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ok well i am so beyond mad right now and i feel so beyond betrayed, but here's the story. on saturday at 2AM, i woke up thinking about my ex bf of over a year ago. i got on IM cuz i really needed to talk to someone about it. so i was talking to my friend "Jane". and i told her how i thought he was the right one for me and all that stuff and she was like oh you should call him and stuff. so later i did and he asked me to come see him. later that night i was talking to "Jane" and she goes umm we need to talk. and then she told me she was going out with "John". i feel so beyond betrayed and all she's doing is saying she's sorry when she just totally stabbed me in the back and i want to kill her right now!! if she really cared she wouldn't have done it in the first place right? please help me sort this out!
thx...by the way i'm 14/f
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be happy for her is it really worth losing a friend over some guy? NO it isnt yea what she did was wrong but look at it this way if you two are broken then its for a reason and it obviously wasnt meant to be so move and find yourself someone else that can make you happier than your ex ever made you and become friends with your ex if you want to
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first off i am very sorry about what happened ... and your right if she really was your friend and truly cared about you and your feelings she would have told you strait off ... but she didnt ... so my advice to you is just not to talk to her for a while and let everything die down ... i know it will be hard ... but maybe if you just let it lay low it will blow over ... OR you could talk to "john" about his girl friend that is my advice ... sorry if it isnt the best !!
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dear triangle.
i understand how you feel, realy, i do. but YOU have to understand, you two have been over for a year, and do you realy want to keep your best friend from finding love? be happy for her, find a new b/f, and go on a double date.
Theresa1308
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just let her go out with him and be happy find a new boyfriend and help your friend out
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Wow! This girl definitely does not sound like a true friend. Especially if she started going out with this guy rite after you told her how you felt! I wouldn't even talk to her for a while, but that is just me! Did she mention anything about liking him before you told her how you felt about him? Maybe she did like him but couldn't tell you or didn't want to tell you, and then after you told her..she felt like she needed to get him before you did. That was really uncalled for tho, and I definitely think that wasn't something that a real friend would do. Try not to let it bother you too much tho, b/c there are plenty of guys out there. Probably better ones, and by the looks of it..it seems like there are better FRIENDS out there too!
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