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What's wrong with me??
Ok so lately i've been thinking about my love life, i'm so confused I feel like i can't like anyone, i thought maybe i was gay, but i don't like boyss at all, or have any feelings towards them. so than why can't i like anyone? is something wrong with me?
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Either you havn't found the one, you're aisexual, or you don't feel it's neccassary to use up your mental and energy capacity on reproductive organs. All are fine, and you are fine. Unless, of course, you used to have sexuality and now don't because of trauma.
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Something like that happened to me too. I understand what you're feeling. Sooner or later though you'll know what you like and who you like. It just happens.
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I dont think anything is wrong with you. You just haven't found the right one yet...the one that you will want to have a relationship with. There is nothing wrong with not being attracted to anybody...or maybe your just not putting yourself out there. Try going on a few dates...talking to a few people...usually connections take a little while. :] Good luck
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I doubt very highly that there is a single thing wrong with you. You just haven't found someone you are attracted to for a relationship. Believe me you will.
Why don't you like the boys you know? Do you dislike how they behave? Do they seem more like little kids in their behavior than men? Maybe the immaturity of your peers turns you off.
It's possible that your sexual orientation might be gay and that you are attracted to females instead. Ask yourself how do I feel around girls? Am I attracted to them? Is this overwhelming to the point there's only an attraction to them and not males.
If you really question things you'll figure out the truth. Whether gay or straight there's nothing wrong with you. Another reason why you don't like someone or seem interested in others is that you don't want people to get close too you or inside your head yet.
All your problem breaks down to is fear, guilt and uncertainty about your sexuality. What you need to do is some serious thinking and come to terms with whatever your heart says.
You can indeed like others and will eventually but for now you have mentally shut yourself off to that. When the right person comes along that you're willing to let close you'll know that you're okay.
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I don't think your gay since you said you don't seem to be attracted to them but maybe you should talk to more girls and get to know them and maybe you will end up liking one of them, depending on your age you could just not be into that sorta thing yet and if its really messing with your head look around and take notice to your friends and see if they are in relationships, usually they just take time.
hope i helped(:
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