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7th grade LOVE DRAMA!


Question Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 12:48 am

I really like this guy ((im 13/f/7th grade)) I dated him at the beginging of the school year but I broke up with him after he asked out another girl ((while we were STILL dating!))
I was so mad!! >=O
he totally stopped talking to me and everything. so one day after class i plled him aside and told him it as over ((I wasnt rude i was just like well "I cant do this, i mean come one mann that was disrespectful, i cant pretend to smile anmore about this")) And it was done.
Well then a few days later at our school dance a slow song came on,
well i didnt have a boyfriend so i went to sit with my best friend LISALISIOUS!! ((inside Joke))
and Dakota (( thats the guys name )) told my other bff ((megan)) that the next slow song he was going to dance with me
=D I was soo happy cause i still liked him and we looked soo cute together!
But there wasnt another slow song and the more the night went on the closer my "bff" ((megan)) got to him. She was totally trying to steal him from me!
>=O I was so pissed at her!
Then he totally forgot about me! he started likeing her and now he is like obseced!
I mean i tryed telling him i felt i left comments on his page, blog comments, notes, messages, everything!
So like 2 nights ago i went off on him cause he was like "so who should I go out with I really like MEGAN! and she likes me but she wont go out with me"
i was like dakota I like you! wat dot you want me to do! write it in the stars!
and he was like well youre attractive but i cant replace the way i feel about Megan!
I WANT HIM TO WANT ME!! I WANT HIM BACK!!
WHAT DO I DO!
HELP!
thanks in advanced
Katie!


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xosweetiepiexo answered Thursday December 28 2006, 9:52 am:
haha mann i remember all the 7th grade drama. when you look back at this in a couple of years you will realize how immature this guy is.

ok so obviously he really likes megan. most guys your age are extremely immature and just go for looks. he said that you were attractive but he can't replace the way he feels about megan. that's not something you hear from a 7th grade boy unless they really really like the girl. i'm thinking that since megan won't go out with him that makes him want her even more because now it has become a challenge for him and he's thinking about her even more because he is just constantly wondering why she won't go out with him. but then there is you, and you confess your feelings for him without a problem, so he knows that you already like him alot and that he can have you back whenever he wants. don't let him do that to you.

i think you should just take a break from him for a while. he's not gonna wait around for megan forever, unless he is absolutely in love with her, but thats rare considering you guys are only in 7th grade. also, i honestly don't suggest you wait around for him. he hurt you once, and once a cheater, always a cheater. do you really want him to hurt you again? i mean, that was really shallow of him to do that to you. maybe stay single for a while, just figure stuff out, or you could just try to find another guy. there are alot nicer guys out there, so don't just go for looks, go for the guy who will treat you right =]

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iloveaar answered Thursday December 28 2006, 5:02 am:
please get your pride back! you can't want him after all he has done :S and by the way...would you like him back knowing that probably he'll be dating other girls at the same time ??...would you like him back knowing that he likes more your friend :S

and also it would be ackward to be with your friend around him there's plenty of guys out there and probably cutter lol so forget about him and ignore him

Diane

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leLovely answered Thursday December 28 2006, 1:32 am:
He's not worth your time if he's ditched you twice. You should get over him and find someone new. Trust me, there will be PLENTY more boys and he's definately not worth it. Just try to forget about him and try to find someone new. I'm in 10th grade now, and when I thought my heart was broken in 7th grade I realized that it wasn't worth worrying over, and I like new people that are completely different from who I liked back then. It'll be fine, just forget about him! =] <3

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