Hiya! Hiya for everyone!!! Everyone from Advicenators!!! And writers from FanFiction.net!! (Only for people who read my stories and my profile...)Actually, I hope my best friend, Sailor Itako would see this column... Bad thing she's in California... Anyway... I am here to give advices to everyone!! I will do my best to make y'all happy!!! Keep smiling everyone!! Happiness!! Happiness!!!
Name: Celcia Finolietta (in FanFiction), Vin (in real world), Go Chang Juan
Nickname: Vin or FCelcia
Interests: Reading, writing, drawing, dancing, singing, doing weird things, playing piano, giving advice to someone, shopping, etc.
Weaknesses: People, lizard, and school.
Goals: To be a writer, an artist, a pianist, a mangaka, dancer, etc.
Favorite things: Books, Fin mascot, Teddy Christopher, my piano, and jewelries. (+ Ghosts)
Favorite places to go: Library, Bookstores, London, Florence, Barcelona, Singapore, etc.
What makes you happy?: Books.
What you hate most?: Cheaters, arrogant people, liars, and people who say bad things about books and library.
E-mail: fcelcia@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Houston, TX
Occupation: Student, a reader, and an artist.
Age: 13
Yahoo: fcelcia@yahoo.com
Member Since: July 10, 2005
Answers: 26
Last Update: August 11, 2005
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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
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You don't want to break up with him, it means that you like him, deep inside your heart.
That's okay if he's jealous or sensitive, it just means that he loves you so much and does not want anybody else to be with you... In this case, you just need to prove him that you're loyal and you'll never betray him. He will probably understand. And hey, type of boy like him can be trusted. Well, you love him, and he loves you, the only thing that's missing is understanding... You should just talk to him if he really drives you insane. Just tell him to trust you.
Hope it will help you. I wish for the best luck for you and your boyfriend.
FCelcia
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im fourteen and going into the 9th grade. i dont think im ugly, not georgeous or anything, but not ugly. im not fat, but i could tone up a little. for some reason im always feeling insecure though. in school, i dont talk much in class && everyone says im really shy. now once i get to know people they'll tell you im the loudest person they know. i love to talk && gossip. but it takes me awhile to get to know people, i want to know how people act and what they like before i start talking about random things to avoid making them mad if they dont agree with me on something. well anyway, i just moved almost two years ago and i havent quite adjusted yet. ive made new friends but it seems people still see me as the new girl, and me being shy doesnt help at all. once in our developemental guidance class they asked my friend amy who she usually hangs out with, and she said me. than this kid matt says something about how we both never talk, than our friend kristen starts laughing and says we never shut up. i wish i could be more social with people i dont normally hang out with, and that way i could also make more friends. also, everyone thinks im a goody-good. which theres not anything wrong with, but im far from it and i dont want people to look at me like that. how can i learn to be comfortable around everyone? (link)
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Wow!! This is amazing... I mean... you're just like me!!! We are sooooo much alike!!! I used to be shy around people, then when I tried to open myself, I became the loudest person in the room. Just like you!!! See?? Well, it depends on you of you wanna be comfortable being around people. Maybe... just be yourself... be something that you wanna be. Like me... I'm like the weirdest person in my family, but I still can get along people even though sometime they look at me in disgust.
I think that your problem is that you listen to what people say about you... (I used to listen to what people said about me too when I was in 7th grade... and it really brought me down)Just ignore what people say about you. You are you!!! They are they!!! The more you think about it, the more you will get more depressed in yourself... Just do what you wanna do, there's nothing wrong with that... Feel confident!! (like me, who sleeps and sits in different direction that other people use to be, read from right to left, say 'happy easter' when it was christmas, etc)
Don't ever think that you are ugly!! You are beautiful in your own way, and I know that. And don't even listen to what people say, because they don't even know what they are talking about.
fcelcia
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half on August 23rd. We decided that we would just get each other something small and $25 or less.. but I have no idea what I should do and I'm stumped.. If you have any ideas, please let me know.. thanks a bunch! (link)
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Wow!! Happy Anniversary!!! Hope you guys will be always together!!! Well... what does he like?? Probably guys' stuffs. Like cd, shirt, watch, hat, necklace (for a boy of course), or maybe just give him something that really worthy. It does not have to be things, but can be more than that.
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I know i already talked about this but i dont care. its REALLY BUGGiNG ME. my bestfriend krystal got a new bestfriend heather. and everything about her just kills me. the simplist things. i dont care if im accting immature. i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me. all krystal talks about is heather this and heather that and how GOOD she is. it gets to me, so much. i cry myself to sleep so much. what do i do? i have already told krystal multiple times that i feel left out and ignored. (link)
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It's okay... you can cry... I'll give you a shoulder...
Well, Kristal is your truly best friend, is not she? If she was, she would always be your best friend, no matter what... Sometimes you have to loose something in your life. You can't have everything in the way you want it to be. I understand your feelings, my best friend left me cause she found another best friend too. Even though you don't want to make new friends, just try it. It worth it... Or maybe, you can just be like me... try everything new to forget your problems. IF you have nobody by your side, you still have you!!! Do things that can make you relax, but still, do some communication with Kristal...
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I'm a 3rd year high school student and I stay at the dormitory. The freshies in the dormitory wanna make friends with me. I'm just wondering if how could I make friends with them. I know I should make the first move because I'm older than them and the're new at our school. (link)
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Well, you can have some nice talk with them. If they really want to be your friends, why not? I mean, there's nothing wrong about being friends with younger kids. Well... maybe you can talk about some stuffs that you guys have in common, or maybe you can talk about anything else that they like. Actually, it's not easy for me to make friends, but I know a little bit. Maybe you can talk about classes and everything bout school!! You should try to be a good friend for them. Wish you luck.
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my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do? (link)
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What do you think you should do?? You have this strong feelings to her, there's nothing wrong about it. Just show her your feelings. Well, if you want to get her back... cheer her on. I actually am a girl, so I know how she feels. I think that she might be hurt, her bf cheated on her!!! If I were you, I would cheer her on. (That's a way to get a girl's heart...) Then tell her that there's bunch of boys who are better than her ex bf. Then tell her that you still like her. She maybe will think about that. I hope everything will work out. I wish for the best luck for you...
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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
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I don't think that there's anything wrong for a 7th grader to date a 6th grader. It's just... you like her, no matter what. (I like your attitude) It's fine if you just only could see her twice a week... It would be really special for her... especially if she liked you. So, ask her out!!!
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I am moving and all of my friends are sad. I dont know if i should move with my dad to be closer to my friends or move with my mom.
i dont know what to do i am so confused.
what do u think i should do?? (link)
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It seems that you don't really want to move with your dad... Well, I did have the same problem as you do. I moved to another state and all my friends were sad. But I still keep in touch with them. I send them e-mails and call them sometime.
You seem to be a really good friend. ^_^ Maybe you can be my friend instead. (That's if you want to, cause I don't have any friends...) Well, if you think that it's better for you to be with them, so move with your father. But if you think that you still can keep in touch with them, you can leave them. Don't worry, they're your friends, they won't leave you...
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13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice. (link)
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Okay... you haven't met this guy, right? You just know him from phone calls and internet, right?? And you believe in everything he says to you?? You're really sure that you want to meet him, but what about if he's not the one that you dream about??? You'll loose it. but I think you're a positive thinking one, so just go. Maybe you should ask for a friend to accompany you, you know that it's not save for a girl alone in a place.
FCeLciA
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ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my boyfriend broke up in march. but we still talk like were goin out like we still say i love you and everything. but than the other day i got asked out by another guy and i said yea. but when my xbf found out he was mad. and start sayin i thought you loved me and everything. so i broke up with my recent bf. cuz i still have feelings for my x i dont know what to do cuz my x says things will never be the same between us again so i dont know if i should move on or what someone please help me i rate high!!! (link)
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Why on the earth would you say yes to someone that you don't really like?? I'm just kidding...
Actually... you should not say yes to the 2nd guy, because you still have feeling for your x. Maybe you should come to your x and tell him how you feel about him, tell him that you still love him, but you have no idea what to do because you guys broke up in march. Tell him that you're free that time, so you can say yes to every guy... But hey, you still love him, tell him how you feel. And I hope the best luck for you. Don't worry, everything will work out!!
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what do boys see or like most in girls
eyes
nose
hair
legs
arms
boobs
please i rate high (link)
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If it's a bad boy, he'll like the boobs... I think... But if it's a nice guy... he'll like your manner, and everything about you!!! ^_^
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what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz
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Try to be his best friend. And maybe you should try to be a girl that he always wanted. It usually works. Well, just hope the best luck for you!!! ^_^
FCelcia
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ok so i finally got the courage to tell a guy friend of mine that i really him, and it took me forever! He told me that it was good news to hear, and then he's been gone at camp to help little kids and everything... it was all pretty new to us to tell eachother how we felt. And he and my friend just broke up (she cheated on him) and so they're not even friends anymore.. i was jw how to keep him intrested when he comes back? I want him to know i'm still kinda crazy about him.. but i don't know where to start.. and i don't wanna come off psycho! please help! thanks!
----> the girl next door (link)
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Well...that's good that you tell him how you feel!! That's a girl I wanna know... so brave!! I like the way you write about your boy...
hm...let me see... you still like this boy, right? Just tell him like you tell him before about your feeling toward him. Don't be shy. If you think that he still likes you, why don't you try??
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Today i was happy and ready to go to cheer camp. When i got there everyone was wearing the same color shorts eccept for me, i guess it was required. My mom drove me back home to change but i didnt have that color becasue someone borrowed them and never gave them back. My mom left to work and now im sitting home thinking of waether not i should of gone back. Its a three day thing, yesterday i went but i wore the wrong color and today im not going. they already made up the routine and gave me a spot but now they are gonna change it and i dont feel liek putting up with everyone askign me where i was and i just know that they are going to tlak behind my back.Everyone went besides me and liek 2 peple have areason bc they are on vacation. What do i tell people? (link)
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It seems like the 'color shorts' really brings you down. Don't let that happen... That's just only color shorts, right?? It may change few things, but it won't change your life, right?? You should just relax and enjoy whatever things going on. I think that's the only problem that ruins your days.
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Male 16
This is a complicated situation heres the story.
My friend started going out with a girl who hooked me up with one of her friends its been about 3 months and then my gf dumped me but thats not the problem the problem is me and my friends girl have become good friends but now shes starting to really like me and i cant go out with my friends ex unless it was alright with him (if she dumped him for me) and i dont wanna lose a friend so i need to know if theres is anyone to become just friends with my mates girl without hurting her feelings and without ruining hers and my m8s relationship
Any Suggestions? im stuck (link)
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I had the same situation like this in my life before. And my friend really hated me because her boyfriend liked me. All I did back in the past was avoiding him, but it did not work. So I just told him that I just wanted to be friends, and that's all. It means that all you can do for now is to tell her that you don't wanna to go out with her, well... actually.... tell her the truth!! She needs to know that... You should tell her before you'll hurt everybody's feelings, I think.
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Dear FCelcia... I have this problem with my friends. They hate me, but pretend to love me in front of me. I know that they insult me lately behind my back, but what can I do? I slapped one of my friends yesterday for calling me a bitch. Then she tells everyone at school that I called her a bitch and slapped her. That's so not true!!! But everyone at school believes in her story and hates me now. I really don't know what to do anymore.
I'll rate you high. (link)
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Maybe you should just tell all your friends to get away from you and say this to them, "What are you guys looking at?? You know what, you should not looking at a bitch!! Now, go away!" And your friends will feel guilty that they make your reputation bad. Maybe that's all I can say for now. Good luck with that. I hope you with all the luck!!!
*FCelcia*
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its hard to say that my golden years are gone and i have to help my family do stuff witch i dont care about that but when something happens to me i cant tell my mom what im feeling because my mom would tell the world so i want to depend on my friends but im ganna move because im ganna loose the house well not me but my parents i cant do anything to help but i cant fall on anyone to help me and my only cloose cloose friend is kayliegh and she likes my 17 year old brother but has never mate him or said 1 word to him so thats the problem i dont know if shes just useing me to get close to scott im not sure i dont know if i can fall on her without getting hurt.im a 13 year old girl and im interrested to boys not girls (link)
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You are thirteen??!!! Me too!!! Maybe we can be friends!!!
Well... you are still thirteen, that's all the matter. You don't have to do anything for your family's finace. Your jobs are to go to school, be a good student, be a good daughter, and that's all. You don't have to think about anything else than that. To help your family, you just only have to do your jobs, and nothing else.
If you don't want to get hurt, it means that you're not ready to have a friendship from the first time. I have been hurt so badly by my bestfriends, and I'm okay with that, even though I was really hurt inside. That's because I knew that it would happen one day. Maybe you should ask her if she's just using you. Does she always talk or ask about your brother when you guys are chatting?? If she does, then she's just using you. Or maybe, if she has been your bestfriend before she knew that you have a brother, she's your bestfriend.
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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
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Well...that depends of how he feels about you. If he still likes you, he will get jealous. But if he doesn't, maybe he won't. But probably he will get jealous seeing you with another guy, cause you were with him before. He will miss your presence if he sees you with other guy.
*FCeLciA*
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well i have a problem... every one at school makes fun of me cuz i have like absoulutely no!!! boobs. i cant do anything about it but everyone makes fun of me like its my fault. i have no clue what to do. and the main reason why i have no boobs is because i havent had my period and its not like i can control that either! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! (link)
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Don't worry about it, girl!! You'll get everything work out!!! Everyone has their own time of period and time of growing up. You maybe get it a little late, but soon you'll have the same thing like them!! If they make fun of you, just tell them that they were having no boobs too before, and they do for now. Just say,"You say it like my life would end just because I have no boobs? I maybe have no boobs, but sooner or later, I will!!" Say it loudly, girl!! Show 'em who's the boss!!
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hey everyone i want to become a singer but i cant sing so is there a way i can learn? (link)
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Maybe you can go to the music institute and learn something. You maybe want to learn the first steps of singing. Try to find a good trainer for you, it probably will help you.
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