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My name is Alisha....I'm an outgoing,friendly,fun person and I love making new friends. Feel free to ask me any questions...I will do my best to help you out :]
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14/f
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month. We don't go to the same school so we see each other like twice a week. I like him alot and I just get really nervous around him still. For like a whole month whenever I sit by him or whatever I feel nervous. I don't think I really show it but is there anyway to make myself feel more comfortable? Then another thing is that I get these thoughts in my head since he goes to a different school like, "what if he finds some other girl and something happens with them" or "what if he stops liking me" I know its kinda stupid thinking these kinds of things knowing he likes me and all but I don't know...I think that stuff alot. I'm only 14 and all and I think its weird to be thinking that. My last bf broke up with me to go out with another girl so that might be it? I doubt the guy I'm with right now would do that but you know, I just think that stuff. Sorry this was kinda long and any help would be appreciated. Thanks!
Well i am 17 and my boyfriend also goes to a different school. We have been together for 6 months but i still get nervous around him..so don't worry about that...and believe me thoughts are always running through my mind like "what if he flirts with other girls behing my back" but i have to trust him. If he wanted to be with somebody else then he wouldn't be with me. I hope that helps :]
This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though.
Well, i was having sex with this guy and its not the first time ive been with him, but we didnt have a condom. He said he didnt mind and he would just go in me, and i am not on any birth control or anything and he knows that. He said it was up to me, and he said he really wants to. Other times when we've had sex, he would always hint it, or say something like, "I just want to go in you so bad" or something along those lines.
What does this mean exactly? Is there something he is trying to tell me? Were any of you in this situation before? Or guys, did you do something like this? Why did you?
Thanks everyone :]
If you don't know what that means then you shouldn't be having sex
I need something good that I can put on my hair (that won't make it heavy/crunchy) before I use a hair dryer and/or flatiron!
Links please, and nothing too expensive (like 10 dollar maximum)
There is a heat spray that you can buy at walmart...there are all kinds. It will say on the bottle that its supposed to be used with the flat iron. I use it and it helps keep the frizz down :]
Ok, so i had a sleepover w/ 2 frannds. and i want to put there pics on myspace and like talk about them. but i dont know how. i know there is a wesite, thanks in advance.
Go to tinypic.com upload the photo as a web pic...it should have a drop down menu. After the pic is uploaded copy the html code and copy and paste it on your myspace.
how do you know when you're in love?
You will know when you are in love. It's a feeling that can't be described...a feeling so strong....:] its amazing
i'm taking drivers ed in a box right now and i'm wondering if you need to read the handbook in order to pass the test to get your permit or could i still pass the test to get my permit just by doing the six hour tapes?
does the test contain general rules and questions or local rules that you need to know from the handbook??
thanks!!
I haven't took drivers ed in a box but i do know that i studied the handbook and it helped a lot when i took my actual permit test. I would have failed without studying. So i suggest that you study a little bit of the handbook even though it may have a lot of stuff in it that the drivers ed in a box teaches.n :] hope i helped
im reallly scared that i have herpes. and i dont want to have to deal with putting coverup on my lips when ever i get a sign of it.
im scared of doctors. and my mom knows i get coldsores. but they always start out as white small round things before they.. "activate?" idk how to say it. but its like.. hard to explain.. i dont know.
what should i do? what would you do if you thought you had herpes? should i go to the doctors? my mom gives me round pills from the vitamin world store and she said they would help me.
i dont think this is herpres personally... idk! helllllp im so confused i keep questioning myself.
You really need to see a doctor...i know your scared and i would be too...but its the only solution. & calm down....i'm sure everything will be fine :]
14/m
theres a girl that I like that im pretty sure likes me, but i only see her once a week. We hang out sometimes on other days but mostly Its only once a week. Im wondering if its even worth it asking her out even if she says yes because I wouldnt get to see her a ton
your thoughts?
Some relationships are actually better if you don't see the other person a lot. Think about it this way...when your with her...you won't have time to fight with her becuase you will want the time spent with her to be good.
How do you make your pores smaller on your face? Are there any products that would help?
Proactive does work. I've used it and it worked really well. If you don't want to use that, there are all kinds of face cleansers that can help ;]
Ok so lately i've been thinking about my love life, i'm so confused I feel like i can't like anyone, i thought maybe i was gay, but i don't like boyss at all, or have any feelings towards them. so than why can't i like anyone? is something wrong with me?
I dont think anything is wrong with you. You just haven't found the right one yet...the one that you will want to have a relationship with. There is nothing wrong with not being attracted to anybody...or maybe your just not putting yourself out there. Try going on a few dates...talking to a few people...usually connections take a little while. :] Good luck
Hey, im 16f grade 11. I know there is maybe no 'perfect' career for anyone, but many come VERY close. Anyhow, I am very artistic. I do basically everthing to do with art. Sketching,painting,drawing,I sew,bake,do photography,crochet,quilting,drafting,design,animation,etc.
I think I may want to pursue a career in design, but i still don't know since my options are so widespread. What I was wondering is how can I find a 'perfect' art career for me? I have tryed most quizzes on the internet. If you know of a very accurate/precise quiz or a site that lists all art careers in detail, please let me know of it. I know you should probly try everything once, and learn more about it since no one really knows what they want to do until they try it all. I would like to have something that will help me to be able to figure out what I Absolutely want to do, and how to get there. Thanks :)
I love being creative and It took me a long time to figure out the career that I want. I have one that might interest you though...graphic design. You design labels for companies and it could also deal with magazines. You can also design commercials and billboard ads. :]
I can kind of understand why my dad doesn't want me alone with guys, but at the same time, I really do need to start to be more independent. The thing is that I am 16 years old and I think I am pretty mature. I haven't really screwed up anywhere; I get amazing grades, make an effort to help around the house, and I'm generally respectful to my parents. I'm sober too, which isn't the case for my brother. They don't trust him very much, but they let him go out with a girl if he wants to. It's a pretty messed up double standard. Lately, there's a guy who I really like and we aren't exactly dating but it's understood that we both like eachother. Anywyas, I want to talk to my dad about this, but talking to him makes me really nervous because he just says something like "no you can't go" without giving me a reason. He doesn't say, "I don't want you to have a boyfriend" he just says no to everything. Even when it's me and another girl and the guy, my dad is still skeptical. I want to be honest with him but it doesn't work. When I tell the truth about who I want to hang out with, he is against it. So I've had to lie a lot lately to hang out with him, but I'm tired of it. I talked to my mom and she said she knows I already had a boyfriend once so obviously I can do whatever I want, but my dad is very hard to read. Can someone help me out. Thanks
My dad is the same way. I'm 17 and I wasn't allowed to date until i was 16....finally i just got fed up with it and told him that i was tired of being treated like a little kid. It was hard to get him to understand but he eventually gave in. Just list off the reasons of why he can trust you....then ask him what his reasons of not trusting you are...if there isn't any then he won't know what to say and he will probably give you a little more freedom. I hope that helped you in some way :] don't give up...he has to let go sometime and he will realize that
What to get My boyfriend for Valentines Day. I was thinking of a personalized mug or bowl but he lives with his parents and that wont really have much of a meaning cuz it wont actually be his. I might get him boxers but What else can I get him. Something cute and small we dont want to spend too much money on each other? What do you think?
Well you seem like you enjoy giving gifts that are personal and creative...and that is something that we have in common. Last valentines day I gave my boyfriend a picture frame that had a bunch of pictures in it that we had taken together...he liked it alot and it had a lot of meaning to it. The picture frame wasn't that expensive but it held a lot of pictures. Hope that helped you out a little :]
So me and my boyfriend started dating on Christmas. We used to talk non stop on the phone. But now..we're just kinda silent. And I want to talk to him..but I dont know what to talk to him about. We still like each other..and he still come's over all the time. But..we just have nothing to talk about..we're so different. He's all sporty..on the football team..that kinda thing. And I'm more of a stay at home person..I sit and listen to music..watch movies..I'm into the whole photography computer thing..but even though we're so different..we get along great..but we have NOTHING to talk about..which I dont really understand.
Any suggestions?
I went through the same thing with my current boyfriend of five months. I realized that the reason that we have nothing to talk about is because we are always together...we see everything that is going on lol so don't worry about the talking on the phone problem. Oh and about being different...i promise that it is a good thing :] Hope that helps!
I have this AWESOME friend of mine
Her name is K
and like days later me and my friends and K, we are gonna give each other presents
and my friend K sed she bought one of my friends something online and she didnt buy me anything online
I bought her something online :(
And I knew her first than the other friends. . .
So what do you think
Jealousy or something else?
Thank you for reading :D
And thanks for (if given) your advice
I think you might be a little jealous...hidden feelings for her? lol it sounds like you want more attention from her...if so then maybe you might want to think about being more than friends...since you already think that she is awesome :] best of luck....hope my advice helped in some way
my wife pressured me into a big mortage and many other fininical areas.I know it was my fault for saying yes, but i could not handle the rentless pressure.Now i have lost almost evreything i had even my will to succede.I love her but not in love.i feel she has taken advantage of my heart.now she is trying to fix it but i dont want her to. I am lost in life what should i do
If you don't want to work things out with her..then i think you should sit her down and explain to her that you love her but you have slowly fallen out of love with her. Explain what has caused you to drift away from her and try to resolve the problem by coming up with ways to solve it. Best of luck :] Feel free to ask if you have any more questions
btw i'm 14. 15 in april
ok so i went ot with this guy about 5 months ago and it took me a while to get over him.You see he dumped me for his ex girlfriend in another town about 3 hours away.He broke up with me over the phone and it tore me apart.it took meso long just to trust him again.Well about 2 or 3 weeks ago he told me that he sorta liked me again which was kinda weird to me because i had started having feelings for him again around the same time. We flirted for a while and he eventuall broke up with his girlfriend. He said it was too hard having a long distance realtionship.So we weren't sure what really to do so we decided to meet up. We went to the beach and sat on some sand dunes. after about 2 hours of talking. we hooked up and it was my first hook up ever and i wasn't really sure what to do but whatever i did it felt good. Anyways. after a few weeks we sorta stopped talking he got really sunburnt that day and wasn't at school. i got an infection and also wasn't at school. I think i was confused about my feelings for him. So the other day i was bored so i decided to message him. We started talking. two of my best friends were over and i decide to flirt with him and see where it went my friend was telling me some things to say and it was fun. well we kept on flirting for a few days and i really started to like him again. i had this new found confidence like i could tell him anything.
And then today. New years day he tells me he has a girlfriend. That she asked him out two days ago and that they had started going out yesterday. I was upset of course. I just started to think we could get back together. and he does this to me. i told him that i liked him but was confused about what to do. and he said he was too.
I'm not sure if i can forgive him this time . for leading me on. its like i'm the back up plan for when he gets back from his holiday he gets back with me. its crap.
what do you think i should do?
i'm so confused. my friends think i forgive him too easily. but i dunno
please help me
xoxo
sorry for it being sooo long
i'll appreciate any help.
I've been in your situation more than once unfortunately....guys like to play games...and that is what this guy is doing to you...he wan't you to hold on..he doesn't want you to move on. Although you still care about him...guys like that aren't worth your time. Time heals everything so if you feel like it's gonna be impossible to move on...i promise that you are wrong. I thought that same thing way to many times. If you really really want to be with him still...make him prove to you that he is worth it. Make him earn your trust back. I hope my advice helps :] Good luck! & if you need more advice or have any more question...feel free to ask me
sorry i didnt know under which category to put this.
erm so some ppl say that in year 1012 the poles are shifting or smth and that its the end of the world.
is this true???? :[
It says in the bible that nobody knows when the Lord will come back. Believe me...i am scared to death of the world ending...and i hear so much but the bible says that nobody knows so don't worry :]
Alright so i was dating this guy and he left me for his Ex and like Im still friends with him not nearly as close of friends of course but still friends and like at random times he'll text me or something and say things that make me think that he still likes me and I dont know how to take it... like the other day he text me and was like "hey" and I was like "hi whats up" and he goes "oh nothing just listening to Death Cab and it reminded me of you" and if you didnt know Death cab is a band they are really called Death Cab For Cutie but which was the CD that I bought him for his birthday when we were dating and some of the songs on that CD ment alot to the both of us... and i jsut dont know what to think of what he is say its like he still likes me but wants to be with her... what should i think...
I've been in your situation more than once...but don't fall for his crap. He wan't you to want him back. My ex used to send me stuff all the time...the first song we danced to was one thing that he sent me...and i thought the same thing you do..."he wants me back" but believe me the best thing to do is move on. Guys like that aren't worth your time...i mean he left you for his ex..how low down is that? Well i hope my advice helped you....just remember that time heals everything...it took me forever to learn that... :] best of luck & if you need more advice...feel free to ask!
okay so i met this kid and i don't wanna seem obsessive and clingy but hes kinda sending mixed messages i met him at a party a couple weeks ago and we've been talking and he came over once and said i was cute after but whenever he texts me he just stops or is like well what are you doing today lets hang ill call u after work and crap but never does..and it bugs the crap out of me so i stopped acting like i care and he kind of noticed he sid i was being "quiet" so what should i do is he interested or not?
Guys are always complicated. Tell him that you don't want to be obsessive or anything but you would like it if he payed a little more attention to you if he really likes you. Just ask if he thinks ya'll have anything...and if not...move on