ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my boyfriend broke up in march. but we still talk like were goin out like we still say i love you and everything. but than the other day i got asked out by another guy and i said yea. but when my xbf found out he was mad. and start sayin i thought you loved me and everything. so i broke up with my recent bf. cuz i still have feelings for my x i dont know what to do cuz my x says things will never be the same between us again so i dont know if i should move on or what someone please help me i rate high!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Alpha345 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:34 pm: You need to move on for sure. Your boyfriend has already said there will never be anything with you two again so you need to move on. You never want to dwell too much on the past, but dwell more about the present, because the present leads to the future. So how you take the present is how you take the future. If your already broke up then there is nothing holding you back to go with another guy other than your feelings. It's only natural to still feel something for your ex boyfriend/girlfriend after a breakup. But eventually your gonna have to get over it and just move on, like I said before. Hope this helps and you get everything straitened out!
FCeLciA answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:24 pm: Why on the earth would you say yes to someone that you don't really like?? I'm just kidding...
Actually... you should not say yes to the 2nd guy, because you still have feeling for your x. Maybe you should come to your x and tell him how you feel about him, tell him that you still love him, but you have no idea what to do because you guys broke up in march. Tell him that you're free that time, so you can say yes to every guy... But hey, you still love him, tell him how you feel. And I hope the best luck for you. Don't worry, everything will work out!! [ FCeLciA's advice column | Ask FCeLciA A Question ]
partygurl24 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:13 pm: I think that you should straighten things out with your ex. It's obvious that he still has feelings for you, and that you still have feelings for him. It's hard for him to think that you've moved on if you two still love eachother. He's getting the wrong idea about this, and you need to let him know that before it's too late. Let him know that you still love him, and that you guys can still have that love if he wants to. He's hurt, and one way to show him that you care about him is to comfort him, cheer hi up, and let him know that you and that other guy have no relashionship at all. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
i_define_weird answered Thursday August 4 2005, 8:48 pm: Well, first of all, if you still had feelings for your ex-boyfriend, then you shouldn't have said yes to the other guy. I dont blame your ex-boyfriend for getting madd about that. Tell your ex-boyfriend that you made a mistake && that you really do love him. Make him feel like you two really going out. Talk to him like you two used to. Good luck && hope i helped.
margarita_luvs_ya answered Thursday August 4 2005, 8:46 pm: You need to move on because if things were meant to be they would've been here. Still be friends with your ex give your new boyfriend a chance. Take time cause this is not gonna be easy. good luck. [ margarita_luvs_ya's advice column | Ask margarita_luvs_ya A Question ]
Supermanlover45 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 8:46 pm: Personally, I would tell your X boyfriend that you were confused at the time when you said yes to that other guy. And tell him that when I saw you upset because of it I got more emotional and more feelings for you. Tell him you love him and always will love him, tell him you want things to be the same between both of you and that the other guy meant nothing to you just to see if you really wanted him (meaning your ex). He does care for you. I mean geesh he's an ex and still says "I love you" and if he didn't he wouldn't have gotten mad about the fact that you went out with another guy other than him. Hope you will get back together. Like anybody else would say tell him how you feel. Hope I helped! And Good luck.
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