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I am 16 years old, and I am sure you are on here for advice, not to learn about my life.

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hey, does anyone know any songs that are about someone egtting over a relationship that all the guy did was cheat and now the girl got sick of it and is getting over him, and done with him?

or if its easier..
one cheated on the other and now ones sick of it and is done with the other.

So What - Pink.

everytime i start liking a guy i really really like them but once i figure out they like me back i stop liking them. why is that?
and right now this guy likes me (he's perfect everyone wants to date him) and i liked him back but then all of a sudden i stopped liking him cause he started to be really flirty.
whats wrong with me?!
15/f

I was the same way.

You like the chase. No matter how much people are like "So-and-so doesn't like me and it sucks because I like him sooooooo much!" they don't mind chasing them. It puts the excitement and mystery in it, like a game. Once the chase is over, you are more like "... alright, now what?" because the fun is over (even though it didn't seem like fun at the time.) It happens to everyone. You get over it in time.

I know what you mean, but he's the one always complaining about her to me and saying how she's such a bi**h. And he tells me he likes me.

You also have to remember, even though you flirts with you and complains about her, even if he says he does not like her, he is still committed to her for now. If he was willing to break up with her for you, then he would have by now don't you think? You said this has been going on for a while, so why is he still with her? He does not want to break up with her for whatever reason, and until it does happen, you should stop reciporicating what he is giving, because you are just going to get hurt in the end.

Think about it; if he is doing this to his current girlfriend, why would you want to be with him when you know he is capable of talking behind your back and flirting with another girl? I don't think you want that.

There's this boy who I've been talking to for over a year now, flirting back and forth. This boy has a girlfriend who found out that we've been flirting with eachother. A couple months later, were still talking. I know he likes me because he gets jealous and mad when i talk about guys. I've tried so hard to get them to breakup =/, and I've talked to him about it, what should I do?

Age: 15 Gender: Female

Leave it be. Obviously he is not going to break up with his girlfriend for you because if he was, he would have already done it. Don't try to break them up, that's just rude and selfish. Back off and let him decide what he wants, and if it is his girlfriend that he wants, then don't do anything else. Stop flirting with him all together. I know that if another girl was flirting with a boyfriend of yours and trying to break you up you would not be too happy about that either. Think of it from her side.

why do atheletes take a ice bath?

Athletes sometimes over-work their muscles doing whatever they do, and ice calms the swelling in the muscles and dulls the pain for a while. If it is a small area that hurts, a small bag of ice on that spot should be just enough. But sometimes it is the whole leg that is sore and in pain, so they fill a tub with ice and water and lay in it instead of taking 5 icebags and laying them on your legs. They are not fun to do, and are pretty painful for the first 5 minutes before you numb.

No, this question isn't ''What is a blowjob?'' I know what it is.
But my cousin went to a bar and he told me that his friends bought him a drink that was called a 'Blowjob'.
He doesn't remember what it tasted like (since he was drunk as hell) but I'm wondering has anyone ever heard of that drink, and if so, what's the recipe for it?

Thanks :D

The Blowjob is usually for girls. It is a mixture of Bailey's and Kahlua and topped with whipped cream in a shot glass. You have to take the shot without using your hands.

Basically you wrap your lips around it and gulp it down, and the whip cream is all over your mouth, hence why it is called the "blowjob."

Okay so Saturday was Old Home Day, and I was hanging out with Becky,Steven,Abby,Emily,Kim,and Abbys lil brother. Well at the moment Beckys dating Steven but she doesnt like him, she just didnt want to hurt his feelings.Well we were all hanging out I guess I was flirting with Steven... Becky couldnt careless though so Im not worried about that. In town, Steven baught me fries and we traded a 20 for 2 tens and the guy who gave us the two tens was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around your finger!"Because Steven gave me ten bucks and told me he'd be right back he was gunna go buy some icecream. And I was like =O Hes not my boyfriend! And the guy was like Even better..
And at Byrant Feild I wore Stevens sweatshirt, and we hung out more then he and becky did.
Well Abby wouldnt get off my case, she kept saying that Steven liked me, and that I liked Steven... and Steven ended up saying that If I asked him out seriously he would have a hard time saying no to me.. right infront of me.
Okay so i thought me and Steven were ust friends but I was telling Kim what we did to make Abby think that we liked eachother which was I play with his feet =]] Tugg on his leg hair. We wrestle, and play mercy which is really painfull btw. He layed on me...
Yes I wear his sweatshirt, and he buys me food. Were always talking and he's my best guy friend. Well Kim was like I wish I had one of those.. and I was like.. one what? and she was like Flirt Buddy =DD Cuz thats exactly what you are.
I dont mean to flirt with Steven.. but is that what im doing?
Should I tell Steven Becky doesnt like him?
Even though I really didnt mean to flirt with Steven, does that mean I like him?

I think you should back off a bit...
Having a "flirt buddy" is fine, but not when he is one of your friend's boyfriends, even if she does not like him that much. You were wearing his sweatshirt and he was laying on top of you. Even if I did not like my boyfriend that much, I would still be a little ticked that that was happening. If she does not care or like him, then why is she still with him? Obviously he does not like her as much as she thinks he does. So it should not hurt him that much if she breaks up with him. He will probably think of it as help so he could flirt with you more. Nobody could answer if you like him or not, but it seems a lot like you do, and until Steven and Becky officially break up, you should stop flirting with him so much.

Okay, this is going to be kinda long. But, I am a 15 year old girl who is going to be a sophmore in high school. turning 16 in december. Both of my parents work. My father leaves for work at 4:30 in the morning, and gets home at about 9 at night. My mother leaves for work at 9 in the morning, and comes home between 5 and 6. Well, you know how it is a mothers job to cook dinner? she hasnt cooked one meal in about 2 years. and im not over exxagerating, im being totally serious. The only time i eat dinner is on sundays and wednesdays, or if i sleep over a friends house. Im quite underweight because of this, becuase of being left home all day. im 5'4 and i weigh about 90-100 pounds. it varies. I complain to my mother that she never cooks, and its unfair that im almost 16 and i dont get fed dinner. i already have to cook myself breakfast and lunch [that is if i dont sleep until about 3:00 in the afternoon]. My mom doesn't understand that im very unhealthy because im a terribal cook and if i put something on the stove it WILL catch on fire, or even in the oven, toaster, or microwave. I understand why my dad doesn't cook, because hes a man and he grew up with a mother cooking for him, and he is quite tired after a days work. So i don't bother him about it. The fact that everyones parents feed them after work, i dont understand why my mother wont cook me dinner. she claims that she is tired, well i know your tired mom, but im starving to death here! i have talked to her about it multipal times, then her other option is delivery. Well, we live in a very small town, that only has chinese and pizza delivery. and as you all know, after a while the same food over and over again gets sickening and tiring. Its embarissing when i have a friend over and they say "what time are we having dinner" and i have to say "i cook my own dinner every night." do you all know how bad that makes my mom look? really bad. My friends also dont understand why my mother doesnt cook dinner. she used to, every night! she hasnt since about sixth grade. she just comes home and sits at the computer, drinks beers [about a 30 pack a night]. It pisses me off. She does nothing but drink and go on her fucking computer at home! and whenever i try to talk to her, she wont talk to me. Because she thinks people at work are watching her.. so she doesnt talk when shes home. Barely, and if she does she like whispers. She thinks peeople are watching her through lightbulbs, our stattelite dish etc.[lmao!]So i dont understand why she wouldnt make herself look liek a good parent and cook for her daughter, my sister who is turning 21 in janurary is in college still. so she cant bring me something home to eat. but im so sick of my dad bringing me home mc donalds at like 9 at night. im so sick of everything really. my parents dont care for me! they just buy me stuff and supply me shelter. how can i tell my mom that she needs to start cooking? i need to like threaten her though, or she wontdo it. helpp pleasee! any suggestions?

Are you for real on this? Are you really being this selfish because your mother does not cook you dinner after work? You are 15 for crying out loud, you have hands!

Think about it. Your parents both work hard at their jobs, doing whatever their boss tells them to do and then some. But it does not stop there. They come home and have to deal with a teenage daughter (who is only enough to take care of herself I might add), a house that needs to be payed and cleaned. You are perfectly capable of being able to make your own food without a stove. Ask your mom if she can buy you some microwaveable foods at the grocery store when she goes, and if she will not listen, then write her a note as a reminder, because I am sure she wouldn't mind picking a few things up if it means you stop whining in her ear about not feeding you like a child.

http://www.cooks.com/rec/search/0,1-0,microwave_food,FF.html

This site has a TON of foods that you can easily chop up and cook in the microwave.

Since this is happening for a while I am surpised you have not thought of something like this before. Maybe you should stop complaining about it and try actually being mature and responsible and making the best of the situation instead of "threatening her." Things change, and usually you just have to go with it.

i don't remember like any of the lyrics but in the beginning it goes something like "when i see your smile tears roll down my face" and its kind of an emo sounding song, like its slow but its not really emo. sorry i dont know more of the lyrics!!

Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - "The Acoustic Song."

When I see your smile tears roll down my face
I can't replace.

And now that I'm strong and I've figured out
How this world turns cold and it breaks through my soul
And I know I'll find deep inside me i can be the one

I will never let you fall
I'll stand up for you forever
I'll be there for you through it all
Even if saving you sends me to Heavan

And seasons are changing
And waves are crashing
And stars are falling all for us
Days grow longer and Nights grow shorter
I can show you I'll be the one.

I will never let you fall
I'll stand up for you forever
I'll be there for you through it all
Even if saving you send me to Heavan

Cuz your my
Your my mi-ei-e-i
My true love my whole heart
Please don't throw that away

Cuz I'm here for you
Please don't walk away and
Please tell me you'll stay

Yea yea, Oh oh oh oh ohh Stay
whoaa

Use me as you will
Pull my strings just for a thrill
And I know I'll be ok
Though my skies are turing gray [gray]

I will never let you fall
I'll stand up for you forever
I'll be there for you through it all
Even if saving you sends me to heavan
[Repeat]

my gf just broke up with me and she wants to be really close friends.

my Q is, how do i prove to her that i can be a great boyfriend instead of just a friend

Proving you are a great boyfriend is done by respecting her wishes, as in giving her time and still being her good friend without pushing her to be more.

Drop the whole relationship thing for now, and be her friend. Someone who will listen and be considerate of her feelings. It is possible that she could see this side of you and realize how much she misses you. So for now, just be her friend, because it seems to me that is what she wants.

Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks

1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places

She needs to except that fact then that yes, she is a slut, and she needs to stop thinking what she is doing is "cool" and realize what name she is giving herself.

She wants attention, simple as that. But that is not the way to go about getting it.

Your friend is a slut, and her self esteem should not go down by hearing that, because she should know already. She should take it as a reality check that being a slut does not make you popular in the best sense.

Ok im cheatin on my boyfriend but i feel reeeeeeeeeeeeali sad bout it.....but i REALLI like dis other guy n i couldnt break up wit my bf cus i love him sooo much 2 n i dont wanna hurt him.How can i break it to my bf??

Just tell him that you are cheating on him. I think that should be enough for him to break it off with you.

"Ok im cheatin on my boyfriend but i feel reeeeeeeeeeeeali sad bout it...."
How dare you cheat on your boyfriend, and then feel bad about it. If you feel bad about it, why do it!? Big contradiction right there.

"but i REALLI like dis other guy n i couldnt break up wit my bf cus i love him sooo much 2 n i dont wanna hurt him"
You really like this other guy? Then break up with your boyfriend. Simple as that. Do not say you love your boyfriend if you are cheating on him. You don't want to hurt him? Then stop cheating on him. If the only reason you are still with him is because you do not want to break up with him, then you need to cut the crap and just end it.

However true all that is, you did asked how to break it to him. If you still want to be with your boyfriend, break it off with this other guy. And I mean for good. No communication whatsoever. That way when you tell your boyfriend about what you did, you can say that it is over with the other one and you want to be with him 100%. Do not expect him to take this lightly though. What you are doing is not fair, for either boy. So I suggest you figure out what you want before it ends up getting worse than it already is.

A girl from my school and her boyfriend just died in a car wreck. They were 16 and 17. For some reason, though I didn't know them personally, this really makes me sad. I did know one of her best friends though, so I just sent a little "I'm sorry" to her through email. I'm sure she already has a lot of those. There was also a bulletin posted in her memory asking everyone to re-post it and ave a moment of silence for her. I didn't feel like reposting it, but a lot of people did. Well, I got a reply from my "I'm sorry". The friend got really mad at me and said I didn't even know this girl and everyone should stop acting like they did. Now, I know she must be going through a lot of pain, but is really that bad for me to say I was sorry? She also posted a bulletin on myspace this morning about how no one knew the girl like she did and everyone should stop pretending like they cared. I really don't want to start something, and I know what she's going through (I've had family deaths and severe injuries related to car accidents), but this is sounding a little rude to me. I mean, if I were to die, or a friend were to die, I would want people to care. Please help me understand, why in the world this girl is hating everyone for caring?

Just because you did not know her personally does not mean you cannot be upset about a death. It is someone that goes to your school, which is scary and upsetting, so no one has the right to tell you that you cannot grieve.

I, too, went through this. A guy on my Cross Country team committed suicide last year. Him and I were not close, just a hi in the hall way kind of thing. I was crushed when I heard he died. It is such an unreal situation. They had people who were crying and upset go to the library, and his best friend was there. They were all telling stories and crying together, and one stated that half the people in the library should not be there, because they did not know him.

He says this because he was the guy's best friend, they did everything together. It was true what he ment, but I took what he said in a different way. He said half the people did not know him, but I think he ment that half the people did not know him like he did, which was undoubtfully true. Nobody knew him like he did, and no one was trying to take that away from him. In fact, the people in the library are just trying to comfort him, and everyone around him.

It was upsetting hearing that, but I do understand where he was coming from, and you should too.

It was her best friend who died, and she is just as upset as you would be in this situation. Don't say anything back to her, let her grieve on her own, this seems like the only way she could grieve is out of anger, which is understandable.

This is a difficult time for everyone, but you have every right to feel bad about what happened, because it is not something anyone wants to go through. It shows you have a heart and that you care for the people around you, even if you do not know them.

You are sweet, and keep being sweet to those even though they are not back. It is what they need right now even if they do not think so themselves.

Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.

sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.

then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/

anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.

we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.

what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.

ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?

He wants ass from you, nothing more.

Don't give it to him if you have any dignity whatsoever.

How long does weed stay in your body? I need to know because last time I smoked was a few weeks ago and I'm going for a job interview soon and I also have an upcoming physical. Also, what can you do to get it out of your sytem? Thanks :]

Don't listen to them, water doesn't do anything.

hi so my mum saw some girls clothes in my room and thinks i have been wareing them (i have not worn them they are my gf's she left here) what do i do or say to my mum

Thanks People

Tell her they are not yours, they are your girlfriends, and that she left them here.

If you don't want to be so blunt about it just say that she brought her stuff over because she was going to sleep over a friends house, and some of her clothes must have spilt out.

Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and a few days ago his friend got on the phone calling me nasty names.

and i figured out my boyfriend got wasted and madeout with another girl.

i love him but i dont trust him.

i am misrable without him. should i give him another chance?

Weird, I just went through the same exact situation. My guy got wasted and made out with this girl he used to date, and who I hated a lot.

I gave my boyfriend another chance because he was honest about it, and it could have been worse. He could have done it sober and he could have gone farther with this girl.

In my experience, things have not been the same since. The spark that was originially between us is gone and I still do not trust him all that much. I have been contemplating on if we should stay together or not because of these feelings. He was extremely sorry about doing it and made it clear he would never do something like that again, but how could you be so sure with an 18 year old boy?

If you feel as if you guys could work things out, and he seems like he regrets it, then if you feel it will make you happy, then you can give him another chance. Remember, this is not about what you WANT, this is about if it is good for you in the long run and what will make you happy.

If you do give him another chance, set boundaries. He is not allowed to talk to this girl again, and whenever he goes out to drink he should tell you. If he was truely sorry, he would understand your decision and do whatever it takes to win your trust back.

ok. i'm 14, i'll be 15 in october. and i STILL don't have my period. EVERYONE else does except me. isn't there a range of ages you should get you period in? i don't wanna be like an underdeveloped freak:/
also, this is really weird talking about but i have NO BOOBS. i mean i see ten year old with bigger ones than me. i'm 5'1 and 95lbs. which is littler than average i guess, but i have a friend who's practically the exact same size as me, and she has boobs and period.
when will it happennnnnnnnnnnnnnn!?!?!?

Well, you can never tell for sure when you are going to get your period. It is hard being a girl in this generation because everyone is so worried about growing up before one another. Because you are so tiny, you are probably just a late bloomer, and it might take a little longer for you to develope. You still have a lot of time to get your period. Some of my friends did not get it until they were almost 16. However, if you do not get your period by the time you are almost 17, there could be a problem and you should probably talk to your doctor about it.

As for no boobs, don't even worry about it. Padded bras are your friend.

in the fall i'm thinking of doing xc.
i'm starting to train by either running or bike riding each day. also doing lunges, planks, and squats eachday for 2 minutes each.
if anyone knows what xc is like... could you tell me your expierences...that'd be great!
thankss

Well first off, let me introduce you to the sport of Cross Country. Cross Country running is a sport in which teams of runners compete to complete a course over open or rough terrain faster than other teams. Guys courses are a 5k, or 3.1 miles, while girls courses are sometimes a little shorter, around 2.7 miles, or sometimes could be a 5k.

By the end of your first season, your watch and your running shoes will feel like apart of you.

Alright, because you are first starting, you do NOT want to go out and run 6 miles right off the bat. That will lead to shin splints and other leg injuries you do not want to go through your first year of Cross Country.

You want to make sure you are willing to be committed to this sport. It is challenging physically and mentally, but is also a blast.

If you have not done physical activity in a while, you need to start off slow and build up. And when I say slow, I mean slow. Jog for 10 minutes, then walk for 5, and continue that for about 30 minutes. As that becomes easy for you, bump up the jogging and lower your walking time.

Once jogging has gotten easier, play a little bit with your pace. Go a little bit harder than you normally do for about 10 minutes, then go to a slow job for 5, and continue for 30 minutes.

As you do this, running will gradually become easier, and you can work up to 40-50 minute nice, slow runs. After a couple of weeks, include some challenges into your runs, like race hard for a while, and then go back to your usual running pace.

You need to remember to take baby steps. The reason a lot of people do not like this sport is because they go out too hard, too fast and end up getting hurt.

I did not like Cross Country at first because I did just that, and I ended up getting horrible shin splints and tendinitous in my knees and was out for most of my freshman year. Now that I know how to train myself, running has become a lot more enjoyable and I look forward to XC beginning.

Bike riding is a good way to keep your legs in shape, and your other suggestions are good to work on your strength, but your stamina is what is most important. Get your lunges ready to be able to breathe during these long runs.

http://www.youthrunner.com/content/view/3269/39/

http://www.everythingtrackandfield.com/catalog/matriarch/OnePiecePage.asp_Q_PageID_E_309_A_PageName_E_ArticleBasicCrossCountryTrain

www.runnersworld.com

These sites have some good types for people just starting. You can google different types of workouts if you get bored of what you are doing.

Hi there. I'm 21, and I'm assured I won't make it to my next birthday. I obsess over all sorts of diseases and illnesses, and it's ruining my life.

I have such big aspirations in life. I want to graduate from college, and have a family. I want to write a book, and enjoy myself.

Where is the key to happiness? I want more than anything to find it. I'm far too young to believe that I won't be okay. And yet, most days I find it harder then anything to just get out of my bed and live.

I'd hate to actually die, and know my life had turned to waste.

Any advice on taking life by the horns, and living to the best of my ability would be appreciated greatly.

You need to live out on a whim, man.

Make a list of things you want to do before a certain birthday. For example, list thirty things you want to do before you turn thirty. Your list can be made up of places to visit, people to meet or befriend, skills to acquire, or just fun things to do. This way, you have some goals to aim at, and you can keep track of what you have done and what you still want to do.

Make a to-do list or a schedule every day! Don't just laze around all day without painting the fence, visiting Aunt Mary Ann, or finally taking that walk to the park. Have fun!
Remember "Carpe Diem" or "seize the day." - Live life in the moment. The only thing that is assured in life is this moment and death. So cherish every moment of life and make it worthwhile.

Try making life better for the less fortunate people in the world. They could be anyone, from an orphan in Africa to a pauper in Calcutta. Some dollars less in your account will not make a significant difference to you but will make an impact on someone's life. These are the deeds that make you happy in reality, knowing that you have made a difference.

Be comfortable with yourself. Love and accept yourself, even if others don't. Know who you are. You will naturally become an outgoing person if you can do this. Also, have an internal locus of control (an internal locus of control implies the belief that one is largely in control of the things that happen to her/him), meaning be who you are and stay true no matter the situation. Be strong and continue to grow your entire life.

Accept other people, even if they're different. Really different. You don't have to like everyone, just show acceptence and tolerance and you'll be cool with everyone (extremely important in connections later on). Also understand not everyone has your world view, thinks like you, or has the same values. But one thing everyone does want is to be treated kindly. You can't judge anyone else because you don't know what that person has been through and how it's affected them. Not everyone reacts to the same situations the same way. Some have more tolerance than others. Judging anyone is purely to organize your own little world into making a little more sense.

Find a purpose or meaning to your life. Whether that be a cause to help the world, religion, or just any kind of worthwhile goal (world domination only if you'll treat the world right.)

This is your MOST IMPORTANT ONE:
You need to ACCEPT DEATH. Yes, it can be scary. But it's going to happen, one day you will die. Let it echo through you, and you can begin to appreciate life. Trust you will be okay. Trust it or you'll go crazy.Live your life with the motto " If I die now I die happy ." Wouldn't it be nice if supposedly you would die now to know that many people would attend your funeral because you've been a great person? Or would you rather die and have people think of you as the kid who never went out and did something with himself.

Take all of your ambitions and your goals and roll with them. Have a good time living up to those goals.

Once you make a plan, follow it! There's no point in making a to-do list or a schedule if you aren't going to go through with it.

Do not whine about what you don't have. Enjoy what you have and desire, work towards what you want to have.

Don't feel jealous of people who are either better looking or have more money, or for that matter have anything that you don't but desire. Try to achieve it by working hard and making things work for you. Beauty and materialistic things in life don't last very long. What lasts is your soul. So it is important to have a clean and beautiful soul.

Keep the thought in your mind "If I died today, would I be happy?"

Everyone has different examples on what the key to happiness is. But you know what? You cannot follow someone elses thoughts on what is happy and what is not. Whatever YOU think is exciting, and leads you to being happy, is what you should follow.

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