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Boyfriend Doesn't Talk Much...
Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.
Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!
I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?
Note; I'm 13 & female.
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well if you see it as your the one who wants it to work out n he doesnt seem to putting in his effort then why waste your time at doing it because then youd be wasteing his time so tell hi mti find someone else who will do both halfs of the relationship
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Thank you :) I appriciate all the answers, they were all brilliant! <3 haha, I think I have enough rebound guys ;) That's what sort of makes him insecure about me :/ I'm too outgoing and am very friendly with guys.
haha, but I make sure to assure him that he's the only one I seriously take :) But yeah. Thanks so much for the answers! =D
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You should bring up things. Hmm.. just ask him questions. Ex: what are you doing this weekend? How was your day? Something like that. Maybe he will speak up more. I'm not too sure. Bring up random things.
Hope I helped <33
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tell him how you feel if acts like he doesn't care then ask him whats going on (you always gotta have another dude,guy on the side cause you never know) ask him whats going on And ask him whyhe hardly has time to talk to you but first get you a guy on the side kind o f like a rebound guy
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guys are shy.. i had the same problem with my ex boyfriend.. i know how you feel that he seems like he doesn't want to put any effort into it.. but guys are wierd like that.. i felt like i could never start a conversation with my ex because he was shy and that made me shy.. try spending more time together.. since he's to shy.. then you'll have to be able to start a conversation.. talk about something funny and interesting.. get him to laugh.. make jokes... the more you show him your comfortable around him the more he'll be comfortable too.. if he still acts like he could care less about your relationship.. then i don't think he's the right guy for you.. hope i helped
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Both of you have to put forth the effort or it just won't work out. Talk to him and ask him if he won't just at least try to talk more. If he doesn't you may need to find someone who will. He may be to immature for a relationship. :)
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