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whats wrong with me?
everytime i start liking a guy i really really like them but once i figure out they like me back i stop liking them. why is that?
and right now this guy likes me (he's perfect everyone wants to date him) and i liked him back but then all of a sudden i stopped liking him cause he started to be really flirty.
whats wrong with me?!
15/f
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Im like That.
I Think it has to do with
the guys not being a challange anymore.
Like at first you have to fight
for their attention (well not really fight
for it but i think you know what i mean) and
after he just gives it to yu ,your just not intrested anymore. Like its not fun.
Idk
That might be how yu feel.
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you probably just want what you cant have. you probably just need like a really mysterious guy that makes you wanna know more. lol
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I was the same way.
You like the chase. No matter how much people are like "So-and-so doesn't like me and it sucks because I like him sooooooo much!" they don't mind chasing them. It puts the excitement and mystery in it, like a game. Once the chase is over, you are more like "... alright, now what?" because the fun is over (even though it didn't seem like fun at the time.) It happens to everyone. You get over it in time.
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hey i have the exact same problem as you and im also 15. i dont really know why, but maybe you should just try to ignore your feelings and go out with him and flirt back anyway. just try going out with him for at least like two weeks and maybe you'll get used to him or something. if it still doesnt work, you probably are just not ready to date yet.
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It just seems like you're not ready for a relationship right now. The guys you are dating probably are looking for a good relationship and you're just not ready for one.
I think you should just be single and hang out with people until you feel comfortable enough to date someone. There is nothing wrong with you at all. It's perfectly normal!
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