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Hey Everyone! Well I went to a party in New York City a couple of weeks back and met an amazing looking guy. We hooked up at the party and really enjoyed our time spent together. After the party we promised to keep in touch and i gave him my number, and he called me the next day. He decided to come visit me in Jersey with a couple of his friends later that week. While we were talking he told me that he was 20 and i'm only 15(meaning im illegal). He was a little surprised by our age difference since i definently look a lot older than i appear to be. After meeting him @ my house I had to leave for residential camp for a week in order to be a C.I.T(Counseler in Training) While I was gone we talked on the phone and found out that we had a lot in common such as: Our birthdays are on the same day>How strange is that! As soon as I got home I went on his Profile to check out what he'd been up to. I found out that he'd been writing a lot of comments to different grls saying that they were "Hott" and "Thumbs up." I'm a very jealous person and I hate having to share my guy with anyone. Even though were not together "officially" I really have feelings for him~ The problem is our age difference and the fact that sometimes he doesn't call me to see how i am because he's busy clubbing and doing god knows what. My ? is do i get over this guy or should i do something to make him understand how i feel?? I'd really like advice about what I should do. Pleae comment and advice away. Xo THanks!!
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my best advice to you would be to forget him! older guys think a lot different then 15 year olds sexually. he'll be a lot more advance and can you really picture this babe saying to his college friends hey i cant party tonight because i have to go to some dance with my 15 year old girlfriend at her highschool? no matter how good looking he is its not worth it hun he could use you and it would be pure hell. good luck!
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stay away from this man. and when i say man, i mean man. he does not sound like the person to be around. believe me, looks are decieving. you need to move on. he sounds like a 'player' who may give you the time of your life once and then just leave you.
hope i was of help.
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Stay away from this MAN, and I do mean MAN. Aside from the obvious, he can get into serious legal troubles messing with you. Five years is nothing, but it is something now, you are both in different places right now, and really can't understand one another. What will you talk about with him, your on-goings in highschool, and he'll think you're immature. Don't try to grow up too fast, you can only be 15 or 16 (young) once in your life. Enjoy your youth now with someone whom can truly relate and experience this with you. Why do you think he's clubbing all the time, he's getting older and doesn't want to deal with the reality of adulthood.
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As much as i hate to say this, i think you should move on. I mean usually i argue for the "Age aint nothin but a number" thing. But this time i dont think thats the right decision. I mean you live far away, and he goes out clubbin`. of course hes not gonna be thinkin about a little girl when hes around older women. (no offense). you guys should maybe be friends tho, if he makes u happy.
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You definitely get over the guy. A man of 20 doesn't have time for a high school girl...or shouldn't anyway. I don't mean to sound like I'm getting on your case about it but do you WANT him to go to jail? Just forget him and find someone closer to your age. You will only end up heartbroken if you pursue the 20 year old. :)
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I say you should move on...but thats only my opion cause you can't tell your heart what to do so you cant just be like ok i dont like u anymore... the only reason i say move on is because of the age difference... but then again you said you like him and have feelings for him so I think you should talk about everything thast happening with the two of you with him ask him if he does like you and dont forget to tell him that your starting to have feelings for him... find out what his reaction is and what he has to say to u...hope I helped...rate...!LiveSTRONG!
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