i like having fun getting loose as we say in NC getting crunk, im nice but mostly everyone says iam mean because i am a person who speaks her mind . i liike doing new things , i do like challenges , i am a black female representing where i come from to the fullset
Gender: Female
Location: nc
Occupation: high school student
Age: 14
Member Since: June 29, 2005
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Last Update: November 15, 2005
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ok...I went out with this one guy for about a year and we've been broke up for a few months now and im starting to fall for his friend...well him and my bestfriend started talking but they didnt like eachother that much they talked for about a week and then he told her that he wanted to play the field awhile or whatever and now i've been talkin to him on aim and like hes really sweet and he wanted to know when we was gone hook up or whatever and he swore to me he wouldnt do me wrong and all that stuff and hes really sweet and i think im fallin for him...but my ex doesnt really approve but hes startin 2 come around but my bestfriend didnt like it at first but now shes tellin me to go for it and stuff and then she talks bad about me behind my back...im really startin 2 like him and i think he likes me(or so he says he does) but i dont want to come inbetween him and my ex and hes scared hes gone come inbetween me and my friend and its really complicatin because we like eachother and we're talkin about hooking up next week or so should i go for it or should i just tell him we should be friends?
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if your friend was a true friend shell be happy for you regardless, obviously her this guy did not want each other so now you are getting yours a true friend is gong to be there thru thik n thin so i say hook up with him n let your friend get mad but explain things to her an dhow she should be ther e and remind her that she didnt want him.
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my hair is straight and thin and its hard to do anything with it, but i really want to make it wavy, i want it to look like i just let my hair air dry and it went really cute wavy, but since my hair doesnt naturally do that, how do i make it look that way (link)
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braid it and them in overnightor for a few hours and then take them out
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ok well i am so beyond mad right now and i feel so beyond betrayed, but here's the story. on saturday at 2AM, i woke up thinking about my ex bf of over a year ago. i got on IM cuz i really needed to talk to someone about it. so i was talking to my friend "Jane". and i told her how i thought he was the right one for me and all that stuff and she was like oh you should call him and stuff. so later i did and he asked me to come see him. later that night i was talking to "Jane" and she goes umm we need to talk. and then she told me she was going out with "John". i feel so beyond betrayed and all she's doing is saying she's sorry when she just totally stabbed me in the back and i want to kill her right now!! if she really cared she wouldn't have done it in the first place right? please help me sort this out!
thx...by the way i'm 14/f (link)
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be happy for her is it really worth losing a friend over some guy? NO it isnt yea what she did was wrong but look at it this way if you two are broken then its for a reason and it obviously wasnt meant to be so move and find yourself someone else that can make you happier than your ex ever made you and become friends with your ex if you want to
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me and my ex have been broken up for 5 months now but I cant seem to get over him.
We happen to have a class together and we sit next to eachother (seeting chart). Well we didn't talk the first week we were in that class then on Friday he started talkin to me. And ever since then we've been flirting. I know that we will not get back together, but he confuses me sometimes because he starts the flirting at times. Then we both happen to have 1st lunch and there's this girl who is all over him and that when I first experienced jelousy, I wanted to rip her face off and smash whatever is left on the ground. I don't like to feel jelousy because I want to get over him. I just dont know what to do. (link)
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if you want get over him i say start talking to and flirting with other guys it took me a year and some time to get over my ex im over him now and he and i are friends.but if you dont want to get over him and you want him back just tell him how you feel and maybe most likely he feels the same way too.depending on why yall broke up if yall want and if still have feelings 4 each other yall should get back together
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ok this is really odd but here it goes... im 14/f and eversince i can remeber ive been having these moments, when i feel like haveing sex but at one piont i didnt even know what i was thinking was sex and now its been a habit, and during these moments i rub myself down there and it feels good but then when the moments over ive got these gut feelings that its bad and it makes me sick, like it makes me wanna puk ive tried to stop but i just cant! plz someone HELP ME! im so scared! (link)
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no you're not weird your just dont wanna have sex with anybody and thats understandable
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well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP! (link)
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no sweetie you should not try to flirt with i think you should just stay there as a friend or just leave him a lone even though you some people just aren't worth and if he couldnt see how much you liked him then its great that he got a new girlfriend .just continue to be his friend
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Alright- so my best guy friend might like me. How do I let him know that I sort of like him too without being vulnerable to rejection? Or I guess how can I hint it to him in a subtle way? (link)
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DO NOT BULLSAHIT AROUND WITH YOUR FEELINGS OR HIS just be upfront with him and tell him how you feel daling with a guy is hard enough and then trying to tell him you like him oh that s even worse but just be real with him and you ll be happ you did even if you do get rejected b/c look on the bright side you'll still have him as a friend
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My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice. (link)
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i think that you should be with him because if you love him you should be with him and he shouldn't be makin that other girl think that he cares or whatever so i say go for it don't keep what yall have going on a secret or the way you feel about him a secret love is meant to be expressed. get rid of that other girl that is coming between yall
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my birthday is coming up and my mom asked me what i wanted. the problem is i have NO clue what i want. could someone tell me what they got before or if they have a good suggestions?
BTW:
~nothing too expensive because i also got boots that were very expensive
~im 13 and a female
will rate 5's (enless its a smartass answer) (link)
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ask her for some money
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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
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i understand you and your whole situation but look at it this way you could have a whole lot worse cause he couldve turned out to be one of those guys that didn't give damn about shit so basically you r lucky i say stay don't break it off cause if you do you will be wanting him back and you will regret and it is hard to find a good man so even though he does a lot of things to annoy you just tell him how you feel about it
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what is 69? nobody told me (link)
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i didn't know what it was so i asked my boyfriend but 69 is when someone is giving oral sex and recieving it at the same time it sounds so disgusting
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what are some tips to prevent odor during my period? (link)
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take a shower twice a day if u already do that go to three times a day
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what are STDS? how do u get them? can you get rid of them? what happens if you have STDs? (link)
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an STD is a sexually transmitted disease and u u get them by having sex with someone who has one and doesn't tell u and by having unprotected sex some of them are cureable others are just treatable
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
*helpless* (link)
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just tell your dad how you feel its kind of the same way with me and my dad except he didn't marry my mom's best friend but i don't like his wife so you have to tell him that when its time time 4 yall to do things she doesn't have to be included and that she should find something else to do while you and your brother are spending time with your dad.
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Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.
Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!
I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?
Note; I'm 13 & female. (link)
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tell him how you feel if acts like he doesn't care then ask him whats going on (you always gotta have another dude,guy on the side cause you never know) ask him whats going on And ask him whyhe hardly has time to talk to you but first get you a guy on the side kind o f like a rebound guy
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ok so i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months... and last week i went over his house and then we went to the pool..my mom told my dad that he needed to pick me up at 5:30..my dad actually came kinda early at around 4:45!!! so i was out of the pool and me and jared(my bf) were laying on the lawn chair together.. my leg was in between his legs and when i saw my dad i totally freaked out!! 2 days later at nite my bf called and my dad picked up the fone and told me to get off the fone!!! now i can't even talk to my bf!! and my mom is saying things like how my dad doesnt want me to see jared nemore!! and my dad had a chat with me in the car on the way home and he sed i looked like a SLUT!!! i love jared soooo much and i dont think i can take wut my parents a pressuring me to do!! and i cant just not talk to jared!!!
please please please help me!!!!
thanks!! (link)
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you have to xplain to your parents why your dad saw what he saw and also xplain that jared isnt the person they think he is its two people in a relation so it kind of takes two people two do wrong so tell your dad to stop buggin out let you explain your self and explain your feelings for jared if he doesn't want to hear it then talk to your mom but don;t end your relationship with your boyfriend b/c your parents are trippin maybe jared's parents can talk to your parents
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my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do? (link)
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give her some time and space but be there for her be her friend let her know that you there if she needs you but don't become too much of friends tell her how you feel about her and maybe she feels the same way too but jus give her time
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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
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naw its not really a problem not unless she feels it is or unless you do but other then that you do'nt have a problem
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Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this? (link)
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no you are not stupid for feeling this way my boyfriend is a bit shorter than i too and i am used to guys that r taller than me but if you love you gotta accept for who he is or how short or tall he is trust you'll find some way to get used to it
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Theres a girl named nikki and we broke up like 3 days ago and i cant get her out of my mind i really want her back but i dont know how to get her back i know she still loves me so what should i do (link)
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why did ya'll break up? naw but just be real with her and tell her how you feeel and have patience don't try to pressure her into anything and be open with her don't be afraid to open up to her good luck
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