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i feel love.
okay this is my first like real actual relationship and i've never been in love before...hence why im asking this question.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and i think im in love, i don't really know what love it but whenever im with him, i feel like thats where i wanna be forever and its corny but i always get those "butterflies" when im with him and thinking about him and he treats me like a goddess and he cares about me so much, and he proves it to me. I know its hard for someone else to have any say but what do you think? we haven't said I love you yet, I kinda want to but i want to make sure that i 100% mean it with all my heart before i say something like that
...any advice? or stories of when you said your first "i love you" and what happened? thankss.
16/f
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I would deffinetly say your falling for this boy.
the thing is, is that once most guys know that they have your complete affection, they get bored.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months, and looking back on our relationship in the beginning compared to now i can see how much our feelings have grown for eachother.
after a month or two of dating in texts and stuff we would say "love you" and such, but we never said it in person because its so much different saying it in person than it is through texts/aim, and when we said it through text i always meant it as i love you, your such a great person i'm so happy to be with you, but one day we were hugging and he was just like "i love you so much" and i couldn't say it back, i thought i loved him, but when i had to respond to that and couldn't i knew i wasn't completely in love with him yet... he said it to me a few more times after that and still i had no response, but after about 6 months i was able to say it comfortablly and know that i meant it and it turned out to be something really special instead of just throwing words around and i knew we both appreciated it more because i had waited to say it.
honestly, i don't think it is wise for you to say it to him first because it just confirms that he feels the same exact way about you if you let him say it first and its just more of a reassuring feeling to hear it from him first. WHen your in the moment, you'll know whether its right to say it back to him, if you open your mouth and nothing comes out than its not the right time no matter how much you think you do love him, but if the words do come out with you thinking twice about it, thats when you know its real.
if you don't overthink it, the moment will be much more special :] hope i helped
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thats a good question.
you feel what you feel.
when you feel that way it is called love, but you don't know where this is going to go. just live in the moment and whatever happens, happens. you could go ahead and tell him you love him, if you really feel that way. but if you just feel like you're almost at love, like at lov, but not totally l.o.v.e. then i would wait. also, this may be just me, but i would rather make him make the first move, it is more romantic to me. when that special time comes to say i love you, make sure you make it special if you're going to make the first move. just take him somewhere romantic or say something romantic..get him something, etc.
and this is the bible's definition of love:
love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast. it is not rude. it is not self seeking. it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.
i think if you can feel all of that and mean it, and he too. that is true love.
hope i helped, good luck :]
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