Heyy hope you hav fun reading my advice column!!! so here are some facts about me:
I have a very sexy boyfriend and i go just about everywhere w/him
I love going shopping w/my friends
My favorite stores are Agnis B., Louis Vuitton, Juicy Couture, Fendi, Coach, Prada, Chanel, and just about any other designer store
I'm considered a high class prep at my school
I'm a senior in high school
I was voted home-coming queen every year of highschool and I was just voted prom queen
I talk on my cellie for hours like everyday
I would die w/o my credit card
I love going to starbucks and just drinking coffee w/my friends
I loooove Italian food
I think the most romantic place to have your first date is at the beach right when the sun's about to set
I think the most romantic place to have your first kiss is outside in the rain
I love to get on the computer to give advice and talk to my peeps on IM
I have a facebook
I have two pets: a baby chick and cat
I don't watch that much TV unless a really good movie is on
I think Brad Pitt is THE HOTTTTTEST guy ever and the world needs more good looking men like him
I'm medium height
I've been going out w/my boyfriend for about 3 years
I'm an only child so I'm really spoiled :p
I have a big screen TV and the latest laptop in my room
I have the most gorgeous cellie
The second love of my life other than my beautiful boyfriend, is my car!!(light blue custom made porsche)
I have the most ah-dorable room and clothes
My room's the biggest room in my house
I get straight A's
I'm the captain of the cheerleading team
My favorite symbol is a heart
My favorite color is pink!!
I go to the best private school in England
My parents are filthy rich and give me whatever I want, but I'm not a bitch =)
My life is perfect, and I wouldn't give it up for anything
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Gender: Female
Location: England
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Member Since: July 7, 2006
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I'm obsessed with Twilight! Of all the things I never thought a book/movie could change my lifestyle SO much. I so want to find an Edward of my own and if he looks like Rob Pattinson- BINGO!! UGH!! I just need to come back to reality. But its just so difficult. I refuse to meet guys now because at my last date all I was thinking was how much the guy looked like Taylor Laurent!! Please tell me how do I get over this stupid obsession before I lose my sanity!! (link)
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hey so i used to have the same problem after reading the books and watching the movie, but it went away after a while. just stop watching and reading it and it will go away over time.
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My 17-year-old son, "Seth," is set to go off to college. He is going to a state university about 20 minutes from our home.
When filling out the paperwork for school, I did not sign him up to live on campus. His behavior during his senior year was less than stellar. I felt he needed to prove himself a little before I spent the money for him to live on campus. He's furious with me, and I admit I am second-guessing my decision as I talk to other parents whose kids are all living on campus.
I want my son to be independent. I told him if he did well the first semester he could live there the second semester. Did I do the right thing? (link)
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The first semester of college is probably the most important time, because it is the time for the students to all meet new people and bond with each other. The friends you meet first semester usually end up lasting a very long time.
It's therefore important for him to live on campus especially first semester because he needs to have all the chances to meet new people and try new things. Living away from campus will only allow him to make friends with classmates, which is not enough for college when you really need to be meeting all sorts of people, in and out of classes.
You should decide a different punishment so that he can enjoy college.
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My dad and I aren't close at all, but I don't want to be mean and just put "Happy Father's Day, Dad!" on the card I bought him. He is a decent guy, I guess, so he deserves SOMETHING to be written in the card from me. Anyone have any nice ideas? HELP! (link)
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if you don't want to put "i love you!" or "thanks for being such a great father", then maybe put something like "i hope you have a great father's day, you deserve the best!"
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I went to a party and said something and my friend started crying and everyone is on her side and now my social life is ruined and i dont know what to do to get it back i didnt even know i offended her but i guess i "went too far" and really hurt her but i need to know how to get my social life back (link)
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just apologize to her and let everyone know that you apologized for it so theyll know your sorry and not that kinda mean person
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will try and be as brief as possible.
OK so I have been with my BF now (we're gay) for 2 years nearly and we live together in Sydney, Australia. I emmigrated from London in 2002 and since then I have not been back to see friends or family. This year (in June) I am desperate to go back for 3-4 weeks as a reunion and also to meet my cousin who I have never met.
The problem is I want to do this trip on my own for these reasons:
1) I will be staying with family/friends and it wont be possible for us both to stay (not many old people are really happy about 2 guys sharing a bed etc)
2) I am short on funds, in that I can really only afford the flight, some spending money, but I certainly couldnt afford to stay in hotels for 3-4 weeks.
3) I will be going round to friends i havent seen, some in 10 years or more, and we will be discussing things/people/teachers/events that he would have no idea about - it would be v boring for him.
4) As its my 1st trip back in 7 years, i kinda wanna be selfish - i dont wanna be constantly worrying about what he also might want to do. The time is limited and it probably wont happen for a long time and so I really just want to do what I want to do.
5) We tend to argue a lot during normal day to day life - travelling overseas with someone can be stressful and I dont wanna have to deal with arguments with someone constantly while on holiday.
The thing is that he REALLY really wants to go... he said he wants to see my heritage, the people/places i grew up with etc etc. He said that we could stay in hotels but first of all I WANT to stay with my family and also i dont really think he has the money to cover all of that, even though he said he does. This has caused massive fights and neither one of us are able to back down.
I think the main reason he wants to go is that he is quite insecure and couldnt handle not knowing where i was or who i was with or what i was doing. Also there is a bit of envy involved maybe.
Does anyone have any advice on how I could handle this situation?
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well make sure you first say in a polite and calm manner all of the reasons you just told me and you elaborate on each of them. make sure he knows that you love him you just need to go by yourself this time but you can take a trip with him somewhere else when you get back if he still wants to.
also, tell him that if he's worried about you cheating on him while you are away, that he has nothing to worry about because that's not why you are going and that you love him and would never do anything like that. tell him that yall can't be together if you two don't trust each other, so he needs to trust you.
tell him firmly but calmly that you are going by yourself and that it is not his decision to make, but still be nice and let him know how much you love him and will miss him.
good lucky i hope i helped! =)
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im 15 and 6 moths pregenat. The boy that got me pregenat has a girlfriend but we still talk. Were always arguing and i dont no if i should move on or try to work it out (link)
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im sorry hun but you should just go ahead and move on. talk to him and tell him that you don't necessarily need anything from him and he can be as involved with the baby as he wants, but you aren't going to stick around and keep trying to work things out if yall are just going to keep arguing anyway, but that it's his choice if he wants to be there to help with the child or not.
even though he is the father of your child, your parents will still be there to help you so you don't really need him there to take care of the child.
don't stop talking to him altogether, but just don't force him to get involved or anything if he does not want to, and don't waste all your time arguing with him.
hope i helped good luck hun! =)
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i recently lost a lot, a lot of weight. i use to weigh like 120 and now i weigh 94. i have always watched what i eat excessively. like, it's not even natural how much i watch what i eat. i would count every calorie that came NEAR my mouth. But, lately, it's like i've lost control. I don't know if it's that my sugar is REALLY low, which I do have low blood sugar because I'm hypoglycemic, but I've been wanting to eat everything in sight. It's horrible. I mean, the little bit of self control I have left is what's saving me. But, it's like I NEED sugar. I get cravings for brownies in the middle of the night. obviously, i don't have any because I don't buy brownies in my house. but, it's like, if they were there, i would have had them. and today, for lunch, i had ice cream and cookies with my sandwich. like, i know it's not going to make that big of a difference when you're 94 pounds. but, i use to have an eating disorder, and i would only eat 600 calories a day. i know it's not healthy, but I don't want to blow all the work I did. I mean, i go to the gym every day, but it's just that i'm so HUNGRY lately. Is there anything I can do to reduce my apetite? please let me know. you would be most helpful. Thank you. (link)
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it's important to have a good balance in foods. That means you have to eat a lot of healthy foods such as meat and vegetables and fruits, but your body and brain also needs some sugar.
the fact that you are avoiding all sugar and sweets is building up to make your body absolutely crave it because you are deprived of it.
i recommend you keep eating healthy foods and get a lot of exercise but eat small portions of sweets every once in a while. Maybe just eat a brownie every other day or something but keep eating healthy and exercising and you will be fine.
hope i helped!!
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So its vacation and i have to work on monday , but the problem is i really want to go to the natick mall with my friend to go shoppping. ive never been there and its far away, so its a one time oppurtunity. so heres the thing. i want a really good excuse to not be able to work that day. dont lecture me about responsibilty, i know, and i dont care. I already called in sick twice so i have a feeling they wont believee me. Anything clever and realistic would be awesome. thanks! (link)
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just don't show up at all but call them within like the first thirty minutes of ur shift and say that
ur best friend had a heart attack because she has had heart problems from birth and this time they didn't know if she would make it or not so you had to go visit her in the hospital.
or say that your school called a last minute mandatory sports practice during then because someone on the team got caught with drugs so the coach wanted to penalize the whole team so now everyone has to go in for extra practice for the whole week.
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everytime i start liking a guy i really really like them but once i figure out they like me back i stop liking them. why is that?
and right now this guy likes me (he's perfect everyone wants to date him) and i liked him back but then all of a sudden i stopped liking him cause he started to be really flirty.
whats wrong with me?!
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hey i have the exact same problem as you and im also 15. i dont really know why, but maybe you should just try to ignore your feelings and go out with him and flirt back anyway. just try going out with him for at least like two weeks and maybe you'll get used to him or something. if it still doesnt work, you probably are just not ready to date yet.
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last night i had sex with my boyfriend and for the first time in like three weeks. I'm almost positive that he wouldn't cheat on me but i guess i don't know i'm really confused and kinda scared. Sorry for graphicness but i was pleasuring him orally and i felt these weird little things on him.. and i was just like what ever which was stupid but yeah. Now i have them on the opening around my holes and they burn... they look kinda like little taste buds or something.. is this an std or what? (link)
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hun, that was a VERY bad idea to sleep with someone with bumps on his penis.
and i know you dont wana hear this, but yeah you probablly do have an STD now.
im not a doctor and i cant see these bumps on you now, but it sounds bad, so i strongly advise you to go see a doctor NOW.
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what does it mean to deep throat someone? just like makeout? or what? (link)
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hun, deep throat means when youre giving someone a blow job its when you stick the guys throat all the way down your throat until you gag.
hope i helped!
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so ive had my period for about 2 and half years now, and i still dont know how to put a tampon in. its really embaressing too because when i go away to camp [Im on the swim team at my camp] and i get my period, its embaressing to tell my friends/the coach that i cant swim because of it. should i know how to by now? its been 2 years! the thing is. i did tried this one time in 7th grade, my friends pool party which i was so excited to go to and wear my new bikini and then i got my period and im like okay putting a tampon in cant be that bad. omg it is. it hurtsss like idk why it bothers me. i just dont like that feeling of sticking something up me. why am i so weirdd haha. and i try again every now and then, but no luck. as soon as i try and put it in, even just trying to stick a finger in there, i flinch. like i just cant do it. what should i do??? my mom doesnt know what to tell me either, im worried. please help me (link)
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hey! i totally understand how you feel. i had a really hard time putting it in for my first time and it hurt so bad, but i just kept on tryin nd tryin.
put some kind of lubricant on it so that itll go in easier. also be sure to insert it inside once ur still heavy, cause it hurts soo bad to take it out while its dry!
also, try to get the smallest tampons available, which would be the ones that hold the least.
dont worry, itll hurt the first couple of times, but after that youll get used to it and itll be fine!
just keep trying to put it in, because once its inside you wont even be able to feel it!
good luck!
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vodka, when i have it, it burns the back of my throat. therefore i never drink it. is that with just me or everyone else?
how do people drink it lol? (link)
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vodka is probably a little too much for your body to handle still.
if you keep drinking it a little bit at a time your body will adjust and get used to it and the pain will stop.
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16/f. I love looking at myself in the mirror. And it's weird..because I'm not cocky and I'm not confident. But I'm like...self obsessed I guess. I spend about 30 minutes in front of a mirror before school. Everything has to be perfect. Sometimes, I'll just stand there and observe my features...and admire them. I also take a LOT of pictures of myself. SO many that there's not enought memory in my computer to store them all! And it's funny as well...because I've never had this problem before. Going through middle and elementary school, I could care less what I looked like. And in middle school and early high school, I had really bad acne problems and so I kept my face hidden from half the people half the time. Now, however, since I got a boyfriend this year and since I lost weight and began looking "prettier" I look at myself too much. I'm afraid this will develop into a serious narcissistic problem. It might already be. And it's interfering with my schoolwork...even though school's over - because I spend more time looking at myself in the mirror and fixing my hair and face...than actually taking notes in class! I don't know what to do. My face is beginning to clear up more (I'm on Accutane) yet ..what if the problem gets worse when my face is near flawless? I'm not conceited AT ALL. I don't come off that way. I just never had the confidence..and now it kinda shows..and I actually like myself for once. How can I manage this? Keep it normal? ...Ahhh. (link)
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hun, at this point its pretty much all about the self control. you obviously need to stop this problem NOW before it grows into something even worse, so you should keep reminding yourself of this fact anytime you want to look in the mirror.
everytime you want to look in the mirror, just keep thinking of the fact that its becoming a problem, and just dont let yourself look at it. instead just get away from the mirror and do something else to distract yourself completely and try not to even think about it. get rid of the mirrors in your purse and room, and only look at the bathroom mirror for like 2 mins or so before school, not more than 10 or 15 minutes!
keep reminding yourself that you need to do this because its getting out of control everytime you want to look at yourself.
its normal for a girl to want to see herself in the mirror to make herself feel really pretty and good, but make sure you dont do it too much.
hope i helped =)
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Our gym class is biking to an ice cream place and we have a uniform. Where could I put my money? I don't want to bring a purse or something because that will distract me and i'll probably crash.
Many girls stick it in their bras but I'm VERY flat chested; if I sticked a penny I think people would notice.
Would it work if i stick it in my shoes? (link)
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hey hun!
i honestly think that sticking it in your shoes would be your best bet so id go with that.
also, if its not THAT much money then i really dont think anyone would be able to notice it in your bra, but if its a lot of money then i would just go with the shoes.
hope i helped! =)
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how should i meet this indie intellectual guy i really like at school? i have a friend who knows him and she has offered to introduce me but i dont think i have a chance anyways.
help please! (link)
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sweetie, you need more self confidence!
im sure u can get him if u wanted, just be really sweet and flirty with him. just make sure that you arent too flirty cause you dont wanna freak him out or anything, especially if you barely even know him.
ask your friend to introduce you to him and im sure he will fall for you immediately!
good luck! =)
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My friends and I are 17. I'll be 18 soon. One of my friend's bf is 21. I always thought that was a little strange until one night him and a couple of his friends came over and they were all so nice. I can really see why she'd go for an older guy because they are so much more mature and interesting to talk to.
Anyways, me and one of his friends who is also 21 hit it off. He was really flirty and really nice. Everyone says hes a nice guy too. We've been talking and he wants to hang out and stuff.
When I was with those guys I felt like we were all the same age. I mean as the saying goes, age doesnt matter. Most of my friends think its great but a couple are like WHAT ARE YOU DOING? Idk I feel like as long as he doesn't make me feel uncomfortable it shouldn't matter... is there anything wrong with a fling with someone a few years older?
Thanks so much! (link)
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hun, trust me, theres nothing wrong w/being with someone thats jus 3 yrs older than u!
i know people who are 10 yrs apart nd hav rly strong relationships!
jus as long as ur both happy w/it go for it!
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i ahve sweat problem from under arms
its too ambracing for me
i am un able to wear plain shirts
i am feeling too shy to go any where with friends
i lost confidence due to sweat
how can i get rid of sweat
frustration ,irritation lot more
plz give suggestion (link)
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don't worry babe! some people just sweat more than others, which is called hyperhidrosis.
you should just be glad it's only your under arms though because some people's lower backs sweat so it looks like they pee in their pants!
so anyway, my friend has hyperhidrosis also so she went to the dermatologist and he gave her medicine for it which stopped it from sweating.
if you look in the yellow pages or internet, there are also doctors that specialize in hyperhidrosis, so you could also go there to get medicine.
good luck sweetie! =)
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i have alot of sweet 16's coming up and i dont know how to dance.
i want to be able to dance hot like kinnda sexy.
what do i do ??!! (link)
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internet =p
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Okay, I'm emo. Well, my other friends are emo too, but they cut themselves. I don't. I want to know, to be emo, do you have to cut yourself? People are spreading rumors that I cut myself and that I'm a pervert. I mean, sure I have a perverted mind, but I'm immature, give me a brake! can someone explain to me why they would say I cut myself, which I don't, even if I am emo. do I have to cut myself??? (link)
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im sorry hun but this is ridiculous.
first of all no one thinks its cool to cut or to be emo in the first place, so dont even think about it.
second, it hurts really bad, and its a sickness thats hard to get out of, so dont try to attempt it
you should try to stop being emo, but at LEAST dont cut yourself, especially just because of other people!!!!
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