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Does everyone find love?
Growing up I've also been an outcast. I've never really made friends. I don't even think I really have a close bond with my mother, who raised me by herself. I've had one boyfriend before but things never sparked for either of us so we moved on after a couple of months of trying. I don't want to be alone all of my life but I can't seem to be a match for anyone. It's really depressing but I'm pretty use to being alone.
My question is pretty simple, I think...
Does everyone find love?
I'm 26 and have never found love. Did it pass me by? Will I be alone forever?
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i know what your going through kinda.
i believe out there everyones got some one, whether you find them or not is a different story.
try going out to places (bars, clubs, if thats not your thing then places to do with whatever hobbies or interests you have)
i found love once... such an amazing connection i had with this one girl. but after just a month and a few days she had to move away... she was the only propper girlfriend iv ever had and iv missed her everyday since. but in all honesty i kinda like the isolation i have, iv allways been a bit of a loner never went out looking for love always left it for chance and luck to sort out for me. You may not find some one for another 20 years for all we can tell you but theres IS some one out there for you.
I live in south england and i dont like it here much anymore so im thinking of moving country out to some were more interesting and exciting. But thats a huge change and a drastic one, You could make much more smaller changes and get to know more people through that change or do what i do and leave it down to chance and luck if you want to.
Loves not an easy thing to find, im probably gonna be alone for a long time before i find my next gf, but i could be wrong and it could be a short time.
but its all down to what you do.
but dont try to be somthing your not when you find that guy dont go changing your personality or somthing to have a better chance at getting him (Im guessing your a girl from your question)
Hopefully i helped a little bit. theres not an awfull i can say on this type of question besides help your self or time will tell.
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I know where your coming from, with the whole distant situation. I'm actually a very distant person myself, because I sometimes feel, Why do people care? Why waste their time on me? I'm not good enough to love,am I? And these are the reasons I've been alone for so long. I've finally come to realize, if you don't believe in yourself and that you are able to be loved, then you never will find what you're looking for. You need to expose yourself but be happy with yourself all at the same time. It's hard to let people in, I know- you've built up so much fear and walls and for what? What reason do you really need to have all this armor protecting you? If you never give in and trust someone, you'll never know pain-But in reality, wouldn't you rather feeling something than never knowing? It's time for you to stop resisting things and just go crazy. Really, do everything you want, say what you want, no matter what it is. Even if it's your deepest feelings, tell someone, don't be afraid of release. Think of it as- its not that you haven't found the one that your looking for, its just- you've found all the ones your NOT looking for. You will be alone forever if you believe you cannot be loved, and if you keep your walls up. You must change, be happy with yourself and love yourself before you love someone else. Stay confident! Confidence is a very attracting aspect in someone, so smiling and confidently doing something you want to do will really put you out there.
Does everyone find love? This question I don't think I'll ever be able to answer. See, I have found love, but I didn't decide to act on it because of my fear of trust, and it was lost. Doing that a countless amount of times has taught me what I'm now telling you.Maybe it's really that Love finds Us,perhaps? In that case, be yourself,meet more people gradually over time,and if it works out it will-if not,it's something you can learn from and grow,experience and move on. My grandma recently found love again, and she's 76! It's never,ever too late for love :). There's many different forms of love, and I have to disagree with the person who first answered this question- sometimes people DO have more than one love of their life. Though,I can't say I've had more than one myself. If you see something,take it.Never miss a chance, and make your own chances. Lately that's the rule of the game,right? Anyway,(sorry for my rambling-I actually have a lot in my head right now about this subject :P) The main thing I'm getting at is if you believe in love,and project yourself out there into the dating world, you will find it. But you're main priority is to be happy regardless. :) Hope I helped and good luck!
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Really, I don't think I have a good answer for that question, but I go for "yes, there is". Isn't it always better to believe in the good?
I just answered this question(I'm ivycheang) and I think it is kind of similar to what your question is about:
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I hope getting some real examples can help you in answering that question. :)
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honestly most people will tell you that love is horrible and your heart gets broken but the truth is i dont belive that. everyones heart gets broken and tahts normal and ok. but i belive everyone has their one and only. and he will come. but one thing is to not find him. and its a whole nother thing to just not want him. mabie you see someone everyday but your not really interested in him and he is your destiny :) :) ... anyways my point is no you will not be alone forever unless you want too. and just give it time. you will find love. go out. go shopping go anywere. he's bound to be out their somewhere. :) i hope i helped you. -the mind has a thousand eyes, and the heart but one; yet the light of a whole life dies when love is done.
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