The man who asking you these sexually graphic questions about your hand and being tied up is a troll. He has asked hundreds of female advicenators the same EXACT question (Because he was going through and spamming like EVERYONE is probably why he accidently asked you the same thing three times.) When a young women takes the bait, he follows up with more and more graphic requests or he tries to guilt them into fleshing out their answers.
He has been banned before for this behavior.
He will be gone again shortly.
Please, please, please, keep yourself safe and do not play a part in his fetish.
If he contacts you again, or if you see him contact anyone else, please file an Abuse Report (the link is under Miscellaneous on the left).
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