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okay this is my first like real actual relationship and i've never been in love before...hence why im asking this question.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and i think im in love, i don't really know what love it but whenever im with him, i feel like thats where i wanna be forever and its corny but i always get those "butterflies" when im with him and thinking about him and he treats me like a goddess and he cares about me so much, and he proves it to me. I know its hard for someone else to have any say but what do you think? we haven't said I love you yet, I kinda want to but i want to make sure that i 100% mean it with all my heart before i say something like that
...any advice? or stories of when you said your first "i love you" and what happened? thankss.
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I would deffinetly say your falling for this boy.
the thing is, is that once most guys know that they have your complete affection, they get bored.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months, and looking back on our relationship in the beginning compared to now i can see how much our feelings have grown for eachother.
after a month or two of dating in texts and stuff we would say "love you" and such, but we never said it in person because its so much different saying it in person than it is through texts/aim, and when we said it through text i always meant it as i love you, your such a great person i'm so happy to be with you, but one day we were hugging and he was just like "i love you so much" and i couldn't say it back, i thought i loved him, but when i had to respond to that and couldn't i knew i wasn't completely in love with him yet... he said it to me a few more times after that and still i had no response, but after about 6 months i was able to say it comfortablly and know that i meant it and it turned out to be something really special instead of just throwing words around and i knew we both appreciated it more because i had waited to say it.
honestly, i don't think it is wise for you to say it to him first because it just confirms that he feels the same exact way about you if you let him say it first and its just more of a reassuring feeling to hear it from him first. WHen your in the moment, you'll know whether its right to say it back to him, if you open your mouth and nothing comes out than its not the right time no matter how much you think you do love him, but if the words do come out with you thinking twice about it, thats when you know its real.
if you don't overthink it, the moment will be much more special :] hope i helped
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I'm at a tough point in my life. Not majorly, but I could use some guidance. For so long I've been limiting myself...I haven't been being myself and during many situations I don't know who it is I am. Like last night: I had a sleepover with two girls who are very genuine, fun people and they were dancing and I made an attempt to join in, but physically my body refuses to be in motion. Not because I'm afraid of what they'll think when I begin to dance, but because I'm so critical of myself. What could be done about this? Also, when I'm very relaxed, my personality is at it's finest, so what are some methods of getting relaxed often, without the use of drugs? Thanks! (link)
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eee i had the same thing. I just couldn't dance in front of my friends. I mean i had never really danced before, and they were such good dancers. And so when i would dance i just couldn't get my body to move right [also because i was critical] So what i did was turn up some music when i was home alone and just dance. No ones there to watch you. Just look in the mirror and see which way your body moves best. I know that this seems silly but once you are comfortable dancing by yourself, you'll be even more comfortable dancing in front of people. You just gotta go with the flow of the music. I've also watched my friends danced and picked up some stuff from them.
Hmm, getting relaxed. Well normally to relax myself, i just say WHATEVER to everything. I try not to think too much into things, like what if i'm weird. what if i can't be myself, what if i'm left out. I find when you start thinking about all the what ifs you get even more self concious and quiet. And all of that prevents you from being relaxed and showing your true personality. You just gotta be out there, show who you are. People will most likely like you even better. I always feel people can detect when someones uncomfortable or not showing who they really are.
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So heres the deal i like a guy who has a gf, bad choice i know!. We've known eachother for about a year now but we just started hangin out a few months ago. Basically he told me that he liked me but i didnt know he had a gf and he didnt bother to tell me until the next time we hung out.Well one weekend we made out, i know thats REALLY bad and i feel bad that i did it but he doesnt. Hes proud of it and he talks to my best friend about it all the time. But he always has his arm around me and i catch him starin at me and smiling and he always hugs me bye. Do you think he actually likes me or am i just a hookup? (link)
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i think it's just more of a hook up.
if he really liked you he'd break up with his girlfriend asap. He's just a typical guy. Don't let him get to you, and don't let yourself become his "bootycall" lol.
uhm i really don't know whatelse to tell you.
i was in sort of a similar situation, and i told myself i wouldn't hang out with the guy until him and his girlfriend ended things, and then i'd see what would happen between us. I'm trying to give the guy some space now, kind of playing hard to get also.
Oh and this saying is so typical, but "whatevers meant to be, will be" If it doesn't work out for you two, there's always gonna be another guy for you.
And lastly, the whole thing about him bragging is just him being an idiot of course and trying to make himself look good. He's probably bragging about how he can get any girl he wants, which is not cool at all. Try to prove him wrong about that. He's a cheater, he doesn't deserve to get every girl.
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Why do most people hate cheerleaders?
I don't understand it at all.
please help me! (link)
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well youu see,
in my school they complain about every little thing
like they think what they do is so hard,
when really it's not
i could wave my hands in the air, kick around, and scream
i don't see them doing speed workouts, getting muddy and dirty, getting their hair ruined out in the rain, or actually breaking a good sweat like all of the other sports, so they're not anything special, but they think they are.
yeah and blah blah blah, they're snotty, so on and so forth, but i don't know any of them personally, but i'm sure theres some of them who aren't like that.
plus they're high maintenance, i mean come one get over yourself
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I heard from a few people that by wearing sports bras it cause boobs to lose their shape and sag. Does anyone know for sure if this is true or not. And if you know someone that wears sports bra and they don't have shape, would wearing underwire help support it and maybe gain the shape back if they weren't wearing a bra? thanks! (link)
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i'm not too sure
but judging from the answers already given i suppose it is a yes..
i just have a bit of a tip..
what i do is i only wear sports bras when i excercise, but i keep my regular bra on underneath the sports bra for extra support.
It helps from keeping your boobs to sag,
so yeah =] i know that has nothing to do with what you asked, but i guess it doesn't hurt to add in a little something extra :D
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a few days ago me and my friend were talkin and i pointed out to my friend that she had a big nose, and then she told me i had a big belly. well i told my mom what she said and my mom called her mom. they started argueing and my friends mom said that what her daughter said about me was true, that i did have a big belly and i needed to stop wearing tight shirts and hip huggers because my "wobbly mess" hanging out everywhere was repulsive. do you guys think what my friend said to me was rude, or did she have every right to say it because i said she had a big nose? do you think her mom had the okay to say what she did about me? (link)
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neither of you guys said the right thing.
you both said something that hurt one another.
maybe your friend is really self conscious about her nose, and when you said that she was hurt, so decided to get back at you by saying you had a big belly.
i think everyone [including the parents] just got caught up in the moment. her mom was probably trying to protect her daughter, but she went about it in the wrong way.
i personally think it's unnecesary to point out things such as people having big bellys, or big noses, or anything that is hurtful to someone else. i mean now your friend is probably looking in the mirror every five seconds, comparing her nose to others people noses, trust me, people told me i had a big nose and to get a nose job, and i cried, now i'm so self conscious about it.
maybe the next time you see her you guys can patch things up and give her a compliment.
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okay today i was running outside in my neighborhood. i forgot to stretch and since i have health now in school (13/f) i havent done gym for a while.. and my basketball thingie ended about 2 months ago, and volleyball on saturdays just finished like last week. i dont run alot on a daily basis.. maybe to like the bus in the morning or like.. during school sometimes.. but not really.
anyways i ran really fast on the toes of my sneakers pushing myself to go real fast.. (im training to be the fastest soccer player on my school team next year, since i didnt make it this year.) and then after my feet were like shaking a little and i felt like my feet were hurting. i'd been running for about 20 mins then.. does that like litle pain in my feet mean that im losing calories or something? hm.. thanks.
also how can i get better at soccer? im not that amazing.. i've only played 3 rec seasons.. but iv'e always loved it but i never had a chance to play when i was younger (i did basketball and dance when i was younger) but i'd loooove if i can get on the top team for my school next year since i didnt even make the second team, the B team. i just love soccer so much tell me how i can become a hella lot better! THANKS! :) (link)
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hey,
well the shaking in your feet just meant you were working out muscles that hadn't been worked out in a while,
basically you were working out hard, which is a good thing.
your feet probably hurt because you were running on your toes. i've noticed when i sprint or run really fast i can feel myself running on my toes which causes my feet to hurt after wards. make sure your wearing the proper shoes when you run though, but i'm guessing you are since you seem athletic. also, make sure your shoes are the right size, i'm on cross country and track, and my coach told me to get a half size bigger than my normal shoe size when i buy running shoes. that helped me when i was having problems with my toes
as for the part about getting better at soccer, i'm not really sure, considering i'm not a soccer player lol
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Ok, i have braces, and i only need them for a year. I already have Natural Discoloration in my teeth, and i've noticed my teeth are getting like kind of stains on them i think from the braces, but i cant tell. I brush my teeth pretty well and use mouthwash and i brush them alot. does anyone who HAD braces know if when they take the braces off and you have stains they whiten your teeth? i'm so worried i'm gonna have stains!!! (link)
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hey, i had braces, and when they took them off i had stains. it stinks, and i didn't know why cauz i did everything they told me to and brushed a lot. just brush a lot, use a floride called ACT, it helps prevent cavities. Also, i have a floride that actually whitens your teeth, i'm not sure what it's called because my parents use it, and i occasionally use it.
I might get my teeth whitened by my dentist, or use crest white strips or something. but maybe the next time you go to the orthodontist ask if they can tell if you are getting stains or not.
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I have a really good friend Sarah. Not too long ago, she continuously asked me who my "#1" best friend was. She said that I was hers and finally got it out of me that she was mine. She kind of had this look on her face that said "Finally! I thought she'd never say it!" but at the same time, "O yea! Now time to crush some girls lives..." I immediatly regretted saying that, becuase I don't like to look at my friends like a list of who I like best and worst.
Not too long after, she started getting along even better with her friend Britany then she had before. Now, she said Britany was 49% #1 and I was 51% #1. So pretty much, I was still "#1". Although it bothered me to think of things this way, it was conforting just to know that she liked me at all. So I wasnt about to go tell her off or something.
Eventually, I think she got mad at me. She said Britany was her #1 and my friend Desiree could be mine. (Id known Desiree since kindergarten but still didn't consider her my BEST friend over everyone else in the world.) This just about killed me, and my self esteem got really low. Especially since I had been trying so hard to become friends with Britany so this would feel like less of a battle over Sarah.
Just today, I tried confronting Sarah about this. This is how our convo went:
me:do you rate friends?
sarah: no... why?
me:do you remember in the first trimester when you were always asking me like, "whos your #1 though? whos ur very best friend?" and i finally told you that it was you? and then you said that i was like 51% and britany was like 49% #1? then, you told me that britany was your #1 and dessiree could be mine?
that killed me more than anything... and that was the last thing you told me. and now, here you are telling me "i dont rate friends? i rly rly need like a true, from the heart, deep down, answer. no more lies. do you think you could do that?
3:53 PM do you think you could tell me 4 real that you dont have a #1 but maybe two or three %0 or #30 %s?
sarah: i have 2
sarah: hello
me: yea
sarah: so...
me: you have 2 what?
did you read all i typed ther?
sarah: best friends in the whole wide world
sarah: ya...i did
me: do you mean me and britany or are you going back 2 just me...
im so confused.
because you said you were w/ me 50/50
i dont want you 2 say just me
sarah: lets just stop talking about this
me: that would suk if you went back 2 that
me: ok
sarah: thank you
me: im sry
sarah: you should be, jk
sarah: jkjkjkjk
me: ...
sarah: r you mad
me: no...
me: just confused like i said
sarah: yep
sarah: g2g
me: ok
I could tell she was avioding that and I didn't know why. I'm soo confused... please help me get her to stop doing this...and even if she does, can you tell me how to deal with it?
Thank you so so so so much! (link)
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heyy.. sorry i couldn't get back to you sooner, i've been very busy studying for midterms and such =\.
ok so i don't know how old you are, but you and your friend sound a lot like me and my best friend when we were in 6th and 7th grade. She always wanted to be my number one friend, and in the beginning i didn't really care about the "rankings" of my friends, but her influence was so strong, that i started to care about it. Soon enough, i really wanted to be her number one friend, and did not want anyone else to take my spot as her best friend. It was all just immature and stupid, and we now relize that.
You said that you think she got mad at you, and then started to say that britany was her #1 friend. -- this may just be her way of trying to show she is mad at you, or trying to get you upset since she was upset. we all do/say things when we are mad that we regret later on.
Also, she probably really likes you, and that is why she wanted to be your #1 friend. It is very hurtful when someone values a friendship more than the other person does, so she probably just wanted to make sure you valued your friendship with her as much as she did, but instead of going about it in a mature way she decided to make it a popularity contest when in the beginning you never thought that it was.
I understand how you feel when you say your self esteem got really low. Don't let it get any lower than it already is. You have to boost your confidence now before it is too late. Be outgoing to everyone, and even be nice to people who you don't particularly care for. If your nice, funny, and outgoing, everyone will like you, and if they don't, well that's there loss.
It's good that you confronted sarah about this, but you may have went about it in the wrong way. Instead of talking about you sharing your #1 spot with britany, you should have tried to mend your friendship with her. SHe got you caught up in this popularity contest, and you have to get out of it. Tell her that you think she's a great person, and don't want to loose a friendship over this whole thing.
You have to move on from this whole thing, just say your sorrys, and then be a great friend to her. Try and start over, and also keep Desiree close, because it is perfectly alright for both you and sarah to have 2 best friends.
If this situation continues, you just have to let time pass, there's really not much you can do to change sarah, she will eventually realize that she is being immature, but until then you just have to stick through it. My friend and I stuck through it and she is no longer jealous, and i do indeed have 2 best friends, her and another girl. =] If you don't think you can take it anymore, than become closer with a whole different group of people. Leave the past behind, and meet completely new people, because there will be no rankings there.
good luck =]
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what is "it ends tonight" by the all-american rejects about??
also, what are some really really sad songs? im talking lyrics, the music, and the singers voice. (link)
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i'm not sure what that song is about, but i can name a few sad songs for you...
"straitjacket feeling" by the all american rejects
"say goodbye" by ashlee simpson (wait for the corus its amazing!)
"hopeless love" by daphnee loves derby (such a good song!)
"Iris" by the goo goo dolls
"save yourself" by senses fail (one of there softer songs, its such a great song)
"not what it seems" by something corporate
"konstantine" by something corporate (its like a 10 minute song lol)
"the tide" by the spill canvas
hope you enjoy them =]
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im f/13/7th
when i was not even in preschool yet, i wanted 2 get married to this guy named kalub. our parents agreed, (as a joking around kind of thing) and we got married in thier drive way. we accually kissed and everything!
now what im wondering, is...
since i kissed him, is my first kiss technically lost forever? i mean, we werent even in preschool yet, but we still kissed. HELP, I NEED 2 NO (link)
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hey aww... well a first kiss has a different meaning for everyone. its basically just what you believe.
i believe a first kiss is your REAL first kiss when you actually make out/hook up and it means something, like if you get the butterflies and everything. your first kiss will be with someone you truly love. technically if you kiss someone for the first time it is your first kiss, but it doesn't matter until you kiss someone that you truly love because it will be a kiss that you remember forever. this is just what i believe, but you may have a different opinion =]
i think that even though you guys kissed, its no biggie, you guys were very young and didn't understand much. it's not like you guys made out or anything lol. so don't worry about it. =]
hope i helped =]
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Hi! I'm 15 years old and my first love relation was when i almost 15- 2 moths before. So sometimes i think of Rayneel, my ex and sometimes when i feel lonely i remmember him... Do you think i till like him?
Deiry (link)
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he was your first love, of course your not going to forget him so quickly. only you can tell if you still like him or not. i mean, when you see him do you still get the butterflies? does you still wait for him to call? i don't know if you guys still talk or anything, but you just have to remember how you felt about him when you were with him and then compare those feelings to how you feel now. does he still make you feel happy like he used to when you think of him?
also, these thoughts may just be out of lonelyness. when i get lonely, i think of my ex, and he dumped me over a year ago lol, but i don't still like him, i just like the thought of being with someone, and since i don't have that, i turn to him and remember all the times we had together.
so yeah =] hope i helped!
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Ok so the deal is that i had this boyfriend that i truly loved and we broke up,and he is a liar and its really not worth going back with him.The point is that i still love him.I have another guy who is really nice and wants to get to know me,even though it has been 5 months since my ex and i broke up i still have feelings for him and im afraid that jumping in another relationship is bad.I feel that i might end up hurting this new guy or maybe im just afraid of getting hurt again but im also afraid of letting a good guy go...Should i take the risk and give this new guy a chance because he is really nice and does make me feel something,or should i just be single for a while more until i dont have any more feelings for my ex? (link)
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listen, i know what it feels like to be afraid to get hurt, and i know what it's like to have to let go of someone who you think is the perfect guy for you. it really stinks, but you said he is a liar and is not worth going back to, so there you go. a part of you might be telling you that he's great and that you shouldn't let him go because of how much you love him, and love is rare and blah blah blah, but then theres us on advicenators telling you to move on, even if you don't want to, i think mostly everyone agrees that you should.
well if you don't decide to move on from him, then i guess the only thing you can do is tell him how you feel. i mean what do you have to loose? not much right? the only thing you could possibly loose is a friendship, and you might not what to loose the friendship, but maybe it'd be like a sign for you thats telling you that it is really over for good and you don't have to worry about whether or not he loves you anymore, you can move on with your life. if he does love you back, well then thats great! =] just make sure your absolutely positive that he won't lie to you.
so, if you do decide to move on, i will tell you now that there is no saying how long it will take. you've got to start with baby steps, and then it will become easier. ok, the first step, is to completely disconnect yourself with him -- don't contact him, kind of avoid him i guess =\. it's just easier to get over him if you don't talk to him or see him, that way you won't be reminded of your feelings for him. the next step, is to go out with your friends, have some fun, it will really take your mind off of him. don't worry about any guys, it's time to have fun! Ok, so after that you will start to see that your feelings for him are fading a bit, so even if you do still have some feelings for him (which you may) you have to start to get to know this nice guy you told us about. you don't have to jump into a relationship or anything, you just have to open up your options to other guys, and you already have your first option waiting for you =] just give him a chance, it's not like you are commited to him, and from there you just sort of have to see what happens.
if you let go of your ex, you will feel so much better. you'll meet new guys, and not have to think about how heartbroken you are. it will feel great to move on, because it really stinks to be stuck in the same point in your life for a long time.
hope i helped =]
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im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad? (link)
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it's not bad at all
everyone gets it at different times.
if your athletic or really skinny it comes later
if you still don't have it when your 16 you should see the doctor.
don't worry,
i'm 14 and don't have my period yet.
hope i helped =]
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all my life I have been judged by so many people. Im a nice person. I dont like being mean to people unless their mean to ME... I alway thought I looked pretty when I looked in a mirror, but sadly, nobody agrees with me. Everyone thinks im ugly! This ass named CJ is spending the night at our house and its only because he's on vacation from California and we have known him since kindergarden.... I was a stupid retarded little girl in Elementry school... I didnt know any better. I was always chasing guys for fun.... and now that we are in High School, I thought I had changed so much from then, but CJ said I havnt changed at all, and just now, I was upstairs watching tv, and Colton started a fight with me about how a chopper was a motercycle and not a helecopter (it can be both) but they his little friend joined in the fight and THEN the little bitch told me to shut up because I was annoying! it all started when the little booger wanted to play my brother's PS2, and I was watching tv, and these little twerps wouldnt stop making fun of me, and THEN my brother's little friend told said "Brittany told me your a dork" (he said it to me before, but when I asked Brittany, she said it wasnt true because she dosnt tell her brother ANYTHING) and im starting to think that everything everyone is saying is true.... I dont know why everyone is so mean..... I have dreams, but there crushed under the feet of my stupid brother, and CJ, and my sister Hollan, and EVERYONE! Hollan wont stop taking my stuff that little brat! Im a triplet, and my sisters have always been telling me "Thats why WE have boyfriends" and I havent gone out much, but my first bf was a fony... He asked his friend to ask my SISTER, Cher out..... but he accidently asked ME out instead, and I said YES! WHat was I thinking???? Well im really in a bad mood right now because today was also the day my dad made me do the dishes and he's not even getting the two little boys into trouble! its just me! Just because Im the older kid, dosnt mean that he shouldnt care about ME.
My family is soooooooo horibble... Me and my brother and sisters fight all the time, sometimes my mom even crys about it. But my sisters are bad people... They sneak out and stuff like that, and it makes me mad because they think their nold enough to have sex and all that (but I dont know if they have done it yet) but their the kind of people that think they get every boy they want... and the truth is.... they do... they get all the boys, and Im stuck inside.... Just today, I came outside and Hollan's all like "Go the fuck away! No one wants you here" and I just came out there to hang out with her friend Ali....
Everyone treats me like SHIT! I even bought my sister HOllan a $40 jacket at American Eagle Outfitters.... AND SHE'S STILL AN ASS!!!!!
(im not trying to brag) but Im a nice person! I dont like to be mean! I dont like to make people cry! But no matter how nice I am to people, they are always mean to me! THey call me names like dork, nerd, geek, and my sister even calles me a prude! It really makes me mad...
I remember I got in a huge fist fight with my sister Hollan on the front Lawn, and Monae and Ali and ANika were all watching and they didnt bother to do anything! I have been picked on my whole life and im too nice to do anything about it! I mean I usually dont fight back because I know I'll lose.... I always lose.....
I dont know what to think of myself now..... (link)
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ok well, look on the bright side, CJ is only staying there for a little while, so he is only temporary =] once he leaves then you have one less person to worry about right?
now i know that some people will say to be a bitch right back, but it doesn't sound like that is something you would do. also, think about it, if you be a bitch back, what will it solve? -- not much because then fight will just continue to get bigger and nastier.
so i have two options for you that may or may not work:
1) next time your sisters or anyone puts you down, just look at them. just stand there, and look at them, but show anger. you can sorta show that it hurt you, but then just walk away. -- so your probably wondering why i told you to do that. well basically, if you shout and get angry you have just shown them that they have won the battle. but if you just stand there quietly and walk away, it confuses them because they are expecting a reaction out of you. your reactions make there cruel behavior fun for them, it almost satisfies them to see you hurt which is pathetic.
2) just calmly say something like "do you really need to put me down all the time?" and see how they answer. but the key is to say it calmly, that way they know your serious. once again, don't throw a fit.
you guys are triplets, so you probably all look alike, the only difference between you and them is that they have put you down so much just to build their own confidence and then you are left with very little confidence. boys like confidence. just do your hair, put on some makeup and make you feel good about yourself because if you look good, you feel good =] then stand in the mirror and tell yourself you look pretty. i'm sure you are gorgeuos, you just lack the confidence, and plus you have a bonus feature, you are a nice person =] use your personality, not only your looks and even more people will like you.
if none of this helps, then just try going out with more people so you won't be home as much. if your relationship with your sisters doesn't change, maybe talk to your guidance counselor at school if you have one. my guidance counselor makes me feel so much better =].
good luck =D
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I really like this guy ((im 13/f/7th grade)) I dated him at the beginging of the school year but I broke up with him after he asked out another girl ((while we were STILL dating!))
I was so mad!! >=O
he totally stopped talking to me and everything. so one day after class i plled him aside and told him it as over ((I wasnt rude i was just like well "I cant do this, i mean come one mann that was disrespectful, i cant pretend to smile anmore about this")) And it was done.
Well then a few days later at our school dance a slow song came on,
well i didnt have a boyfriend so i went to sit with my best friend LISALISIOUS!! ((inside Joke))
and Dakota (( thats the guys name )) told my other bff ((megan)) that the next slow song he was going to dance with me
=D I was soo happy cause i still liked him and we looked soo cute together!
But there wasnt another slow song and the more the night went on the closer my "bff" ((megan)) got to him. She was totally trying to steal him from me!
>=O I was so pissed at her!
Then he totally forgot about me! he started likeing her and now he is like obseced!
I mean i tryed telling him i felt i left comments on his page, blog comments, notes, messages, everything!
So like 2 nights ago i went off on him cause he was like "so who should I go out with I really like MEGAN! and she likes me but she wont go out with me"
i was like dakota I like you! wat dot you want me to do! write it in the stars!
and he was like well youre attractive but i cant replace the way i feel about Megan!
I WANT HIM TO WANT ME!! I WANT HIM BACK!!
WHAT DO I DO!
HELP!
thanks in advanced
Katie! (link)
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haha mann i remember all the 7th grade drama. when you look back at this in a couple of years you will realize how immature this guy is.
ok so obviously he really likes megan. most guys your age are extremely immature and just go for looks. he said that you were attractive but he can't replace the way he feels about megan. that's not something you hear from a 7th grade boy unless they really really like the girl. i'm thinking that since megan won't go out with him that makes him want her even more because now it has become a challenge for him and he's thinking about her even more because he is just constantly wondering why she won't go out with him. but then there is you, and you confess your feelings for him without a problem, so he knows that you already like him alot and that he can have you back whenever he wants. don't let him do that to you.
i think you should just take a break from him for a while. he's not gonna wait around for megan forever, unless he is absolutely in love with her, but thats rare considering you guys are only in 7th grade. also, i honestly don't suggest you wait around for him. he hurt you once, and once a cheater, always a cheater. do you really want him to hurt you again? i mean, that was really shallow of him to do that to you. maybe stay single for a while, just figure stuff out, or you could just try to find another guy. there are alot nicer guys out there, so don't just go for looks, go for the guy who will treat you right =]
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OK, if you don't like those long, dragging on questions, this really isn't for you.I had a crush was on this totally hott guy named Jared. Every time he came near, I'd totally freak out. Now, I'm going out with him. We get along really well, and everything is just great. Except his ex-gf. She isn't ready to let go of him. Literally! When ever we walk home together, (all three of us live very close together) she grabs him and gives him this big lecture on how he completely broke her heart. Then she tells me its a mistake to be with him. It's really obvious she just wants him back... Anyways, we'll just ignore her and hold hands. Then, she'll scoot around us and walk infront making sure she waddles her butt as much as possible.
Jared just tells me to ignore her, and that hes so way over her. That's conforting, but I'm still afraid she'll get him back. She is really pretty and lets just say I'm not quite as lucky. What do I do to get her to just leave us alone? (link)
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trust me, guys do not like obssessive girls. all she's doing is annoying him, and i doubt that he would like a girl like that. looks aren't everything, if she's the jealous type then he most likely won't care for her.
if he really likes you he'll stick with you, so all you can do is trust him in this situation. he's with you, not her. afterall there has to be a reason as to why they broke up, so i don't think that they'd get back together anytime soon.
as for getting her to leave you guys alone, maybe you two can just stay after school and not meet up with her. or if she says something to you about how you shouldn't be with him just say nicely "i'm sorry things didn't work out for you guys. and i can't just break up with him because of what he did to you because everything is fine in our relationship." or something like that.
good luck, don't worry about this girl. if your boyfriend is a nice guy all you have to do is trust him. =]
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My best friend is a 16 year old guy. Honestly, he's not like most guys, not into sports except skateboarding. I've run out of ideas for his Christmas gift. I decided on a fish from petco with the tank and everything (small). Do you think he'll like it at all? (link)
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i'm not so sure if he'd like the fish. it's deff. a cute idea and you have good intentions and everything, but do you think he'd take care of it well?
i think you should get him a card, and maybe a gift certificate and then bake him some holiday cookies or something. it's the thought that counts =] and plus cookies are goood lol.
you could also think of any inside jokes that you two have had and buy him something that relates to the joke.
hope i helped =]
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Whats better to have ceramic plates or gold ones on a hair straightener(or any other types)?
Whats the widest width of plates you can get for under $150?
Chi, Sedu, or Conair?
I have very thick and very wavy hair. I currently use a Vidal Sasson Wet2Set and it doesn't work well AT ALL, even on the highest setting.
What do you all recomened and why, would be awesome.
Thanks!
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i deffinetly reccomend the chi. the plates aren't that wide, but trust me, it is amazing. i bought it and now it takes less time for me to straighten my hair. it's about $150 - 175 i think but it's totally worth it. there are different types of chi's but get the once that has a heat setting.
also i would recommend getting biosilk. my hair dresser recommended it, and it's supposed to be really good. =] try getting products that help with frizz control or damaged hair that way your hair will stay healthy. i use paul mitchel super strong, it works really good.
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i am 13/f and i have never kissed a guy and i really want to i really like my ex-boyfriend but we only went out for three days and we didnt kiss and somtimes he plays around like he would say if you take my money and buy me somthing from the consession stand i'll give you a kiss and i would say somthing i'd rather die but now i want to kiss him and i dont know if i should do it..... I WANT 2 KISS SOME1 (link)
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i understand where your coming from, but boys are stupid and mess around with our emotions. honestly, you shouldnt' kiss someone your not going out with unless you have both agreed that this is just for fun and there is no commitment involved
from experiance, "friends with benefits" type relationships don't work out that well in the end. it's fun, but it can be hurtful.
for now i think you should just flirt back, maybe he'll ask you out again, and then you guys will obviously kiss and everything. think about it, if you kiss him your basically showing him that he has you in the palm of his hand, he can sweet talk you until your convinced he loves you, when really all he wants to do is make out with you. if you really like him then wait til you atleast know he feels the same for sure =] all good things come to those who wait. it's true lol. just don't waste your first kiss because you can't ever get it back
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