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I'm a chick from South-Africa, who loves giving advice to friends and family. And now I've got my own column. I wil do my best to answer all your questions. C-ya. Please write to me.
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Ok .. long story short .. Im a freshie and hes a sophmore. hes new this year. He rides my bus as in four of my classes, and a few of my lunches. I like him. Hes funny. People think hes a retard but i dont. IM not the type of person who cares what people think as long as your happy. Im scared to talk to him.. SOOO SCARED. I cant do it.. i tried and i couldnt walk. Should i get a friend to talk to him for me ? How do i get his sn from him ? Do yooh think if we do start hanging out .. like after we start being friends if he wont like me caz im taller than him ? And also he was in my group for spainsh and when he talked he directed it at me. Do yooh think that could mean he wants to like get to know me ? he doesnt know many people since hes new. I need as much as advice as yooh can give me. If yooh do help me ill give yooh a cookie. And a hug. I know i seem weird in this but im really tired lol. I REALLY like him. what do i do ? i know i need to get the nerve to talk to him eventually.. but .. how ?
O.K. dont get a friend to talk to him, let him get to know 'YOU', not 'you' through a friend. just wait until you think the time is right, then go itro yourself and let it glide from there. oh, yes... dont wait too long, some1 else might have got to him by them.
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Theresa1308
Dear Theresa1308
What should I do if my best friend in the whole world (who’s a guy) doesn’t wanna speak to me, and I don’t even know what I did wrong?
Please help :-(
Confused in Cravenwich.
Dear Confused
Well, tats a tough one. I also went trough the same problem.
If he realy doesn’t wanna talk to you, try talking to one of his other close friend (one you can trust) and ask him/her if they know why he’s mad at you. If he/she doesn’t know/don’t wanna tell you, just go to him, and tell him that, what eva you did to make him mad, you didn’t mean it. And you would like to sort things out. Because you don’t wanna lose a friend like him.
This worked for me, Hopefully It will help you.
Theresa1308
ok well i am so beyond mad right now and i feel so beyond betrayed, but here's the story. on saturday at 2AM, i woke up thinking about my ex bf of over a year ago. i got on IM cuz i really needed to talk to someone about it. so i was talking to my friend "Jane". and i told her how i thought he was the right one for me and all that stuff and she was like oh you should call him and stuff. so later i did and he asked me to come see him. later that night i was talking to "Jane" and she goes umm we need to talk. and then she told me she was going out with "John". i feel so beyond betrayed and all she's doing is saying she's sorry when she just totally stabbed me in the back and i want to kill her right now!! if she really cared she wouldn't have done it in the first place right? please help me sort this out!
thx...by the way i'm 14/f
dear triangle.
i understand how you feel, realy, i do. but YOU have to understand, you two have been over for a year, and do you realy want to keep your best friend from finding love? be happy for her, find a new b/f, and go on a double date.
Theresa1308