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i love him.
i was in love once. with my ex bf of over a year. we broke up cause i found out he cheated on me. well its been 4 months since we broke up. and every bf ive had i compare to him and i cant let him go. we were SO close and i was so comfortable around him. well weve been hanging out lately. and i still get butterflies so much and i love being around him. we were at my house last night and he started holding my hand. and we just talked about how things used to be with us and all our little inside jokes and stuff. i dont know how to tell him i want him back. cause i do. and i know i shouldnt but everyone makes mistakes and i really love him. and my parents love him..and his parents love me..its just perfect..help..what do i tell him without sounding all weird??
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I think you must let him make the first move... becoz if you'll do it youll sound desperate to have him back...
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it's normal not to forget your first love, but if he isn't then there's really something..come on were all humans people change we all deserve a secon chance..i think he deserves a second chance...it's not weird to express how you feel, if he thinks it's weird then theres sumthin wrong..but you should never hid your feelings especially if a connection between you two is still strong. It's rare that your families get along so make it worth sumthin,
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well if you know how you feel and what you want(which obviusly you do) then tell the boy!! your right everybody makes mistakes but you have to also think about the fact that if you take him back now its like your like condoning the fact that he cheated on you!! ya know??
plz rate:) ~*$*~Jessica~*$*~
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This is kinda hard to answer cause what I want to say is "Are you kidding? He cheated on you!!"
1.) If you really want this guy back please remember the bad times as well as the good.
2.) If you do want him back, and please please please think hard on that one first. Men aren't complete idiots, he probably already knows since you've been hanging out and talking about the good times.
Don't just let it happen though, talk about the cheating and talk about your pain and fear. This guy should know just how totally unaceptable that is, even if you still love him. Don't just let him back into you life without protecting yourself a bit.
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Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend. You said you guys were really close. I bet you still are so maybe if you are still pretty close you can maybe just tell it to him to his face or on the phone. Or like go to his house and right a note that says I want you back and lay it on his bed or dresser or whereever and then leave and he'll most likely find it. IM him or write a letter about how you feel. Good luck! PLease tell me how it ends up! I'm xoMarisox!
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