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6 years older than me!
I really really really like this guy. I know im a little young but I'm starting to think he could be the one maybe. The only problem is that I'm 13 and hes 19. That is so weird right? Or do people date even though there that far apart? I can't really talk about this with anyone cause his mom is my moms best friend and his sister is one of my friends (not best friend but were defently friends). Our personalitys are like exactly the same. We have know each other for along time. I've liked him since I was like 7. Do you think its weird for me to like a guy that is 6 years older than me? My parents are 8 or 9 years apart but I dont always think that they married eachother for love. I really like this guy. I constantly think about him. So what should I do? Am I too young for him?
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You're 13 years old. You don't know what "the one" is.
He's 19 years old meaning he is an adult. He is done with high school & probably in college. You're barely in high school & probably just starting middle school. You're a minor/baby.
Don't get into it with him because he will go to jail & be labeled as a sex offender if he does anything with you. Leave him alone & date a boy your own age.
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I don't encourage you to tell him now.
I believe 6 years isn't a big difference of age among adult lovers, just like your parents. I don't know if your parents are together for love but I definitely know someone with a larger age difference. My cousin for one. He's about 30 and he's dating a girl almost 10 years younger than him. As we grow, age difference become less important to us but in your age it's still a big thing. Therefore, I think you might as well wait for a couple of years. I'm sure you won't lose contact with him as your mothers are friends, right? If you still have strong feelings for him by that time, tell him and see how it goes out. If you don't, you'll know it was a immature crush. Plus, he would probably not take you seriously with your age difference. When you're more mature, he would know you are serious about it.
Btw, I'm 14 female.
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He is not the one no matter how much you fantasize that he is. It's normal to get a crush on an older guy - but that is where it ends. And you'll get a new crush soon.
Think of it this way, when he was your age, 13, you were 7...what if a 7 year old liked you? That's how disgusting the thought should be to him, too.
Yes, you are too young for him. And if he is a decent guy, he has not given you a single thought other than "nice kid." Don't creep him out.
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