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to text or not to text?


Question Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 6:34 pm

I just got out of a semi long term relationship, so I kind of need a refresher on how to date. I've been hanging out with this guy every day for the last two weeks, and for about a week we've been kissing and whatnot. I've slept over at his apartment the past three nights (no sex) because he asked me to stay with him. Since us hanging out has kind of become a nightly thing, I sort of was surprised when he didn't invite me over last night. I didn't want to text him and seem clingy, plus it was kind of nice to just hang out with my roommates, but now I've been wondering why he didn't ask me over and all that good stuff. So my question is...do I text him and tell him I kind of missed hanging out last night? Or would that make me look too clingy? I just want to be sure there's still something between us, but asking straight up would probably freak him out. I mean I understand that we're not gonna see each other every day and all that jazz, but is it too much to say I missed him? Because as much as I don't want to seem clingy, I also want to be sure he knows I'm still interested. So help?

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gr8fruit answered Monday October 12 2009, 11:50 pm:
Hi,
He may have been busy or something came up and he couldnt have you over. I would text him. It doesn't hurt just to say 'hey, I was thinking about you last night' and start up a convo. You won't seem clingy unless you are non stop bugging him. Also, guys cannot read your mind and they usually don't mind a girl being the first to start the conversation, it actually comes off as confidence if you talk to them first.
Don't ask him straight up if he likes you, but don't be afraid to flirt or give hints that you like him ;) He will be sure that you are interested if you do these two things <3

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sia answered Monday October 12 2009, 5:22 am:
id say give it a day before you txt him..or you can wait till he txts you but dont leave it for more than a day because he maybe waiting for you to txt him. hope this helps

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