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late bloomer
well i have a problem... every one at school makes fun of me cuz i have like absoulutely no!!! boobs. i cant do anything about it but everyone makes fun of me like its my fault. i have no clue what to do. and the main reason why i have no boobs is because i havent had my period and its not like i can control that either! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
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Well,first let me say people shouldn't judge you on your bra size.
But,I have heard if you flex and work out your chest muscles and massage your breasts that it MAY help them grow.
I am not sure if this is true or not.
But please,don't be in any rush to grow up,your special just the way you are.I know I do not know you,but just trust me,you are.
Just let it come naturally.
Hope I've Helped,
~Long Lost <3
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Dear Late Bloomer,
I was always made fun of becuase these girls made stuff up about me. I know it's not the same, but do what i did. Find some true friends, and hang with them. And when some one says something mean to you, the turn the other way and pretent you didn't hear them. Soon, it will all blow over! Trust me!
Good Luck
Barrysbabygirl
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pft. just ignore them. they only keep doing it because you let it get to you and they see that.
or if it really bothers you, just laugh it off and say "i know, but its not my fault" and brush it away like its nothing, if they see its not bothering you (or seems to not be bothering you anyways) then they'll back off.
and dont worry, that will all happen soon enough.
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Exactly, it's not your fault. Just ignore them; they won't get the attention they want if you just pretend that they aren't saying anything. There's really not much you can do, except for trying a padded bra. Just try on lots of clothes that make you feel confident in your body.
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ignore them. my friend was the same way, she finally started all that wonderful puberty stuff. but enjoy it while you can with not having boobs or your period. lol. but there isn't anything you can do, and just ignore people, they are just jealous that you don't have to worry about anything yet.
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hi. all that maters is that your ok with your self. i know girls in my grade that have no boobs. and im in 9th grade. people will get over it. they will learn to know you for who you are not what your boobs look like. please wright back and rate me please and hope i helped.
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Don't worry about it, girl!! You'll get everything work out!!! Everyone has their own time of period and time of growing up. You maybe get it a little late, but soon you'll have the same thing like them!! If they make fun of you, just tell them that they were having no boobs too before, and they do for now. Just say,"You say it like my life would end just because I have no boobs? I maybe have no boobs, but sooner or later, I will!!" Say it loudly, girl!! Show 'em who's the boss!!
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i used to be that its ok since i cant controll it i awalys thought of it like hey when i get a boyfriend it means he likes me for who i am and not for what i have to show on my body
cuz if you have big boobs and a big butt you really never know if the person likes you
dont stuff your braw dont do that cuz then people could tell the differnce and thell know you do just try a padded braw
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
~kelly
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not alot you can do hun apart from wearing a padded bar!! lol
You could do thoses 'bust exercises, aparently they help a bit...
Put one arm ontop of the other in front of ure boobs, so ure hands are touching the opposite elbows. Clench ure fists and pull ure arms back sticking ure chest ourwards. then repeat three times and then straighten ure arms when you pull them back on the forth time.
Do this as much as you can - the more you do it the bigger they will get!!
luv nicki xxx
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not alot you can do hun apart from wearing a padded bar!! lol
You could do thoses 'bust exercises, aparently they help a bit...
Put one arm ontop of the other in front of ure boobs, so ure hands are touching the opposite elbows. Clench ure fists and pull ure arms back sticking ure chest ourwards. then repeat three times and then straighten ure arms when you pull them back on the forth time.
Do this as much as you can - the more you do it the bigger they will get!!
luv nicki xxx
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not alot you can do hun apart from wearing a padded bar!! lol
You could do thoses 'bust exercises, aparently they help a bit...
Put one arm ontop of the other in front of ure boobs, so ure hands are touching the opposite elbows. Clench ure fists and pull ure arms back sticking ure chest ourwards. then repeat three times and then straighten ure arms when you pull them back on the forth time.
Do this as much as you can - the more you do it the bigger they will get!!
luv nicki xxx
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who cares? You should just tell them that they are low even for noticing that. Wow, what immature freaks. And you should tell them that even though your body hasn't matured yet, your mind sure has, unlike theirs. You will eventually...grow, so don't worry about it. It's completely normal. But if things with your classmates get worse, make sure you tell a teacher because it could be sexual harassment.
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People are awfully shallow, and will pick on you for anything no matter what. Either your boobs are too small or too big (a lot of people get picked on for having big boobs - true fact) so you're never going to please everyone. Everyone gets their period at different stages, it can be from 9 - 15 years old, so don't worry there. It's not like they're completly perfect anyway.
But if you're REALLY self-conscious of it, you can always get a padded bra so it looks like you have more there. Soon enough, though, you'll get your period (which, I might add, you're very fortunate to NOT have right now!) and you'll be on par with everyone.
Good luck.
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this is something that alot of teenagers go through somepeople get teased because they have developed early in there teen years and those that do hate it just as much as you i no the teasing must really hurt you and its not nice when it comes to things like late developing but thats the thing everyone develops at different ages so dont feel your alone cause your not and trust me having your period or having breast isnt as good as you think either but i bet it doesnt feel normal not having them well i would just like to say its completely normal im sure you will start developing soon
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Everyone delevops at different stages, you're right, it isn't your fault if you haven't grown breasts or started your period yet. Unfortunately, there isn't anything you can do to speed up the process. Remember that most people go through puberty between the ages of 11 and 18 so you've probably got a few years yet. You will probably get your period after you start developing breasts and once you get it, believe me, you'll wonder why you ever wished it would come. Periods suck. As for your breasts, there's nothing you can do to make them grow faster. You could try wearing a padded bra for a bit of extra confidence and to stop people teasing you. If they carry on then it's a form of bullying and you need to speak to a teacher or another trusted adult to get it stopped.
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Well, you're right, it isn't your fault! And you should def. not feel like it is. Late bloomers are just late bloomers! There's nothing you can do about it, obviously everyone has noticed your lack of breasts, so "stuffing" wouldn't be the proper way to go about things, the most you really can do is be comfortable with yourself, that way the insults won't hurt your feelings, and another thing, don't pay attention to what other's say or think about you, It only matters how you feel!
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