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pregenat and lost
im 15 and 6 moths pregenat. The boy that got me pregenat has a girlfriend but we still talk. Were always arguing and i dont no if i should move on or try to work it out
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Although there's going to be a baby involved, he has a girlfriend, so you should move on.
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This has happened to a lot of people I know and what I have learned from it is that you don't need a guy to help you raise your child. If ya'll are argueing already then it's probably not going to be a good relationship if ya'll get back together. If he has got another girlfriend...knowing that you are having his child then I don't think he really cares about working it out. Trust me when I say that time heals everything. Moving on is hard and i know that you want to be with him again or you wouldn't be asking for advice but moving on sounds like the best choice. I hope I helped you out...Good luck and congratulations on being a mom :]
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im sorry hun but you should just go ahead and move on. talk to him and tell him that you don't necessarily need anything from him and he can be as involved with the baby as he wants, but you aren't going to stick around and keep trying to work things out if yall are just going to keep arguing anyway, but that it's his choice if he wants to be there to help with the child or not.
even though he is the father of your child, your parents will still be there to help you so you don't really need him there to take care of the child.
don't stop talking to him altogether, but just don't force him to get involved or anything if he does not want to, and don't waste all your time arguing with him.
hope i helped good luck hun! =)
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hun i was in the same situation as you although my sons father was always cheating on me. i keep taking him back because i thought we could be together for the baby. move on hun obviously he could. you can to just give it some time.
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You move on as best you can. He already has.
He needs to take responsibility for his child.
Let the courts deal with all that.
Good luck. :)
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