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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
*SEX*---YES PLEASE!--LOL JUS MESSIN IMMA GRL~*~
*HOMETOWN*---L-TOWN~*~HOLLA AT CHA GRL~*~
*SCHOOL*---LHS GO REDSKINS!!:)~*~
*GRADE*---10TH~*~
*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
*HAIR*---BROWN/BLONDE~*~
*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
*FAV QUOTE*---I SMOKE WEED 2 4-GET MY DRINKING PROBLEM---LOL!~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

advice

Does the ouija board really work?bb

well i have never tried one!! ummm i really dont beleve in all that stuff!!! my frend tried one and she said that it did, but ya know!!!

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hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac????

well i do think 20 is a BIT extreeme!!! just try to do a few lil extra thing around the house to show them that you are responsible!!! i was aloud to date ay 13 so i didnt have that problem!! but this is what i wood have done!!^^

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i am trying to go on a diet and it works for a day then the next day i totally pig out! then i regret it and the process starts over! does anyone have any dieting tips?

well i woodnt really suggest a diet really!! maybe just portion control!!! like instead of 2 rolls @ supper just get one!!! trust me this is the only way i can survive!!! im from the south and we EAT!!! so just try to maybe half your portions and exercise!!! some good exercises are on www.toneteen.com!!!

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i got my first holes done and i took them out 4 weeks after they were peirced. but they werent healed and they started bleeding. do i have to wait another 4 weeks now?

well that wood probly be your best bet!!! and peroxide and alcohol slows the healing process!!

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hey well my mom got a new car and in her old car i guess i got icecream on the top of the roof and i dont kno how..but i guess it stains and my cousin got it in her new car and she dose not kno and she was like if u got icecream on the roof you im going to kill you

try like a carpet cleaner!!!

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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
i rate HIGH!!!!!!! plz help!!

i use big sexy hair and my hair is always really wavy all day long with just one aplication!!

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Hello, I was wondering if there were some long term effects of going on "the pill"? I've checked the Planned Parenthood site, it doesn't say anything about long term effects, only side effects in taking it.

I've also googled it without a credible website, a lot of them are personal websites or something of the sort.

Does anyone have a website that they know of that I can find this information?

not really it helps with regulating your period!!! i didnt see any changes though!!!

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alright, i HATE my church. there is this girl rachel who is like...really mean to me. she even locked me in a suply closet once. i want to go to a diffrent chruch. every time i tell my mom that rachel is mean she just says i need to have a better attitude. rachel even told everybody that i was a slut. so now no one likes me. how do i tell my mom i want to go to another church?

explain the whole thing to her!!!! jus like you did us!!

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ok look i gave u my virginity to my current boyfriend! wen we have sex he refuses to stop until i have an orgasm! i tell him i do but im not sure if i have ever had one or not! wot does an orgasm feel like? and how do i no i've had one? PLEASE help! im desperate!

girl trust me if your askin us then you aint had one!!! you'll know when you have one!!

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I love my boyfriend sooo much! my boyfriend went to juvi last week and i absolutely HATE him! i hate him for leaving me like this! i feel so alone and lonely and i need him more then anything and hes not here! i miss him soo much and i wont b able to see him for another 3 weeks! i hate him soo much for doing this to me i just wanna slap him!

so what is your ?.... or did you just want us to know what was going on???

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ok. i dont get it. you kno how it feels good for us girls to be fingerd well sometimes. when the guys do it arent they bored. or grossed out. because they want plesure to you kno?

well all the guys i meet always ask me if they can so i dont guess it bothers them but im sure it is diffrent for every1

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Okay, I don't know what to do. Should I shave my bikini area? I've shaved it before and it was really itchy and painful. I don't know whether it's normal to be shaved or not. Is it?

i suggest waxing!!!

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I like this guy named Ben. He knows i like him b/c of my little brother. Well i volunteer with him alot. so all year i am going to be seeing him. i want to ask him out but i don't know what to do. by the way... i'm not one of those girls who waits for the guys to ask them out. too old fashioned for me.

well if you like him what is holding you back?

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I am just wondering if anyone has used the Jergens lotion that has a hint of self tanner, so that over time you get a natural looking tan? If so, does it really work? Any tips?

well i didnt use it personally but my friend did and she has beautiful tan!!! i think sun helps it but i guess it is diffrent for each person!!

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There is this guy that i like and he likes me but he has a girlfriend. he is my really good friend. but he made a move on me. people tell me to just stay friends with him. i agree with those people but i dont know what i am gunna say to him..*

Help Please

-x- Bridgette -x-

well just tell him that you dont wanna risk your friendship!!

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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

well if you dont know why people dont like or respect you then why dont you just ask them?? that is the only way to find out right?

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does anyone know of any websites that you can find really cute qoutes about love and friendship? thanks

well i just always go 2 fire hot quotes!

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ok i need i guys point of veiw or a girl who has been with a guy do guys like ur *pubic hair* hairy shaved a little hair but not a lote no hair??? what do they like i no everyone has a different point of view juss plzz help me

plz no stupid ass answers
*i rate high*

in all of my encounters (and i've had plenty) the guyz have liked it shaved!!!

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hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks

you could like braid it at night and then sleep in the braids.... Or buy a crimper.. Or rollers!!

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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Girl why are you holding back??? You totally need to like tell him you are going to the mall one day and just be like "Do you wanna meet me there?" And then if he still doesnt come then DITCH him!!!

~*$*~Jessica~*$*~

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