Hi! I'm Ivy. I was born in Macau and I moved to Hong Kong before one. I moved to Canada(Ontario,North York) on 6th July,09. Feel free to ask me anything. I'll be glad if I can help. You are welcome to add me on facebook or msn(facebook is better) but please tell me via e-mail before you do so because I won't know who you are and might just consider you as crazy. I consider myself more mature than others in my age. As far as I know, others think I'm mature too. I'm interested in topics that are deep. Homosexual(I am a huge fan of Lindsay Lohan, a talented lesbian actress, designer and a model), religion(I don't believe in anything for now tough), friendship and theories of everything. Other things are great too. Personally, I like reading, listening to music, watch TV, surfing the internet like now, sports(except swimming 'cause I'm not good at it, but I'm good at Tennis, badminton and running) and many other stuffs. I love to know people that have different thoughts with things because I want to understand more people.
If you like to ask me personal questions about myself, it's also fine, I don't write it out only because I don't really like typing a lot.
E-mail: ivycheang1252525@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada now(Hong Kong before 6th July,09)
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Yahoo: ivycheang1252525@yahoo.com.hk
MSN: ivycheang1252525@hotmail.com (facebook too~)
Member Since: September 14, 2009
Answers: 33
Last Update: March 15, 2010
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Hi im 14 male and well i realise that im gay ive been attracted to guys for awhile now i havent told anyone im not sure about telling my parents there religious so they might not react that well im thinking of waiting for awhile before i talk to them and ive become really close to this guy were freinds we hang out a lot and ive fallen for him im nervous to tell him how i feel he seems to like me hes brushed up against me hes friendly to me so i think he might like me im not sure if hes gay i really like him andi want to find out if he feels the same way i am thinking about sending him a text message im not sure what to say do i say straight out how i feel? what do i do? (link)
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Sorry that I was away, March Break started so I didn't get time to answer you till now. ^_^"
Waiting a while is sure a good idea, but be sure to tell them earlier than later, better you tell them than they find out through others. I would say you have quite a plan already, don't be too nervous and you'll probably be fine. Everyone gets nervous on things like this you know, as long as your mind knows what's the best way to act it, the judgment you make should be better than mine. After all, I would never understand you and people to talk about here as well as you do. I would recommend you to text him, e-mail him or tell him on msn(or facebook), it would provide him a night to think through it(emotions really affects your decisions), and prevents the awkward moment too. Don't go face to face with him right after you tell him, that is, if he doesn't seem to be easy about it(who knows, he might as well be thinking the same thing about you~ ;D). Finally, anything you do, makes sure you won't regret it, you would see I'm regretting about things and still confused in a way if you went to my Advice Column. I do not guarantee my advice is good, don't forget I'm a girl at your age(just happens that you can tell me whatever you like since I don't know you in person) dealing with the same kind of stuffs. I'm giving my objective view as a peer. :)
Good luck, I'm guessing you would need it. =]
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this is hard to say.. but im a cutter. Everytime i get upset, thats what I do.. that or go get messed up, but a razors a lot easier to get.. I cant ween myself from the blade. what do you guys think of cutters honestly ? & what should i do.. my parents know but think i stopped months ago.. ugh... wwhy am i doing this ? (link)
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I'm afraid I don't know very much about cutters, but I am a person who often needs to relieve stress or to feel control.
I don't cut, I usually grab myself really tight(or hit/throw something, a pillow or sofa, without damaging anything or hurting anyone) that I leave many fingernail marks on my arm. I know it's probably not healthy, but I feel relieve afterwards, since you would heal quickly from it, maybe you would consider to use it instead?
Best wishes. :)
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Hi 15 year old male and im gay i havent told anyone about it im nervous and lately im been feeling a bit lonely i want to start looking for a boyfriend im not sure how to go about it im not sure which guys are gay or not and i dont know how to approach them or talk to them i really want to get a boyfriend what can i do? (link)
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Sorry, this is late. ^_^" It is because I really don't have some personal experience to share so I had to do a lot of research.
I'm providing as much advice as I can and giving you a few links I found. as I know, most gay people wait for the great guy to came, which is not so bad. I would say be a good friend and get to know others, and there might be a guy you like. Let me remind you, 10 percent of the population is gay, it isn't so hard to meet 10 guys I believe. Besides that, you can surely go to some gay teen center or a gay/straight alliance if you feel comfortable. Internet is a great way to meet others too, I was surprise how many gay people are near when I search. Here is a good website for that: http://gayteen.meetup.com/ If you would like any more information or to read others experience, I found http://gayteens.about.com/ quite useful as well.
P.S. There are gay dating sites(http://gaydar.co.uk/ is a famous one, but it seems to be for United Kingdom) for 18 or above, you might wanna try them out when you are elder. Those websites would be well-organized and with much more members. http://personals.yahoo.com/ has fewer people but you don't need to go through complicated registration steps to find someone in your region. ;)
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14 female;
so i'm bisexual & i don't know how to tell my mom. She's so open. i have a boyfriend & were sexually active & she knows & shes okay with it, as long as we use condoms. & i have my boyfriend so i dont want a girlfriend but i need to tell her. i told her about some of my bi friends & she says "how do girls your age know if theyre bi or not?" because people have having sex at younger ages. so how do i tell her? (link)
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I would say you can probably tell her when there is a girl that you like, not that you cannot be sure about this(I'm 14 too~), but there doesn't seem to be a need to tell her. If you really want to tell her, tell her indirectly would be easier, when you tell her through writing(text message, e-mail, note etc.), you can better organize your thought and express it well, she would probably understand that it is not a subject to be talked face to face easily, so don't have to be nervous about it. Well, I can't say this will fit your situation since my mum has stronger opinion about things, so my methods are always indirect and kinda cowardice... ^_^"
Also, as you're mum is so open and you're already dating a guy, she would not care so much even if you tell her. She might just think "she'll find out if she is or not when she grow up", that's one of the reasons I've never told my mum about me being bi/les.
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Im 13/male im gay my boyfriend is 14 weve been together over a month now i really like him im a bit unsure on what to do i really want to kiss him and im bit nervous about it im not sure if its too soon or how long you wait to kiss or hold hands do i just bring it up with him or wait what do i do? (link)
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It kinda depends, since a month is not long and I would not say it's short either. If you often talk to your boyfriend about touchy subject, yeah, I would say bring it up is a good idea. If you two don't really talk about touchy subjects all that often, wait for a good moment and go for it. ;)
In any case, I hope it turns out fine for you two. :)
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14 year old gay male my boyfriend is 14 weve been together 3 months i like him a lot im not sure if im worrying too much the other day we were at the movies and on the way home i went to hold his hand but he pulled it away he didnt want to i didnt say anything im not sure if hes losing interest in me should i worry about it i really like him should i say something? am i being too pushy? (link)
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I'm thinking maybe he's nervous, well, I can't be sure of course. Not everyone would be very comfortable with holding hands in the public. My case might be different since I grew up in Hong Kong, but I would not feel very comfortable to hold hands in the public, especially with a girl(I am a girl =]). Well, Hong Kong is a bit less open-minded than Western society, that's why(at least it's much better than mainland China~). In any cases, I don't think it would be wise to worry more than you should. There is a chance that he lose interest, but I would think you should be looking it positively. If he was just nervous or maybe he needed his hand to do something, it would be stupid to worry too much. :)
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13 year old male almost 14 and for awhile ive been really attracted to guys i keep staring at them and i really like this guy hes also 13 weve become real close were good friends quickly and im a bit nervous to tell him or how to tell him and last weekend i was at his place and he told me that he likes me i said that i did like him so we talked for a bit then he said he wanted to kiss me i was a bit nervous but we started making out for a few minutes and i really liked it i know im young but we want to be together bit nervous about it getting out should i just go for it? (link)
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I would definitely say yes. It's not very easy to find someone that would like you, so when you do, why not? I can't think of any reason to say no. Don't worry about it too much, I'm sure it'll be fine no matter how it end up~ ;D From time to time, I'm really easy to get nervous too, but at least I would encourage myself to do what I know is right. Better try your best than run away from things, right? :)
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Growing up I've also been an outcast. I've never really made friends. I don't even think I really have a close bond with my mother, who raised me by herself. I've had one boyfriend before but things never sparked for either of us so we moved on after a couple of months of trying. I don't want to be alone all of my life but I can't seem to be a match for anyone. It's really depressing but I'm pretty use to being alone.
My question is pretty simple, I think...
Does everyone find love?
I'm 26 and have never found love. Did it pass me by? Will I be alone forever? (link)
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Really, I don't think I have a good answer for that question, but I go for "yes, there is". Isn't it always better to believe in the good?
I just answered this question(I'm ivycheang) and I think it is kind of similar to what your question is about:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=576317
I hope getting some real examples can help you in answering that question. :)
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I just had my period and I know I should tell my mom but I don't want to be embarrassed. I cannot find the right words to tell her that I've started. It wouldn't be a problem but my mom doesn't have periods right now and doesn't keep any pads or tampons in the house because of that. I can't just stuff toilet paper in my panties. My friend gave me a few pads but I can't keep asking her for them. How do I tell my mom about my period and not feel stupid? I don't want her to make this into a big deal... (link)
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I messaged my mum "I'm having my period" at my first time. She answered "me too". :P It really isn't that hard. For adults, it's something very normal to them, it's us who are making it complicated. Just tell her indirectly and I'm sure it will turn out fine~ ;D
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I've had a few serious relationships in my life. Each one left me completely heartbroken. I haven't had a relationship for a few years and I never let a guy close. There have been some really great guys that have tried to start a relationship with me, but I freak out and push them away. The thing is, it's not only guys. I don't like getting close to girls, or anybody for that matter. I've lost most of my friends throughout the years and any girl who tries to be my friend or tries to hang out with me, I make excuses or blow it off. I don't know why I close everyone off. My mom always tells me "If you close off the bad, you also close off all the good". Most of the time, I enjoy being alone and being independent, going to school and spending time with family. I'm just terrified of being alone forever. I'm miserable most of the time and it is definitely my own doing! How do I open up to people? I'm so scared of putting myself out there, but also scared of never having a boyfriend or a good friend to lean on. It's the worst feeling when I want to run to a boyfriend or a best friend, and there's nobody (besides family). Is there anyway I can overcome this and let people really see me and get to know me? (20/F) (link)
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Well, I'm no expert in opening up myself but I can see you're upset about this. I just wanna let you feel a bit better.
I'm quite similar to you. 4 years ago, when I was still in Hong Kong, my mum told me that we're going to immigrant to Canada. Along with that fact, she told me she's getting divorced with my dad. A year later, after a number of arguing at the middle of the night which wake me, they finally divorced. A few more months later, my dad came to Canada before me and my mum. I graduated from elementary/primary school two and a half years ago. The separation with my friends is not very easy of course, I especially treasure a friend who I'm not close with but I have been thinking of her as someone similar to me(This is a habit I still keep, finding similarities between me and others and think of them secretly, I hope it's not a creepy habit). I drop one tear when I looked at our graduation photo and realized it is really the end, I can never see her again(the first time I've ever cried for someone). Well, I didn't keep in contact with her even though we're still "MSN friend". I went to a secondary school(for grade 7-12) where none of my old friends go to in September 2007. I felt weird at first because how some people greet so happily at the first day of school. Luckily, I already had two friends I met at orientation program(Briefly, I went to scondary school, meet some friends and enjoy for 2 years, and then I leave, to somewhere so far away from them. And my mum is thinking of moving again, I'm leaving my friends again, the friends I just met for 6 months). I hang out with them and we became less close a few months later(That is normal, I assume). After that, my habit continued. It's nothing much, I just noticed a few people I find interesting(about 4 girls and 2 boys). I only hang on to 3 girls and a boy that has a lot of Math achievement like I do(he's 1 year elder than me so I can't compete with him, I did win him once at a math contest~ :P). The most important point is, one of the girls I found interesting and I feel most towards is one of the two friends I hang out with at the beginning. So I regret that I didn't keep being friend with her. This continued for 2 years, that is, until now. I cried that day I left Hong Kong and came to Toronto, no one noticed, but I cried(like I always does for her, I was thinking "how much I wanna be your friend, but at the end, I am the one that leaves"). Forgot to mention, I started doubting I might be a lesbian 1 year ago(I guess anyone would be thinking 'bout that by this point). Now, I believe I'll know if I am one or not eventually. However, I have been very lonely since I arrived in Toronto. I have a few friends, about 5. None of them is too close to me(3 are closer, but still we only talk at school), and I find it hard to be in a group when we have group activity. Normally, people either ask me to join or I tell my teacher I don't have a group. I've never date anyone, and I don't want to, I'm too tired(talking to someone, thinking of ways to make that person happy, it's a lot of work). However, when I think of my future, I feel so sad. I know if I continue to cut myself out of the world, I would be a pathetic lonely woman. And that is not what I like, after all, I like to shine, to achieve and to prove my ability, to be envied(it is a part of my personality. I better not describe myself or this paragraph would be a LOT longer ^_^"). I am trying to improve this situation(this process is always difficult but I would try not to give up), I try to be nice to my friends and stay in the conversation when they're chatting(my mind fly away very easily, I like to think, even though I think too much).
Sorry, I guess I just need a place to write them out. I believe you being able to say it all out is already a big step. I believe it was very difficult for you, to be heartbroken again and again. My suggestion might be a bit strange, to think. You know you hate to be miserable, and you feel the instinct to resist and relationship, it's confusing, but which side do you prefer is nothing other would know. Sometimes, to be alone, rest for a while and get yourself together is good, but you need to wake up when it's time for you to continue in your life, and only you know when is the time.
I hope I helped~ :)
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Dear Ivycheang,
The man who asking you these sexually graphic questions about your hand and being tied up is a troll. He has asked hundreds of female advicenators the same EXACT question (Because he was going through and spamming like EVERYONE is probably why he accidently asked you the same thing three times.) When a young women takes the bait, he follows up with more and more graphic requests or he tries to guilt them into fleshing out their answers.
He has been banned before for this behavior.
He will be gone again shortly.
Please, please, please, keep yourself safe and do not play a part in his fetish.
If he contacts you again, or if you see him contact anyone else, please file an Abuse Report (the link is under Miscellaneous on the left). (link)
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Thank you so much for helping with my doubt. I've been wondering that. However, I know nothing about him and also nothing about you so I don't think I'll be able to recognize him. Of course, I'll try and I'll most definitely keep myself safe. Next time, if I see someone started asking me any kind of personal stuffs, I will be careful and report abuse if they had gone too far.
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Hi 14 yr old guy again sorry about this i had trouble with feedback so i wrote in this section thanks for your advice yes he is my boyfriend weve known each other about a year and we really hit it off just over 5 months ago when we got together not sure why im nervous. thats about all i can think of to tell thanks (link)
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It's fine, I'm not very good at something on this website too. Well, I think I said everything I want. Hope you two will be happy~ ^_^
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im 14 and im gay my bf is 15 weve been together 5 months and hes a great guy we really good togther and ive fallin in love with him i was nearly going to tell him the other day i got nervous not sure if its too soon do you wait for a certain time to tell them you love them? should i tell him? (link)
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Okay... I'm a bit confused. Is bf your boyfriend or your best friend? it that u love your boyfriend so much that u just wanna tell him about it? If he's your boyfriend, tell him directly now. It's nothing to be hesitate about. It is always a right time to tell your loved one who love you back how much you're falling in love with him. If you're saying your best friend, try to say something related to it. See what he think about homosexual, maybe. After some time, he might understand what you're hinting. He might have reaction or not. If not, you should probably tell him after a period of time. There's never a standard time for waiting. Tell him by indirectly ways if you're scared.
I can't really write much like I usually do when I'm a bit confused. Please tell me more in feedback and I'll edit my answer. It should be better that way.
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I really really really like this guy. I know im a little young but I'm starting to think he could be the one maybe. The only problem is that I'm 13 and hes 19. That is so weird right? Or do people date even though there that far apart? I can't really talk about this with anyone cause his mom is my moms best friend and his sister is one of my friends (not best friend but were defently friends). Our personalitys are like exactly the same. We have know each other for along time. I've liked him since I was like 7. Do you think its weird for me to like a guy that is 6 years older than me? My parents are 8 or 9 years apart but I dont always think that they married eachother for love. I really like this guy. I constantly think about him. So what should I do? Am I too young for him? (link)
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I don't encourage you to tell him now.
I believe 6 years isn't a big difference of age among adult lovers, just like your parents. I don't know if your parents are together for love but I definitely know someone with a larger age difference. My cousin for one. He's about 30 and he's dating a girl almost 10 years younger than him. As we grow, age difference become less important to us but in your age it's still a big thing. Therefore, I think you might as well wait for a couple of years. I'm sure you won't lose contact with him as your mothers are friends, right? If you still have strong feelings for him by that time, tell him and see how it goes out. If you don't, you'll know it was a immature crush. Plus, he would probably not take you seriously with your age difference. When you're more mature, he would know you are serious about it.
Btw, I'm 14 female.
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What do i need to start my acting career? i am dedicated and passionate and i will stick with this career. how do i start and what do i need? Do i need to move to LA or CA? (I live in florida.) do i need an agent, if so who? do i need a permit?
sorry its so many questions but its important.
1.) what do i need to start?
2.) how do i start?
3.) do i need to move to LA or CA? (living in FL.)
4.) do i need an agent, if so who?
5.) do i need a permit? i am 13 (minor)
6.) where are there auditions?
i have some experience and both other people and i agree i am good. thanks! 13/F
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Okay...I have absolutely no knowledge in this kind of stuff but I found an answer rated 5 that is posted recently. I don't know if you have read it or not but I think it is quite good.
"In high school the best thing to do is do performances for the school play. You may want to broaden your horizens vocally so you could play in musicals as well. The more well rounded you are the better. also when you graduate, i would look into going to a liberal arts college such as bethany college in wv. Its one of the best and i currently go there. The best thing to help strengthen your acting career is practicing monologues, finding friends and working on different scripts. The more knowledgeable you are, the better. This will mean that you will be able to pull off just about any part you want. Mirroring exercises work, breathing in and out, and even yoga helps relax the muscles. if you check out local listings in ur area, they have postings of auditions for plays. This will help you get out there, strengthen and hone your skills."
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Expressing myself through a computer screen Is very hard to do.So sharing info with random people is something i have never done in my life.But im just screaming for help and I have to be heard in one way or another.And im not here to be told that im just overreacting or that i just have to never give up because i've heard it all before and my pain runs so much deeper then that.So listen and just try to spare me the tough love and just help me by giving me the best advice possibly because that it what i really need right now.
This litte feeling that takes over me has been happening since I was a tyke. I mean i felt like my family has always teamed up on me.I guess you can call me the black sheep of my family.I mean my childhooh has been pretty rough but its not about that.The problem is that I feel like im always beening smothered.Like I can never breath in fresh air.When i was younger i used to live in this house that was huge..but sadly it burned to the ground in a huge house fire.So now i live in this box..literally.I feel like in going crazy.The house is over crowded by immature siblings and grown ups.My mom is 40 and so is my dad and those two argue like five year old kids.Im 17 years old and i still cover my ears everytime they go at.Im just so over the whole thing.Being here doesnt feel like a home and im just really ready to live.I mean what parents would want their kids to be around all this screaming and cursing.Im very disappointed in the both of them.Problem #2.The only person that i really felt close to was my twin sister.Its like I was born with my own best friend.From dressing alike to laughing at each others jokes..she was my rib.But no..when she got her so-called boyfriend things changed big time.She start saying things to me like how i couldnt keep a boyfriend becuase no one liked me and how i had no friends.Things that will scar my heart for life.Things she would have never said to me.And she really put me down when she got a job before me.I gratuated in may of 09 and have been looking for a job to help pay for college out of pocket.Im just so sick of being left out.As for friends..My life asnt been anything but a big competion with me.Why does frinedship have to be about jealousy.I can honestly say I never had true blue friends.Now a day everybody just compete's with everyone.No one's honest anymore.I just wanna go to college and start my life.But since I have no money..I have to work for it.Please dont tell me that there's finacial aid becuase i have recieved that but still its nott enough.Yes..I have applied for scholarships and grants.And no..mom and dad cant help becuase their just as selfish as the next person.All they can think about is buying the next hottest car becuase one of their co-workers have it.I need to find myself spiritually but cant never stay focused do to the negative things people fill my head with.I feel like cyring everyday.I just wanna break out of the walls and start my life they I want to. What can I do..? Please you guys..I feel so alone in this world. (link)
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You know, I couldn't stop for a breath while reading your story. I have to say, I don't think I can ever truly understand your feelings since I'm not in a situation same as yours. Although I can't feel the same as you do, I did have tough time in my life.(Who didn't? Just that if they share it to you or not) The hardest time of my life began three years ago when I was about 11, I woke up one night at midnight because I heard some strange noise. I walked to the living room and saw my parents watching porn together. My dad quickly covered them with cover so I don't know did they wear anything.(Of course I hope the answer is yes but why did he cover themselves?) I ran back to bed, without crying and tried to sleep.(I don't know what was I thinking) My mum came in and tried to comfort me but left and told me she's gonna stay with dad before I go to sleep. That's how I became mature(at least I consider it this way). After that, there are times than I ate in the corridor with my parents watching porn in the living room. For some reason, I was quite fine with it when they told me the idea. My parents started to divorce when I was 12.(weird, huh?) There were numerous nights my dad came into where my mum and me slept and they just start arguing. They thought they can keep in low so I won't hear but I woke up every single time. They just argue before sleep after the one time my mum found out I wasn't asleep. Okay...that's too much. I'm personally a shy person and I dressed like a guy even though I'm a girl. Every of my friends and teachers believes I'm those kind of good student. I'm good at some subjects and not bad at the others so I always feel stress by others' expectation. I am not afraid of pain so whenever I feel like wanna cry(I almost never cry in front of others), I squeeze my arm very hard that my fingernails leave deep marks on it. If I'm alone in home, I would throw things and pinch things(even walls) to make me too tired to explode. All I could do(I think that's all) is live with it and try to manage my feelings. So, be tough! I'm sure you will eventually get through it and live your beautiful life. By the way, listen to music is good too. If you want to talk(or scream) to anyone, I'll be glad to help. My e-mail is ivycheang1252525@hotmail.com It's also for facebook and msn but I don't often go to msn.
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is it okay for a 19 year old to date a 24 year old? just curious to everyone's opinions :) thanks! (link)
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I believe it's perfectly fine. I've met lovers with 8 years of age difference and they get along quite well.
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hi im 15/male and im gay and for awhile now i have been attracted to a guy hes a friend weve been friends for awhile weve spent a lot of time hanging out together over tha last few months and i have strong feelings for him i think he likes me im a bit nervous to tell him not sure if hell will reject me but i like him a lot and i want to see if he wants to be with me but im unsure how to talk to him or how to go about it what can i do? (link)
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I guess it's good to be closer to him. I don't know exactly how close you two are though. If you're really close to him now, drop some hints should be a good way. You can talk about homosexual with him, see what he think about that. And over time, he might just realize what you've been trying to tell him. If you think you two are close enough that it shouldn't hurt your relationship, ask him directly. E-mail and message can be good but he might be avoiding you after that and it will be very awkward.
That's all I can say and it might not be good for you since I really don't know how you two are like. Hope it will help you.
P.S.You can read other answers I've wrote since there're cases similar to yours and I may forgot to mention all I said before that's suitable for you.
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So i am just wondering why at such a young age you consider your self gay?
I am a staight female around your age and i do not agree with gays but i don't hate them because there gay do you get what I'm saying i like anyone but that doesn't mean i agree with what they do understand?? lol
but If you ever want help i would love to answer any questions that you have if your confused or anything idk why but I just feel like something is telling me to help you.
Sorry if this sounds werid i hope you emial me back.
xoxoxo gibs (link)
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It's not weird, I'd like to answer that. I understand what you mean by understanding others but don't agree with what they do. I feel the same sometimes and I just hope someone can just tell me why they do that. I like to understand others.
First, I don't sure I'm a lesbian. I think I might be one because I really like a girl back in Hong Kong(Ok... A long story...I grew up in Hong Kong and I just moved to Canada. I really like a girl in my school. I was like checking everything of her but I never did get to know(I mean talk to her more) her more since I was too shy and I know she like guys. I still like her now but I can't do anything about it, right?) but I was never sure. Although all these feelings I have is kind of confusing, I think I will manage them well soon. I just need to think more about it and get to know myself more. Anyways, thanks for asking.
P.S. I don't know exactly which answer did you read but you can read other answers if you want to know what a person I am. I've register for just a few days and many of the questions I answered so far is about homosexual.
Hope I'd answer your questions.
xoxo Ivy:-)
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I'm sorry but I don't know your account name, I would like to know you better too. Can you write your account name at feedback?
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I just can't stop having sex. It's awful. I seem to wake up every morning with a new woman in my bed. Sometimes more then one. I always use a condom, but the thing that bothers me is I'm homosexual. Why can't I stop having mad sex with women? (link)
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I can tell you're much elder(I'm 14...girl) but quite mature for my age) than me so I have to tell you this. You might not listen to me if you want, I won't say I completely understand your situation.
I think I might be a lesbian since I kind of like a girl and I think of her like everyday and I just wanna know everything of her. Although, I might like same sex, I'm sure(I really am sure) that I would like having sex with guys. It's what our body like. Our brain automatically enjoy the feeling of it and none of us can change this nature. You might just like it more than others and that's why you keep doing that. You can maybe find something else to do. Anything, actually. As long as you enjoy that activity and you won't meet another girl wanna have sex with you.
Finished(a little awkward...but I'm in front of a computer so it's fine~)
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