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How do i tell him
Hi im 14 male and well i realise that im gay ive been attracted to guys for awhile now i havent told anyone im not sure about telling my parents there religious so they might not react that well im thinking of waiting for awhile before i talk to them and ive become really close to this guy were freinds we hang out a lot and ive fallen for him im nervous to tell him how i feel he seems to like me hes brushed up against me hes friendly to me so i think he might like me im not sure if hes gay i really like him andi want to find out if he feels the same way i am thinking about sending him a text message im not sure what to say do i say straight out how i feel? what do i do?
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Sorry that I was away, March Break started so I didn't get time to answer you till now. ^_^"
Waiting a while is sure a good idea, but be sure to tell them earlier than later, better you tell them than they find out through others. I would say you have quite a plan already, don't be too nervous and you'll probably be fine. Everyone gets nervous on things like this you know, as long as your mind knows what's the best way to act it, the judgment you make should be better than mine. After all, I would never understand you and people to talk about here as well as you do. I would recommend you to text him, e-mail him or tell him on msn(or facebook), it would provide him a night to think through it(emotions really affects your decisions), and prevents the awkward moment too. Don't go face to face with him right after you tell him, that is, if he doesn't seem to be easy about it(who knows, he might as well be thinking the same thing about you~ ;D). Finally, anything you do, makes sure you won't regret it, you would see I'm regretting about things and still confused in a way if you went to my Advice Column. I do not guarantee my advice is good, don't forget I'm a girl at your age(just happens that you can tell me whatever you like since I don't know you in person) dealing with the same kind of stuffs. I'm giving my objective view as a peer. :)
Good luck, I'm guessing you would need it. =]
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