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My bf and I were having protected sex with a condom and we kept goin after he cummed and he was still pretty hard but if the condom begins to slip off like the ring is an inch higher off the shaft but the condom is still on for the main part is there a chance of pregnancy? or is that not so much a big deal. I dont want lectures just wondering what happens if it comes off about an inch. After it started slippin off we stopped. I think were still safe and all but Im just wanting some advice from anyone who would know or has experienced this. thanks! (link)
The penis inside the condom has nothing to do with your chances of getting pregnant. It's the sperm. If the sperm got outside of the condom, then yes there's a chance for pregnancy.

From now on, please buy a smaller sized condom, because if it's slipping off now, chances are it'll happen again, and a smaller condom would help prevent that.


for a guy how much is too much (link)
To be honest, I'm a female and I hate for a guy to have any hair.

It just gets in the way, and I can't enjoy sex or oral because all I'm thinking about is the scratchyness of the hair. Same with facial hair.

But that's just my personal opinion.

I know some girls that like a guy to have only a little hair, some that like a lot, and some like me that hate any.

It's really just about personal preference.


where can you get it?

dont suggest any doctors/clinics

like cvs?

and do you have to be older 18 (link)
You would only need the pill if you had unprotected sex or if the condom broke.

And drugstores don't carry it. You would have to see your doctor or go to a clinic.

At planned parenthood, you go in, tell them you need the morning after pill, you fill out some medical history forms, then they give you the two pills. The first few times it's free, but after that it's $25. It only takes like 10 minutes.

They don't share your information with anyone, and you DON'T need to be 18 in any state I've heard of. That would be ridiculous. It would be like saying that they WANT teenage pregnancies to happen.

If you're looking for a more protective means of birth control, try the actual birth control pills. All you need is a prescription.


what does the "day after pill" do? i'm guessing something about helping you not get pregnant? (link)
Sorry if I'm wrong, but from my understanding it's basically just really concentrated birth control. At least that's the idea I get from what it says on the box.

But what it does is after you've had unprotected sex or if something went wrong (like a condom breaking or something), you can take it within 3 days and it's pretty effective on preventing pregnancy after the sex has already occured.

It has something to do with your release of eggs, and it says on the box that it could mess up your menstrual cycle for up to three months.


im very young to be pregant.butt ive been geeting pains in my stomach.not cramps.i feel like vomiting but i cant.are theese symtoms? (link)
First of all, there's nothing in your post about you having sex, but seeing as you didn't even spell pregnant right and the fact that you say you're very young, I have to ask.

Did you even have sex?

If you did, then obviously yes you could be pregnant.

However, you need to go to your doctor ASAP.

When I was pregnant, I did get minor pains during morning sickness, but not massive ones. But I had a miscarriage, which DID cause massive pains.

If you are indeed pregnant, and these pains you're having are of the latter, it's bad. Get yourself to a doctor, now. For your sake, and your potential child's.


I a 16 year old girl, soon to be 17, and I need help to get my 2nd back handspring. I have the standing and round off back handspring, I have the 2nd one, but its so slow, so I don't really land it. I need help on some ways to make it faster. I will be going back to gymnastics this summer, but we have cheering try outs on wensday, and I was hoping to at least get my 2nd one looking nice. And what are some ways to get ready for my tuck. I WONT try it on my own, but maybe some exercises or something I can do to help make it easier. I was learning a couple years ago, but then I hurt my knee two years ago, and I haven't been to gymnastics really since. Only to refresh my back handspring.
So my questions
-Ways to make my 2nd back handspring faster in my roud off
-Exercises or drills I can do to help get ready for my tuck


I would like answers to be from real gymnast or cheerleaders that can already do these tricks. No "my friend does this" please.

THANKS! =D

hollister_lover09 (link)
Oh man, gymnastics is just one of those things you CANNOT explain in writing, you like NEED to be there to show you, so please bear with me as I try my best.

I just graduated I was on cheer all 4 years of high school sideline and competitive and I did middle school cheer. I had the exact same problem you do up until competitive season senior year. I had my roundoff bhs (although slow). And I could connect up to 4 but they were slow too, like it almost looked like I stopped or something before doing the next one. We had gymnastics every single monday in high school and I always felt like I was holding everyone else up. I finally sped up this year but without knowing what your actual problem is, (being slow is often a result of you doing something wrong in your bhs) I cant really tell you what to do to fix it.

How does your single bhs look?
Do you sit really low first, or only bend your knees a little bit?
When you sit, are you leaning back a lot or sitting straight then jumping back to compensate?
And also, how's your arch in the spring itself?

I can tell you what my problem was and how I fixed it, and maybe that'll work for you.
I was sitting and leaning a normal amount, but when I was jumping, I didn't jump backward enough. Therefore I was going upward too much, and bending my back more than I was supposed to in order to compensate for going too high. It wasn't even a crazy amount of too high, either. The slightest amount can mess you up. So I figured out that the reason it looked like I was stopping in between was because when I was coming down for the snap down, it was taking more time than it was supposed to since I jumped too high.

What actually helped me fix it, was my senior year competitive season, the JV coach had to become the varsity coach because the old varsity coach was having a baby, and my new coach said something to a freshman about jumping with the balls of your feet and using them to propel you backwards, instead of jumping with your whole foot. (try standing straight up, then point one foot, put it in front of you like a little off the ground, then keeping your legs locked
in that position, fall forward onto your pointed foot, then at the very second the ball of your foot hits the ground, rebound backwards. your back, locked leg should come off the ground and your whole body should go backwards with you only using one leg) Then once you get that motion of using the balls of your feet, put that into action during your spring only with both legs.

I'm not even kidding, the first time I did it like that, it was like a epiphany moment. I was like "so THAT'S what doing it right feels like. And everything was IMMEDIATELY fixed. Then when you go to connect, you have to make sure that you jump with the balls of your feet EACH time (It's kinda hard to do it off a round off)

Also, when your connecting, it helps me to go faster when I don't think of it as individual springs, but as feet, hands, feet, hands, etc.

And just make sure when you're connecting off a round odd, you're getting enough speed built up in your round off, cuz it'll make all the difference on the speed of your springs.

Okay, so it was sufficiently difficult for me to put that all in writing, like I said, gymnastics is just one of those things you cant learn in writing. So I'm not even gonna scratch the surface on tuck stuff. I would just let your gymnastics coach help you with that one.

My one tip with tucks though, over jump as much as you can. Believe me, you wont over jump at all. And find your set point, then PULL LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW. it may fell like your gonna jump through the foot and pull your knees through your chest, but that's what it's gonna take to get over.

And DON'T be afraid to throw your tuck on your own. Worst case senario, you under pull or under jump and land on your knees. It may hurt for a minute, but if your coach sees that your willing to throw, he/she will be SO much more willing to give you the extra tips and help that you need to finally land it. After all, would you rather spend your time helping someone stick it that really wants to go for it, or someone that just says they want their tuck but wont throw?



Sorry it's so long, I just wanted to get it all out there.




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