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I know i already talked about this but i dont care. its REALLY BUGGiNG ME. my bestfriend krystal got a new bestfriend heather. and everything about her just kills me. the simplist things. i dont care if im accting immature. i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me. all krystal talks about is heather this and heather that and how GOOD she is. it gets to me, so much. i cry myself to sleep so much. what do i do? i have already told krystal multiple times that i feel left out and ignored.
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If Krystal really acts like that, then you shouldn't call her a 'friend'. A friend is someone who cares. A friend is someone there for you through good times and bad. Krystal is being unsuportive and doesn't act like a friend. If she doesn't listen to you, you'll just ahve to get over the fact that you can't meet new people. You should. Let your heart decide!!! Follow it and it'll lead you to some direction better than Heather and Krystal! Go for it and try! Like I always say "Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark; professionals built the Titanic!" try something new and break out of this shell your hiding in.
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I would just try telling Krystal exactly how you feel. Tell her that you feel left out & that you feel like Heather is replacing you as her best friend. Tell her that you don't want to lose her as your best friend, but she should really try to think of your feelings & include you more if she is really your best friend.
If she doesn't listen, I would just try hanging out with different people while she is hanging out with Heather. Just hang out with her when Heather isn't around since you don't like Heather.
I hope everything works out for the best! If you need anything else, just leave it in my inbox.
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If Krystal is really your best friend she will listen to you. If not then you can try and work around her being friends with Heather, but by the sound of it Krystal is going to end up being some kind of best friend's with Heather. Which is kinda sad
Make a pitch to Krystal and tell her your exact feelings. If she is your real best friend, then she is gonna listen to you. But if she is going to choose and ignore it...then you can find a better friend than that and won't ditch you for someone new. I'm sorry this is all going downhill for you, but maybe it would be best if Krystal doesn't want to listen, to try and make some new friends, because you don't want a friend who is going to ditch you for someone else, that isn't a very good friend.
I hope this helps and you get things straitened out with Krystal.
-Ryan
P.S. If you need anything, drop something in my inbox or IM me at (AIM) Alpha0mega345. Good luck!
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Well since your not willing to do any of these..:
i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me.
Then theres nothing you can really do but try and hang out with krystal more.. do something fun that you know she would love.. so basically just try to steal her away from heather.
Since you've told her many times how you feel.. then don't be a nag and tell her again.. because that will most likely lead to a fight and then she'll really be closer with heather.
But really, you should try being friends with heather.. i mean at least you'd get to spend time with krystal.
And you should also try to make new friends.. doing that could make krystal feel the same way you do.. and then she'll realize how you felt with the whole thing with heather.
hope i helped
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maybe krystal thinks that you dont wanna hang out with her...dont worry about it- thing will go back to normal...if you really want some alone time with her to hang and tlk..be like- "hey we havnt hung out in a while- why dont we got to the mall this weekend?"
or sometimes if theres like a dance you can get ready together..be like
" hey wanna come over to my house b4 the dance so we can get ready....and maybe we can have a s/o after..like the old dayys..."
if you need more advice- im here 4 ya...dont ever hesitate to ask..
muchh lovve
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It's okay... you can cry... I'll give you a shoulder...
Well, Kristal is your truly best friend, is not she? If she was, she would always be your best friend, no matter what... Sometimes you have to loose something in your life. You can't have everything in the way you want it to be. I understand your feelings, my best friend left me cause she found another best friend too. Even though you don't want to make new friends, just try it. It worth it... Or maybe, you can just be like me... try everything new to forget your problems. IF you have nobody by your side, you still have you!!! Do things that can make you relax, but still, do some communication with Kristal...
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hahaa your a real comedian your the kind of person that i hate someone comes on here looking for help and you give them so stupid remark
ok now about krystal and heather
okay well krystal is your bestfriend right?
so krystal should always be your bestfriend with or without heather
if krystal doesnt understand that you are left out than krystal doesnt understand anything about being bestfriends
krystal doesnt sound like much of a bestfriend to me
thats all i have to say
good luck
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