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How to make friends.
I'm a 3rd year high school student and I stay at the dormitory. The freshies in the dormitory wanna make friends with me. I'm just wondering if how could I make friends with them. I know I should make the first move because I'm older than them and the're new at our school.
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they most likely look up to you b/c your older and are looking for advice from anyone...
start with something like- hey, do you guys have [ put a teachers name in here ]? he/shes an awesome teacher....
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hey do you need any help finding your classes, if you do just ask me anytime...
most likley if you strike up a convo- they will tlk to you after that....
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Just dive in. Maybe show them around. That seems like the perfect way to me. Do you know a great place to eat? A great party in some other dorm or floor. Are any of them taking classes you used to take? Dig up some old assignments or tests and give them so help studying. Your experience makes you valuable to them and you might make some great friends too.
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Well, you can have some nice talk with them. If they really want to be your friends, why not? I mean, there's nothing wrong about being friends with younger kids. Well... maybe you can talk about some stuffs that you guys have in common, or maybe you can talk about anything else that they like. Actually, it's not easy for me to make friends, but I know a little bit. Maybe you can talk about classes and everything bout school!! You should try to be a good friend for them. Wish you luck.
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thats easy!! just start talking to them, it could be about anything, since you go to the same school you could talk to them about teachers?? or subjects?? which ones you hate, which you like, trust me its always a big topic!! after that you can talk about other things, don't feel you will always have to come up with topics . . they do have brains and interests as well!!
hope this helps
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It doesn't matter who makes the first move towards friendship so long as someone does! Just be friendly and talk to them and everything should work out just fine. :)
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