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I kinda self conscious about my penis...not because of size...because of it not being circumcized. is there a doctor i can go to without my parents to get circumcized? lol it sounds funny but immagine asking your parents to take you!

I wouldn't get my penis circumsized. You have a lot of nerve ending in your penis now that circumsized guys don't. You'll have better sensations during sex and stuff. I wouldn't. And I don't think there is any doctor that will circumsize you without yout parents consent. And DON'T try to do it yourself! I think you should keep it. And don't be self-conscious, people like uncircumsized penises. Don't worry.

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13/m
ok so i was sitting down today doing a and i noticed a big red lump on my penis just near my pubic hair but not on them i think it cound be a bad thing but i dont really want to tell my parents about it cause i havent shown my penis to anyone since i was about 5 and now i dont know what to do
it kind of looks like a mosquito bite but a bit bigger i think it might be a tick but im not good with animal bites so what could it be and what should i do about it

It's normal, I've had that too. Make sure you are keeping that area clean and you should be fine. If it starts to hurt a lot or doesn't go away or gets bigger than you should consider telling someone, but honestly I don't think its anything to worry about.

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kind of a weird question, but what are the signs that the penis is done growing?

Well there aren't any 'signs'. Usually the range where mens penis' grow are from early teens to early twenties.

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Okay I'm 15/m and I recently meet a guy 18/m. We're both gay. I wanna ask him out but I'm not sure if he's to old for me. He also thinks that sex isnt a big deal so I'm afriad if we get together he might fuck people behind my back. He doesn't think sex is somethign couples should worry about, so I think thats the kind of thing he'll do. Help?!

If he's already making you doubt him don't waste your time.

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WEll, i think i am gay. I dont know what to do. I love my girlfirned, but i sometimes, i feel an atraction to other men. What do i do?

Well for a guy in your position, you can experiment. You can try going after a guy or something... or hook up at a party with a guy and kiss and stuff and see if that excited you more than being with your girlfriend. If you don't try you'll never know... just something to think about.

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Ok so lately i've been thinking about my love life, i'm so confused I feel like i can't like anyone, i thought maybe i was gay, but i don't like boyss at all, or have any feelings towards them. so than why can't i like anyone? is something wrong with me?

Something like that happened to me too. I understand what you're feeling. Sooner or later though you'll know what you like and who you like. It just happens.

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Okay so I'm 18 and in college. I'm also a gay male. Well I found this really sweet guy! He always makes me smile. Well there is this other guy who i really don't see like that at all, but he is so protective of me and he knows exactly what im thinking and no one else ever can, so that's like a turn on. This first guy i like though is very confusing, he acts different around certain people. Okay like if he's with me he acts like someone different, when he's with some one else he acts totally different! Now his best friend has been saying the same thing about him. like he's not comfortable with who he is, so he has to act the way everyone else is around him. He's more of a follower. Now me I love who i am, and if you don't like me i could care less. But him, he's doesn't have any self confidence at all. He's just confusing, should i even waste my time on him??

Well from what you just described, go with the guy that knows what you're thinking and that is protective of you. He sounds nice :)

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How do you get over your first love?...It's so hard for me and I just wanna shut him out and never talk to him again. this is unrequited love. We werent in a relationship. He is a friend of mine and I think next month I will tell him that I can't be his friend anymore....I'm so scared....my hart hut more everyday and I can't stop thinking about him....ugh..help me please..

(I even thought if i could like another guy that I would get over him, but I can't even seem to like anyone or look at anyone else..my heart just seems to be stuck on him...I hate him becuz I'm in love with him)

I know what you're feeling... honestly I'm in a similar position myself. The only thing you can do is wait. Let time pass. And things will change. Something has to happen. It can happen in a flash or slowly but it'll happen, you just have to wait for it.

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