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sorry i didnt know under which category to put this.
erm so some ppl say that in year 1012 the poles are shifting or smth and that its the end of the world.
is this true???? :[ (link)
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"Don't worry about the end of the world coming today, it's already tomorrow in Australia."
well of course, it's only a theory, i have another.
there's another theory that a star is going to crash into the earth 2012. but, i believe in 2012, the poles are going to shift and then there will be an imbalance with gravity. instead of attracting the star into the earth, the earth will repel it, sending it flying all the way back and into pluto. errupting and causing a great explosion in the middle of the infinite universe. Depositing a conspicuous disease that could be contracted in the oxygen for which we breath. It will kill many, leaving the ones immune deficient. They will all grow crazy angry because they're insufficient of power to end the insanity going on all around them.
yehh, i made that up by the way.
if you want to know what the bible has to say about the end of the world, read revelations.
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My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me! (link)
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omg, im sorry but i can see why she would do that, life effin sucks. things like that happen. i was in one of those depression hospitals too. so i can relate to the suicidal pain. im now still thinking about just ending it... but you know you should look at the bright side, and be more optimistic. don't think of a glass as half empty, think of it as half full. your blood sister is happy now and is in peace. you were very lucky to have her in your life, someone that you cared about very much. don't let what happened stop you from living your life. life has its ups an downs. when there is love and happiness, misery will come. but the love and happiness is what we all live for... and i kno you can make it through the misery. there's more to life out there waiting for you, and if it's not coming to you right now, go out there and find it. your sister gave you something to carry out into the world, and whatever that something is... it will live in you. you don't just live in a world, a world lives in you.
i wish you the best, and if you need a friend, you can always count on me.
i really am sorry for your loss.
-email: krystal_ily@hotmail.com
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Okay, so on the cover I want to put Led Zepplin's "Thank You" lyrics:
"If the sun refused to shine, I would still be loving you.
When mountains crumble to the sea, there will still be you and me."
..I was wondering if anyone had any creative ideas on how to draw it on the cover. I was thinking about literally drawing a sun, mountains, and the sea. What do you think? (link)
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im usually into putting together with graphics on the computer, if you'e good at that, that might look cooler. but anywayz, i like your idea, haha. sounds good.
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My homecomming is next saterday. And i put off finding a dress till like today. haha. Anyway, I found this black one thats like kind of short and its black. What color sheos? It has no straps and it like has a desighn on the bust. But i was thinking hot pink heels. I want something to pop. Also, I want HIGH Heels, like at least 2 inches.
14/f (link)
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if you're going with pink shoes, it'll go because anything goes with black. but i would get other accesories in hot pink too. such as a necklace,earrings, bow, purse, etc.
that would look hott.
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okay this is my first like real actual relationship and i've never been in love before...hence why im asking this question.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and i think im in love, i don't really know what love it but whenever im with him, i feel like thats where i wanna be forever and its corny but i always get those "butterflies" when im with him and thinking about him and he treats me like a goddess and he cares about me so much, and he proves it to me. I know its hard for someone else to have any say but what do you think? we haven't said I love you yet, I kinda want to but i want to make sure that i 100% mean it with all my heart before i say something like that
...any advice? or stories of when you said your first "i love you" and what happened? thankss.
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thats a good question.
you feel what you feel.
when you feel that way it is called love, but you don't know where this is going to go. just live in the moment and whatever happens, happens. you could go ahead and tell him you love him, if you really feel that way. but if you just feel like you're almost at love, like at lov, but not totally l.o.v.e. then i would wait. also, this may be just me, but i would rather make him make the first move, it is more romantic to me. when that special time comes to say i love you, make sure you make it special if you're going to make the first move. just take him somewhere romantic or say something romantic..get him something, etc.
and this is the bible's definition of love:
love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast. it is not rude. it is not self seeking. it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.
i think if you can feel all of that and mean it, and he too. that is true love.
hope i helped, good luck :]
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I'm compiling several playlists based on moods.
Can you please list me a few of your favorite songs for certain moods? (Ex: Happy-Unwritten, Sad-Better than me) Anything mood is great and so is any song of any genre. Thanks! :) (link)
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Happy Songs:
Makes Me Happy -Drake Bell
Shake It -Metro Station
That Green Gentlemen -Panic At The Disco
Hearts That Bleed -State Of Shock
Dam* Regret -Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Lifestyles Of The Rich and the Famous -Good Charlotte
Holiday -Green Day
American Boy -Estelle
Thunder -Boys Like Girls
Whats My Age Again -Blink182
Forever -Chris Brown
Burnin' Up -Jonas Bros
Dont Call Me Baby -Kreesha Turner
Sad Songs:
All Around Me -Flyleaf
When It Rains -Paramore
Holiday -Boys Like Girls
That's all i can think of, hope it helps.
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hey guys! 17 f
trying to lose weight. i'd say i dont look overweight.. but my weight is considered overweight..i currently weigh 183. ive been trying to lose weight by..
-not eating after hours.
- eating smaller portions..
- no greasy stuff. sugary stuff..
- (list of what i eat now) mostly boiled things. like boiled eggs.. boiled sweet plantains.. special k... maybe a slice of cheese... a small portion of rice.. orange juice..
yeah i dont drink water =/ I KNOW. its horrible but i just dont.. i force myself but i end up throwing it up.. what can i do? i mean this diet works but im not sure if its healthy or not =/..
thanks in advnace! (link)
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have you ever tryed vitamin water, i never tryed it but i hear some people like it. my diets small and simple like your without sugary and every once in a while something greasey, haha. i eat carrots, tomatoes, and celeri as a snack for when im just hungry, and i eat waffles and peanut butter alot, haha. or stawberry waffles, my fav. and you should make sure you at least eat something with protein, like beans or meat. also grape juice is good for your heart. and you should atleat have some wheat bread or some kind of bread. also if you like yogart, that's not many calories. and pickles are practicaly no calories. you should aslo eat some fruit, i eat strawberries, blackberries, peaches, bananas, all fruits healthy and good to eat. i think thats all food groups, haha.
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I recently lost some weight and I noticed my bras weren't fitting correctly. So, I went to Victoria's Secret and I got sized. The woman said that I was either a 40D or a 38DD which was fine with me :). I eventually tried on both sizes and they were both falling off my body. The 38DD was okay for a while but then it would just... Slip down... I assumed that the VS lady measured wrong so I went to Nordstrom's and got measured there. That woman said I was a 38C. This made sense to me. So, I was wearing my 38C bra and I had double boobs it was so tight! It left angry red marks and the minute I lifted my arms up the underwire would rise up. It's so uncofortable! Should I be measured again, or am I just wearing my bras incorrectly? (link)
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sounds to me you are still a D or DD, and i think you should try a 36dd, and maybe that'll hold up because it's just smaller around your chest, so it wouldn't slip easily. and you did say whether your boobs fit the dd cup, if they did, and your bra was just slipping, just do what i said go for a 36. and it wouldn't hurt to be measured one more time, lol. hope i helped.
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ok i recently got the ipod shuffle and i was wondering if there is any way to make it repeat a song without clicking back? thanks :) (link)
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on mine i just go to settings then on repeat click > til it says repeat one.
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this is kind of embarrasing haha but some of my friends shave their vaginas, and im too afriad to ask them details about it.
like how much do you shave/how often or are you even supposed to? and just basic like facts about it haha
so does anyone have any answers? (link)
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make sure you ue lots of shaving cream and a good razor, not too sharp.
and the first few times you might get little bumps, but they go away, also it might hurt a little. i would shave every two weeks or every month, you can decide when you think it needs a little weed trimming. also you can do the alternative: waxing, i think that hurts even worse but you get better results... it'll take longer for it to grow back.
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So I'm 16/f and I absolutely love to take pictures and videos, whether they're about people, animal, buildings, statues, art, nature, etc. I love to take pictures...
The camera I have, I received as a birthday present the summer after 7th grade (I think) and it was a really expensive one (around $375!). But since then, it's seen so much more better days. Right now, the cap that holds the camera battery in is broken so it's held inside by a rubber band, the exterior is all scratched up, and the mode dial is loose and won't let me get to the "User Setting Menu" and 3 or 4 other modes. When I take videos and play them back, all I can hear is a tiny volume of the actual sound part and this obnoxious "tap tap tap" sound.
I know I should've taken a lot better care of it. My mom's lecturing me about how I don't respect anything & that she's reluctant to get me a new one (but she agreed to). I still haven't had my 16th birthday yet (like, I turned 16 on 7/9 but no cake, no gifts, no candles, no singing, no anything) so I was hoping that a new camera would be my 16th birthday present and that's all I would want (plus a soccer ball). But my mom said that if she gets me one now I won't get another except if I pay it with my own money in the future (which isn't going to happen because I rarely get money from my parents and I absolutely have no time to work because during school I barely have time to sleep and during the summer I have to spend a majority of my time doing volunteer work to get an IB diploma).
So should I ask for a new camera for my 16th birthday gift or get a new computer + new camera as my college gift?
Thanks & I know I rambled...a lot. (link)
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since you have a computer, i would get the new camera... plus you will need your computer for college and it will probably be better to wait, just incase you wreck your computer. plus since you love making videos and taking pictures, you sould get a website and put up your creations on the net, and you might even make some extra money from doing that...[just an idea]
oh and, my school has an ib program, too. lol.
hope my advice helps any :|
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we are about to go on vacation and my twelve year old got her period not for the first time. can she wear a tampon and if so what kind
marie (link)
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in addition, i think tampax pearl would be a good idea to use because it's slim and easy to use. i think the only problem with her wearing the tampon is whether she can put it in and how often she changes tampons.
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Okay, i pretend to be a really happy person, but i am veryyy depressed. Or, well thats what the quizes say. I normally wont buy it, but they say its serious depression & i need help A.S.A.P. but problem is...i dont really have a doctor. And i told my brother one time and he got pissed off. I am afriad to tell anyone now becuase i am afriad they will get mad )= i know it sounds stupid but thats how i feel! And i need help. So if i tell a doctor, they'll subsrice me some pills and will tell my family. Does anyone know how to cure depression without anyone knowing? And please dont say stuff like, Spend time with the fam. becuase there one of the reasons of my depression.
Thanks =D (link)
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what 'es' said about it numbing you instead of helping you is right. i had to take the pills once 'zoloft' and they just gave me tons of energy and stimulated my mind.. haha, i couldn't sleep at all when i took them, they gave me so much energy my leg wouldnt stop shaking, and my mind wouldnt stop racing.
i took them three times then quit because i felt my depression wasnt because a chemical imbalance in the brain- and thats what the pills are for. my depression was caused by my feelings towards things.
also, you are the one in charge of your feelings, you can chose to be happy or you can chose to be depressed. it took me a while to learn that even after it was said to me so many times.
and, what you said about you being afraid to tell your parents because you think theyll get mad just because your brother did sounds like your brother is one of the triggers of your depression. you shouldn't let him get you down, be positive even when theres spilled milk. like they say there no use in crying over it, clean it up. by that i mean instead of being afraid of your parents reaction, go to them and just tell them. what's the worse that could happen? and after you do that, youll be letting go of one of the burdens that was keeping you down.
i hope this helps, i just wanted you to know basically what the pills do, lol.
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15/f
When it comes to saving up I don't know how to save my money better yet my check without spending it on stupid stuff...I get my check every friday and sadly it doesn't even last to see sunday meaning its gone by sunday . This has become an issue with my parents because they no longer want to provide me with any transportation to work or anywhere since they say its pointless to work if I don't save my checks. I thought getting a bank account would help but its worse it seems I go there and withdrawl money everytime I'm in need to spend...idd really like to start saving my money to buy a new phone or an ipod touch but idk how that's going to happen =/ does anyone here have any suggestions? Tips on how to not spend and save up? Anything would help please (link)
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just remember that you have everything you need, and everything else are just 'wants'. 'wants' get alot of people in trouble sometimes cuhz once they have everthing thing they need. therell always be something else you dont have. so keep that in mind. this time, put half of your money in the bank and use half of it. make a list of things you need and a list of things you 'want'. strike out cute clothes you 'have' to have. think, you already have clothes, so you dont need clothes. also get all your change out of your piggy banks and roll your coins.. then go to a grocery store and get cash return.
oh and for example, instead of spending 40 dollars or more on jeans, put a limit of 20 dollars on jeans, and dont buy jean unless they are within your limit.
also if you get extra money for things such as for fast food, instead save that little money and eat when you get home.
also once you start saving, itll get a little easier to do, the more you do it.
hope this helps any.
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what is the average weight for a 15 yr old girl who is 5'7'' (link)
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when i was 15... last year, i weighed 110 and i've been 5'7'& a half. now im 124. i usually been under average weight till then. so i think it is 110-140
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Okay so, I'm 15, I wanted to start using tampons becuase I havn't yet, but I think I'm having trouble putting it in, or something. It seems like theres a lot of tissue or somehing around the place where I stick the tampon in, is that my hymen? its like I can't put it in becuase its super small, its really hard to explain, and like I don't know if this is normal or not. Its the hole where I stick in the tampon, its just really small I think, and it doesn't really open very easily AT ALL. like I have to use my fingers, and even that doesn't really work. Its really weird, what is that? is it normal? Help! I'm a littl freaked, because if Ican't even put in a tampon, could I not be able to have sex? when I'm older though, I'm not sexually active until like college or something. (link)
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i thought the same thing when i was a little younger. but i think youre just normal like i was. just practice putting in a tampon laying on your bed, that helped me when i first started using them, then it became naturally easy to insert. also try inserting it gently and try iserting straight up, then once it is in push it in the right dirrection. tampons for me felt uncomfortable the first few times. also try puting in tampons when youre not on your period. and if your hymen is small, it can stretch bigger when inserting bigger things into it. [tampons]
hope this helps.
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wat is the difference between a lemon and a lime (link)
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well, one thing is i love limes and dont really like lemons haha. you can taste the difference. and that guy below me is wrong, limes are not sweet, theyre sour, just not as sour :)
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Hello. I am a 14 year old girl. I absolutely hate my family, i cannot help it. They are terrible to me. No one has ever hurt me except my sister and all she does is slap me but...i dont know they act like im the worst thing that has ever happened to them and i ruined their life. I have a mom and dad who think everything i say is retarded and that im stupid and i should be more like my sister. She is 17 and shes terrible. She smokes, she drinks, she drives while under the influence and she is going to hurt someone, maybe even herself. She does acid and everything and even though she always yells at me and slaps me im worried about her i mean she is my older sister. and my parents don't know and i tried to tell them but they don't believe me and they call me a liar and i am scared and i don't know what to do. What can i do to make my parents not hate me? How can i help my sister, because i cant talk to her? I do not want to go into foster care for my sister could hurt herself. HELP! (link)
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to me foster care sounds like the best option for you. ive been in foster care, its not the worst thing in the world. and you need to tell someone else about your sisters drug addictions and drinking problems, call the nearest rehab or call the police, they are meant to handle situations like this and theyll do what they believe is best for you and your family.
and why do your parents think youre so stupid? do you get bad grades? act really stupid around them, just having fun? well whatever it is, prove to them they should trust you.
and if you know where you sister hides her drugs/alcohol, show it to your parents or someone you trust, and/or get a picture of your sister in the act.
and if youre worried she might get into a car accident.. this sounds stupid but try hiding her keys so she cant drive.
i dont know if i helped much or at all buti tryed. good luck ;]
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well i dont live wit my mom anymore. i live with my aunt so i want her last name. can i do that? im 15 and my aunt will come with me to do it. does it cost money? (link)
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yeh, you do need guardian permission and i think it costs about a thousand dollars because i was planning on doing it too.
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i feel like im not pretty, is there anything i can do to make my self more sexy and pretty
here is my myspace you can look
myspace.com/fallenangel212121 (link)
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I'm so mad, you lied to me.
You are pretty, lol.
But here's some tips to make any girl enhance her sexyness.
1. Experiment with makeup. Try wearing natural looking makeup or shiney makeup[eye shadow]. Try eyeliner, see what it looks like just on bottom the see what it looks like just on top, try both. Try different colors, I wear black, blue, green, and purple. Then work with some eyeshadow, you know the look most celebrities use. Get some eyeshadow that has three different similar shades. [most used- light beige/white, beige, and brown] First step- put on the medium shade[beige] on eyelid, Second- Add the darker shade[brown] to the outer end of the eyelid and along the crease. Then- add the lightest shade[lighter beige/white] on the center of your eyelid and near the line of your brows. With your eyeshadow like that it'll look dramatic and sexy. Then get some pretty natursl looking lipgloss. And looks to me you already have perfect skin :).
2. Experiment with hair. Try straighting it. Try curling it. Get some bangs/or side bangs. Highlights. Add some shiner. Just try different looks till you get the one you want.
3. Pretty nails. Get your nails done.
4. Good hygene. shower daily, brush 2x/day.
5. Work on your fashion. Wear outfits that enhance your curves. Don't wear anything too revealing or flashy.
6. Get some sun. Or go to a tanning bed, a good tan looks nice on anyone.
7. Have a healthy diet and exercise at least 10 minutes daily.
8. Put on a smile. And a good atitude, look in the mirror and tell yourself you look hot even if you don't believe it. Confidence will out shine anyone.
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