnic the week after and I asked her for her number and got it and we hung out that whole night. I called her Tuesday and like she didn’t ask one question and I opened up somehow and asked a lot. Thing is shes very shy and actually never had a boyfriend before because she focused on family and school. So what do I do to open her up and find if she even likes me. Any advice is helpful.

P.S. What would a good first date be for some one who never had a bf?

take some time. us girls dont like to be forced opened and its definatly a turn off. *HINT HINT- DONT !!* if she likes you, she will tell you at one point. if you push her, chances are she wont even tell you in the end. for a good date ?? try the mall or movies. ask her about what shes into and ect.

hope i was of help.

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Ok, so im not fat or anything, but i want to lose about 3-4 lbs.....how can i do it, and is it achieveable in a month? I'm 14 years old.


Thanks

working out at gyms are very effective. if you go almost everyday, you can definatly lose a couple of pounds. try asking someone who works there ways to make your workout more effective. i know that sometimes they have little coupons where you get a 90 day trial for a fraction of the price. powerhouse is very good.

hope i was of help.

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okey...i'm gonna be a freshmen in highschool...and i need to get a new pair of shoes that are a reasonable price and that are totally in thx!

vans are AMAZING. yes, maybe theyre not very girly, but very comfortable, and i personally, love the way they look. try them. also, converse and steve madden have very good shoes.

hope i was of some help.

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I want to use Nair for my bikini area (i think they have a special one out used just for that area) and I wanted to know before I used it, has anyone here tryed it and what was it like, did it burn/did u get red bumps? also how long did the hair stay off for? would u suggest i use it or stick to shaving? also ive heard Nair stinks but they have some now that smell like vanilla and cucumber melon, should i get that instead of the regular? thanks so much for your advice!

nair ?? well, i have very VERY sensitive and odd skin, so many things do irritate it. nair being one of them. having the skin i do, i would just stick to shaving. and nair DOES stink !! if theres a window in the room, OPEN IT as you use the nair !! i have not tried the different scented ones, so i dont know what to tell you about that.

hope i was of help.

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Hey Everyone! Well I went to a party in New York City a couple of weeks back and met an amazing looking guy. We hooked up at the party and really enjoyed our time spent together. After the party we promised to keep in touch and i gave him my number, and he called me the next day. He decided to come visit me in Jersey with a couple of his friends later that week. While we were talking he told me that he was 20 and i'm only 15(meaning im illegal). He was a little surprised by our age difference since i definently look a lot older than i appear to be. After meeting him @ my house I had to leave for residential camp for a week in order to be a C.I.T(Counseler in Training) While I was gone we talked on the phone and found out that we had a lot in common such as: Our birthdays are on the same day>How strange is that! As soon as I got home I went on his Profile to check out what he'd been up to. I found out that he'd been writing a lot of comments to different grls saying that they were "Hott" and "Thumbs up." I'm a very jealous person and I hate having to share my guy with anyone. Even though were not together "officially" I really have feelings for him~ The problem is our age difference and the fact that sometimes he doesn't call me to see how i am because he's busy clubbing and doing god knows what. My ? is do i get over this guy or should i do something to make him understand how i feel?? I'd really like advice about what I should do. Pleae comment and advice away. Xo THanks!!

stay away from this man. and when i say man, i mean man. he does not sound like the person to be around. believe me, looks are decieving. you need to move on. he sounds like a 'player' who may give you the time of your life once and then just leave you.

hope i was of help.

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15.f.ma Ok .. well .. i kinda have a problem .. well i guess every girl wants attention .. from a guy.. well.. i have the attention of.. four guys.. four different ages.. each of them very cute.. i flirt with them .. each.. and i think im getting to attatched .. i really have no clue what to do .. one of the guys is gone all summer to his dads in Virgina Beach.. but we talk online all the time..and the other 3 live near me.. i hang out with all of them .. but i dont no what to do.. im afraid that i might be leading them on .. and i dont wanna do that what should i try??

x0xoKerry

spend time with easy guy and decide who you think is the most friendly, most humorous, ect. choose which one you think is the most well rounded of the 4 (i dont mean fat) as for the other 3 boys- try letting them down easy. no boy (or anyone for that matter) wants to be told off head on.

hope i was of some help. =)

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ok i want to make a photo album online. but i tried picturetrails and it only let me put 36 pictures and i was wondering if there aere any other site that will let me put like 50 pictures on it and let me put music on it too. not phototbucket. thanks!

i've heard www.webshots.com and www.photosite.com are good. give them a shot and tell my your opinion.

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Ive been with the same guy for what soon will be 5 years, and i love him with all my heart, he is my first love and i think im his first love too, ive given my all to him, but sometimes i feel he takes me for granted..theirs points were i cant stop crying, cuz its so hard, but truly hes the only one i have, im so in love and so scared to let go yet being with him is driving me crazy and i just dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!! i feel stuck because im so scared of being without him yet it hurts at the same time being with someone who wont commit with me and who will ignore me at times...AHHHH (im 22)

im so sorry to hear that. =(

it sounds to me that you need to leave this love relationship far far behind. send this man a letter stating that you need a real love in your life and someone who can commit to you. being without him in the end will possibly work out better than being with him. try staying friends and keep in touch.

hope i helped. =S

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Does ANYONE know how to use the Musicmatch 8.2 version?? I had the old one, and I was fine with it, super easy , but now, this new one, i know its not the latest, but the latest doesnt work on my computer, but the 8.2 is driving me nuts!!! if you know how to use it, pleaseeeeee drop one in, and ill give you my screen name so maybe you can help me??

I rate all 5's

im sorry, i dont use music match. =(

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some people tell me that i am a nonfashion female...

i am always conscious on what im wearing...

y??... because my brother always tell me that im out of fashion... when i choose what i would like to wear, my mom always contradict me and push through the clothes that i dont want....



can you give me advices on how to have a "proper" outfit???


thanks.... this is my first time to enter this group......

they actually tell that to you, straight up to your face ?? next time that happens, flip 'em off. ; )

dont be conscious of what you wear. whatever you feel comfortable in, wear it. it doesnt matter what people think of you, as long at you are happy in the clothes that you wear.

speak to your mom about this. tell her "" i would like to choose my own fashion choices and i would prefer to choose my own clothing selections"" easier said than done, right ?? tell it to her while hse not doing anything. if you dont catch her in a moment of doing nothing, ask her if she could stop what she happens to be doing at the moment and discuss this matter.

a proper outfit is what you think you look good in and/or feel comfortable in.

hope i was of help to you. =)

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Okay..have any of you Advicenators actually bought anything from the "Advicenators line of Misc. Crap?" Juuuust wonderin!

Thanx

umm.. sorry, no. lol =)

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Well,this guy i really like asked me out and i like him soo much no one will ever understand but hes dating one of my friends and i don't want her mad at me ! and my BEST friends older sister dated him too and now my best friends whole family is going to hate me !! And my best friends older sister is gonna wanna beat me up !! im soo scared please help !! i really like this guy and i need to get over my ex so what do i do ?
THANKS

hmm .. to start, you need to tell this boy that (no matter how much you like him) it is wrong that he is going out with your best friend and then coming along and asking you out. if you accept there will be trouble with your best friend and her family. if you do NOT accept then you will still have your friend and but you will not have the boy. my advice ?? i would say turn him down, but stay friends with him. remember to never evr drop your girls for a boy, no matter what. when you turn him down be sure to tell him you want to stay friends with him. if you dont, he may never get that impression and the chances of him asking you out will me slimmer. hope i was of help ! =)

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This is kind of a long story. So I've been friends with this guy for about 5 or 6 years now. Best friends at that. Well recently I found out he was going to be moving a long way away from here. I've been through so much with him, but now I hardly speak to him and he's moving in less than a week. It all happend so suddenly. I've always had a big group of friends and people that I also consider best friends as well, but he was sort of in a league of his own friendship wise just becuase of everything we've been through. Now I'm always with these other people that he use to be with as well, until we found out he was moving. In the past month I've become so close to two of the people, and so much futher away from him. I don't feel right talking to him anymore, but I feel even worse when I don't. I haven't hung out with him in awhile, and now he's moving. I just don't know what to do or say. Once he's gone it'll be too late but I don't know how to approach the subject now, before it's too late. And the last time we did hang out, every little thing he did seemed bother the he.ll out of me. Which doesn't help my situation at all. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :)

ohmygosh !! im so sorry this is happening !!

well. as much as you dont feel right talking to him, you need to either approach him to talk or call him. you need to discuss that you feel more distant from him and give him your insight on the situation. you need to say how the last time you two hung out that he was making you aggravated and ask why he was acting as he was.

hopefully i was of some help. good luck with that. ! =)

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ok im about 5 foot and im 103 pounds...is that ok? im NOT skinny but im not sure wat you would call over weight. does anyone know if this is too fat?

actually, according to the cdc (centers for disease control) body mass index, you have a normal weight. hope i was of help !! =)

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Is there any way to know if my computer can play MP3 files?

mp3 files ?? im not really sure about this one, but i THINK you need specific hardware for it. hope i was some what of a help !! =S

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