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I need help with these guys!!
Okay so I'm 18 and in college. I'm also a gay male. Well I found this really sweet guy! He always makes me smile. Well there is this other guy who i really don't see like that at all, but he is so protective of me and he knows exactly what im thinking and no one else ever can, so that's like a turn on. This first guy i like though is very confusing, he acts different around certain people. Okay like if he's with me he acts like someone different, when he's with some one else he acts totally different! Now his best friend has been saying the same thing about him. like he's not comfortable with who he is, so he has to act the way everyone else is around him. He's more of a follower. Now me I love who i am, and if you don't like me i could care less. But him, he's doesn't have any self confidence at all. He's just confusing, should i even waste my time on him??
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I'm sorry if this is too late. I have absolutely no experience with love. The only reason I'm writing here is that I think I might be same as the first guy that you like. I am very shy in front of others except for close friends. I have not much confident in myself that makes me scared of doing anything first but if I'm close to someone, I will open up myself to him/her. I can tell you people that have less confident in themselves hate to be like that too, they would try really hard to be confident if they have reason to. I'm doing it right now. That person might just be the same so choose by your feelings. Choose the one you like more.
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Well from what you just described, go with the guy that knows what you're thinking and that is protective of you. He sounds nice :)
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Acting is like Lying, being not who you are is not fair to the other people around you as it gives a false image/personality. if you took the time to really get to know this guy im sure he would open up more to you in way that is much mroe fair and comfortable. i think the reason why he acts up is because he doesnt think he is like-able as he is.
normally i go on for ages but i cant think of another explaination :S its not somthing i have exprienced very often at this point in my life although i am only 18 as you are.
hopefully i helped a bit
#~Matt~#
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i wouldnt if this guy cant even be himself i doubt he would be good to go out with because how could you feel comfortable around someone who changes themselves constantly just to fit in and besides you two are definitly opposites and opposites dont attract so i would just move on this guy isnt worth your love or time. :)
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