Member Since: July 14, 2005
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Last Update: July 16, 2005
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I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him. Cause i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too. (link)
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i was in the same postion as you and take my advice! You wont last forever and you wont get that relationship back. Its true and it happens everytime. Being friends with benifits is always good but if you really like this guy and he doesnt like you back, it will hurt worse in the end. If you really think that he is right for you and you want to take the chance then find out how he feels first. And if your too nervous for his answer have one of your friends ask him or ask one of his friends. Love is all about taking risks so if you feel hes perfect for you go for it. Good luck hun
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13/m when i was like 5 me and my freind looked at each others dick and then when i was 7 this happened again i dont like boys at all i only like girls and there the only gender i want to have sex with does this mean iam gay or bi or none we were young i dont think it meant anything but lately ive been starting to think about it. (link)
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hun you were young! i doubt it means your gay and if you only can picture youself with girls and have no sexual feelings for guys your fine. I'm 14 and i know my guy friends still compare their dicks with others just to see whos is bigger lol. But if you do look at guys and think hes a babe and shit like that you are probably bi or afraid to accept the fact that your gay. Good luck but dont worry if you only like girls your straight!
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Hey Everyone! Well I went to a party in New York City a couple of weeks back and met an amazing looking guy. We hooked up at the party and really enjoyed our time spent together. After the party we promised to keep in touch and i gave him my number, and he called me the next day. He decided to come visit me in Jersey with a couple of his friends later that week. While we were talking he told me that he was 20 and i'm only 15(meaning im illegal). He was a little surprised by our age difference since i definently look a lot older than i appear to be. After meeting him @ my house I had to leave for residential camp for a week in order to be a C.I.T(Counseler in Training) While I was gone we talked on the phone and found out that we had a lot in common such as: Our birthdays are on the same day>How strange is that! As soon as I got home I went on his Profile to check out what he'd been up to. I found out that he'd been writing a lot of comments to different grls saying that they were "Hott" and "Thumbs up." I'm a very jealous person and I hate having to share my guy with anyone. Even though were not together "officially" I really have feelings for him~ The problem is our age difference and the fact that sometimes he doesn't call me to see how i am because he's busy clubbing and doing god knows what. My ? is do i get over this guy or should i do something to make him understand how i feel?? I'd really like advice about what I should do. Pleae comment and advice away. Xo THanks!! (link)
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my best advice to you would be to forget him! older guys think a lot different then 15 year olds sexually. he'll be a lot more advance and can you really picture this babe saying to his college friends hey i cant party tonight because i have to go to some dance with my 15 year old girlfriend at her highschool? no matter how good looking he is its not worth it hun he could use you and it would be pure hell. good luck!
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hi im 13 and there is this kid i like that is 15 i keep sending him messages that i like him but i dont know if he understands them. I also think he keeps sending me messages that he likes me but im not sure is there anyway i can find out if he likes me or if he doesnt how can i get him to like me.
Ps. we both are ino the same things and we always talk on the phone ad online (link)
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the best messages you can send him are probably what your already doing. touching him when u talk, laughing, hugging what not its all flirting! if he does the same back the most likely he's intrested in you. ask his friends who he likes or ask your friends to ask him if he likes you, is intrested, if thinks your hott ect. if your too shy to say straight up that you like him then just follow my advice because ive been in the same postion as you and it worked! good luck hun!
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OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer
please tell me what to do
P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing
I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time (link)
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well since youve already have had sex before where did you do it? if that gives any hints like if it was at school whatever just do it in the same place. and if yoyur super horny just give him a blow job or ask him to eat you out haha whatever! well when your 13 just remember that if your ready to have sex play it safe because u dont wanna get pregnant! and if he says that he doesnt wanna have sex dont dump him because that would be fucked up. good luck
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My bestfriend is a guy, and ive known him for like 6 years and i dotn know why just all of a sudden i think im in love with him, its just the little things that he does and, i think hes the only guy that really looks into my eyes and tells me things..I mean we are best freinds so of course we tell each other everything, but he tells me like ALOT, and he seems that he likes me sometimes..he used to be like a brother to me but i kno theres no way i could or would ever go out with him..what do i do? (link)
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i have a friend exactly like that. I was in love with him and he was like my brother. my mom found out about it and she told me that my best choice would be to not "go out" with him or anything because if you break up you can never get that friendship back! its not worth it and the friends with benifits thing doesnt work trust me. because in the end you just get hurt even worse. just keep him as a great friend but if hes really someone you could see yourself with and you wanna risk your frienship go for it because love is all about taking a chance. good luck!
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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.
PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down (link)
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im christian so all i know is that wiccans believe in magic and stuff. i suggest you dont tell your mom that you are wiccan because if shes like a dedicated christian she might just think you changed your religion because of your boyfriend! then she really will do everyting she can to not let you see him! HAHA SO DONT HUN! you could reck everything and hey yea 2 years is awhile but then you can do whatever the hell you want to and if you and your boyfriend have a strong love for eachother you can make it last until then! good luck
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I'm Jewish but not religious.I want to become Christian but what exactly does it mean to be Christian.What are their beliefs? Also, does anyone have any words of wisdom to make me feel better when I don't feel that important? (link)
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chrsitan is when you believe that god created the world. we believe in heaven in hell haha obviously heaven is where god is and hell is yea the devil. um jesus chirst died on the cross to forgive our sins yea its kinda hard to understand that but if you turn christian you will eventually. theres a lot of kinds of religions within the christian church like catholic, presbyterian, luthran ect. good luck!
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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.
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so im straight but my friend just came out too and told me shes a lesbian. Your friends are probably just stunned because they didnt know. But hey they will get over it and if they dont then they arent worth it! Try making a different group of friends and in all honesty people might act different around you but its ok to be different so live your life to the fullest and dont let other people affect you! think of yourself as unique i dont know if you believe in god but he made you the way he wanted you to be. so know that even though you might be different then other people in the way you prefer your sex partner your still a normal person! good luck with everything!
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I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do? (link)
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honey let me give you advice to use forever! Dont have long distance relationships! espcially when he's on another contienent! There are pleanty of babes out there hes not the only one. Thats great that you like him but you should stay friends with him because who can have a relationship with someone through the computer or the phone? good luck with everything!
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Basically I'm sick to death of my family. I really need to get away from them for just a little while. I love them, but for the moment, we aren't getting along too well. None of my friends are around and I'm not allowed to go anywhere without my parents.
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I have 2 younger brothers that constantly fight, and an older brother. My dad is in another state for the next few days, but my mom is here.
help me please! (link)
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try talking to your parents. Tell them whats bothering you and maybe they'll take a second look and see from your point of view. If this still doesnt help invite a few of your friends over, there has to be some! or just invite over people you would like to get to know. your parents will see that you are responsible in chosing the right type of people to hang out with. Hopefully this will let them be more carefree so you can leave the house and hang out with a friend. If your still lost try a new hobbie to get away from it all! good luck hun!
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hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help. (link)
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a lot of guys struggle with this problem so your not the only one! start by talking to a girl that your close to and dont have any feelings for at all. look at the things you talk about, sports, friends, school ect. Then take that to the next level and start a conversation with someone your interested in. Whenever you talk to a girl ask her what she does for fun and then let the conversation go from there! trust me it will last long and she'll see a side of you that you probably didnt even know exsited! good luck hun!
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i left my fav shirt at my friends house and the next time i came over i saw it and i asked where she found it.....she said that her grandma bought it for her for her bday....which was a huge lie...they dont sell that model anymore its old.....i want it back but i dont want to hurt her feeling what should i do???
signed concerned girl
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ive been in the same situation as you. Your friend is going to deny that its your shirt so you would be better off not saying anything. However if this isnt the first time its happened i suggest that you find some new friends! other then that its just a shirt but take a second look and see if you really want a friend like this because not only did she lie to you but most likely you lost her trust.
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sorry if this is long but i really need help.
ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do! (link)
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well first of all it doesnt matter what age he is as long as your on the same maturity level. you probably upset him when he asked you out especially if you were around his friends ect. my best advice would be give it a try i mean hey what do you have to lose! but always remember that if you two are good friends if you break up your friendship will never be the same again! good luck!
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