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i like a cop
Im 19 and the cop is 22
I have recently meet a guy who is a cop. I meet him at my job he comes to get therapy at my job. Is been about 2 weeks we are talking more often..but the main reason we initially started talking was because i have to do an essay assigment for my college class that involves a ride-along with a police department. So i told him that i havent got any response from the other department and what should i do. So he automatically told me to go to his department and do the application and request for him, that he will do the ride-along with me. long story short...now that we talk a little more im starting to like him. But my main question is how should i talk to him, he is a cop and i never liked a cop before??..i mean what should i say to him?...i dont want to sound dumb or anything like that.. how should i let him know that im starting to like him?
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I think I know what you're meaning here.
Before I started working for doctors, I
thought they knew it all and were probably
just to smart to even want to talk to me.
No at all true. They are people like anyone
else. Some smart, some not. Some interesting,
some not. Because you respect his job, you
are nervous. Don't be. He is just like you.
So, talk to him like you would any of your
other friends.
Remember when you are on a ride along, its
not a date. No time to discuss how you feel
about him. Save that for a time when you are
just talking. If he's smart he will have an
idea how you feel just by talking with you.
If not suggest the possibility of grabbing a
cup of coffee, or soda sometime before or after work.
Best of luck. :)
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He isn't just a cop.
He is a human being! Talk to him like you would talk to any other guy, make conversation, be yourself - as cliche as it sounds. He is a cop, he is bound to have some social skills..you'll be fine. I've been in these situations before - I get freaked because I think there willl be nothing to say, but there always is.
Don't let him know you like him, not at least yet. You've only known him a while and it may scare him away. He'd also be helping you with your essay - if you told him you liked him and he didn't feel the same - now that would of been an dumb thing to say as it would make things very awkard.
Just relax and enjoy being in his company. Wait a while until you find any hints that he may like you back.
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