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sry for the length but i need help!
ok i like this guy we'll call him "joe" we me and joe talked in the past about going out and i screwed it up now i reallly like him but im afraid to tell him b/c im scared to death of rejection b/c i've never really had to deeal with it.. every guy i liked turned out to like me and tell me they liked me b4 i told them i liked them and they lasted for like 2 years all of them...
and Joe is one of my best friends and i like him so much im willing to risk our friendship to try this out but i talked to Joe about everything like boyz and he tells me about girls and well he likes like 4 girlz ... im just so confused...can any1 give me any advice??
again sry for the length
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just tell him how u feel don't even think about the fact that you can be rejected he probably likes you too but boys have this thing about telling people how they feel but just tell him how you feel and he'll like you cause you were bold enough to tell him what is/was on your heart/mind and if he wants to be just friends you have to accept that but be happy because you have something that no other girl will ever his friendship his openness not many guys will be open and especially with a female so you have a special friendship no one else will ever have that.
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It could be that he just hasn't ever thought of you like that before. Why not ask him sometime if hes ever wondered how you two would do as a couple, see what he says. Once the subject is being discussed then let him know how you feel. :)
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well. maybe he has a crush on you too but hes afraid of ejection to or maybe . he doesnt want ur friendship to change just hint it. like i miss you and stuff and he'll start to get it and if he likes you yull know and he'll make the move!
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I think if you learn to turn half of those "z's" around you will gain the confidence to ask this man out.
Its spelt "boys" not "boiz"
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well i know this is hard, ive been through the same..but in life you cant just stand around and hope something will go along love myte be a mistake..but dont you think its worth it..imagin how bad ur gonna feel if you see him with another girl? at least try girl because in life you may regret what you do, but youll regret what you dont do more...
you cant live it safe.because then youll never live.
hoped i helped..
mwahhss byess
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rejection is something we ALL have to deal with sometimes in life..its part of life. I say live with no regrets..dont let joe turn into one of those stories where he says 6 months later "wow, you liked me? i liked you too..its too bad we never got together" dont let that happen! go for it..! if you try and he doesnt feel the same way..at least you dont have to sit there wondering what could have been..that would drive you nuts, wouldnt it?
if your too scared to talk to him in person about being more than friends...email him..talk online to him about it..get a close friend to mention it..and if he tells your friend that no he doesnt like you...then he asks "why are you asking?" all your friend has to do is reply that she was looking for someone to hook you up with and she thought you would be a good choice..this way you dont get rejected by him in your face..things might go smoother that way
i hope i helped..best of luck!
inbox me if you have any more questions :)
-melissa-
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