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is it ok to kiss a guy you dont go out with??
i am 13/f and i have never kissed a guy and i really want to i really like my ex-boyfriend but we only went out for three days and we didnt kiss and somtimes he plays around like he would say if you take my money and buy me somthing from the consession stand i'll give you a kiss and i would say somthing i'd rather die but now i want to kiss him and i dont know if i should do it..... I WANT 2 KISS SOME1
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well if you really like him, flirt with him && if he wants to go back out with you he will ask you. if not. theres plenty more guys out there for you. one will eventually come along. and if things go right, you will kiss.
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i understand where your coming from, but boys are stupid and mess around with our emotions. honestly, you shouldnt' kiss someone your not going out with unless you have both agreed that this is just for fun and there is no commitment involved
from experiance, "friends with benefits" type relationships don't work out that well in the end. it's fun, but it can be hurtful.
for now i think you should just flirt back, maybe he'll ask you out again, and then you guys will obviously kiss and everything. think about it, if you kiss him your basically showing him that he has you in the palm of his hand, he can sweet talk you until your convinced he loves you, when really all he wants to do is make out with you. if you really like him then wait til you atleast know he feels the same for sure =] all good things come to those who wait. it's true lol. just don't waste your first kiss because you can't ever get it back
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It depends on why you guys broke up for, really. If you dumped him, then maybe he's saying he wants to go out with you again, by flirting with you. If he dumped you, then maybe he's just playing around with you. Either way though, I think it's kind of wrong to kiss someone in that way unless you're planning to go out with him. If you want to go out with him, then... flirt with him. Don't directly ask, "Wanna go out?" Just show with affectionate actions that you want to. If he shows signs of annoyance, just stop flirting and leave him alone.
-Jenny C
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