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i'll rate you a 5 please just help me!
me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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go for it!! make him prove it to ya!
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yeah,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, he will have to prove to you that he is a whole lot nicier boyfriends are cheap i think so you will have to find out what he really is
~tiffany harrison
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well you chould just say something like wanna know something funny and then say do you remeber that day you said we would hang out and then tell hm a funny story then just wait for a reaction then say b/c im leaving soon so...
just wait for a reaction
hope i helped love talktome224
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Just e-mail him saying if you don't e-mail me back, I'm going to forget about you. If you really like this guy, keep your heart gaurded. The sweetest guy is liscenced to break your heart so be prepared.
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Okay first of all, remeber that this boy broke you're heart 7 months ago, and is now just remembering that he needs you. Thats a lil fishy to begin with. Not to mention if hes done it before, there a good chance it can happen again. Not saying for sure. And about hanging out, isnt he trying to prove to you that he's nicer & not like he used to be? Because if he is, then why should you be the one reminding him that you were suppose to hang out? It kinda just seems liek you're re-making you'reself available too him if you were to ask him to hang out, play harder to get in situations like this. Hope i helped. <33
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well DUH!! you shouid bring it up..obviousley hes not going to so you should..you no whats with these boys today..always getting girls to do there dirrty work..well you shouild say hey i thought we were going to hang out..whats up with that..and the worse he couild say is no..and so what..and if he says no then so what..his lost..dont worry about it then..you no..well you do what you want t o do..and do it quick..since your going on your trip..well you no what you want to do so go for it!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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you should upfront and blount with him about the whole situation and just let him know how you feel, ask him what has he been up to that ya'll couldn't hang out , or did he just forget if he is too busy to make time for you than find someone else.
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Let him know you will be gone if you haven't already. Then if he tries to contact you he won't think you are ignoring him. If he isn't shy you may want to wait until he approaches you about it again. If you think you may have given him the impression that you weren't interested somehow, go ahead and mention it as in "when did you want to get together and hang out?" casually. :)
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Girl why are you holding back??? You totally need to like tell him you are going to the mall one day and just be like "Do you wanna meet me there?" And then if he still doesnt come then DITCH him!!!
~*$*~Jessica~*$*~
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well just be like i hope you had a good trip i miss yu and bring up hanging out. and stuff im sure he won't think its weird. if hes not shy hes prolly not thinking it about it.
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Send a friendly email saying when you will be leaving. If that is too direct send it to him and several other people so he will know what is happening but won't think you are necessarily reminding him (although it will).
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well hun maybe he is shyer then you thought! i think you should just ask him about it because you know he is the one who brought it up before! guys arent the only ones who ask out! haha hope it helps!
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ok, i think you should bring it up. i mean life is too short to just watch it pass you by...you should be livving it. take a risk or two. or youll regeat not doing it later on in life...
hope i helped ♥ cookierat123
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go for it ask him its not like you have anything ot lose if hes that important then you should im him hope i helped
~:~marilyn~:~
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just go for it i mean if you don*t say anything you mite regret it and maybe he*s thinking the same thing maybe since he brought it up the first time he*s waiting for you. If you don*t tell him then you might leave before you get to see him and if you do tell him you prolly have a better chance! good luck n tell me how things ended up!! <3<3 chelsea
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If he REALLY wanted you, then he would have already started making plans with you. You've already put your heart on the line and had it broken. Also, he's the one that has to prove himself to you,not the other way around. I think you should let him bring the whole thing up. If he doesn't, then you know where his heart lies. You can IM if you want, but you shouldn't have to bring up the whole hanging out thing. Hope I helped.
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well its cool that he said he wants to prove it to you...so just bring it up yourself, lol otherwise while you are gone you're gonna regret it and be all man i should have gosh why am i so stupid. lol yeah go for it girl
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yes ask to hang! you realize that he might be shy as well, and he might be worried about what you think of him. if he didn't want to hang he would have blocked you and never IMed you, good luck hunnie
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if you dont hang out before thursday you know he will be on your mind the whole time and it will drive you nuts! so..today is sunday..wait until tomorro night and if he doesnt bring it up..ask if he wants to hang out sometime before thursday..if he blows you off forget him because you dont want him playing games with you like that. So definately try and hang out with him before thursday..if it doesnt work out dont worry ..at least you gave it a shot! if you ask to hang out and he gives lame excuses or seems like he doesnt wanna hang out..dont ask again until he asks to hang out.
thats what i would do..i hope i helped out a lil
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