I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him. Cause i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too.
cutie4u1212 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 7:38 pm: i was in the same postion as you and take my advice! You wont last forever and you wont get that relationship back. Its true and it happens everytime. Being friends with benifits is always good but if you really like this guy and he doesnt like you back, it will hurt worse in the end. If you really think that he is right for you and you want to take the chance then find out how he feels first. And if your too nervous for his answer have one of your friends ask him or ask one of his friends. Love is all about taking risks so if you feel hes perfect for you go for it. Good luck hun <3 sarah [ cutie4u1212's advice column | Ask cutie4u1212 A Question ]
x_pink_x109 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 7:12 pm: Hey!
I know you really want to take it up a step higher but the best thing you can do right now is to stay friends. Friends last a LOT longer than boyfriends/girlfriends do.
Friends are always there for you and stuff but boyfriends can just walk up to and say "It's over." Friends don't do that.
I really think you should just stay friends because if you guys decide to break up, you'll never talk to each other again... unless you decide to be best friends again but even then, it won't be the same. Wait it out until you build up all the confidence in the world to talk to him about it. Wait until you think he's ready to hear these feelings.
Be patient... if this is meant to happen between you and him, it'll happen. ;-)
xoMarisox answered Saturday July 16 2005, 6:59 pm: That's a really hard question. I know how you feel about not wanting to lose your really goood friends relationship. If you really truly like him, ask a friend to tell him... that always works for me! [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
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