Question Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 7:54 pm
14 year old gay male my boyfriend is 14 weve been together 3 months i like him a lot im not sure if im worrying too much the other day we were at the movies and on the way home i went to hold his hand but he pulled it away he didnt want to i didnt say anything im not sure if hes losing interest in me should i worry about it i really like him should i say something? am i being too pushy?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ivycheang answered Thursday January 21 2010, 6:38 pm: I'm thinking maybe he's nervous, well, I can't be sure of course. Not everyone would be very comfortable with holding hands in the public. My case might be different since I grew up in Hong Kong, but I would not feel very comfortable to hold hands in the public, especially with a girl(I am a girl =]). Well, Hong Kong is a bit less open-minded than Western society, that's why(at least it's much better than mainland China~). In any cases, I don't think it would be wise to worry more than you should. There is a chance that he lose interest, but I would think you should be looking it positively. If he was just nervous or maybe he needed his hand to do something, it would be stupid to worry too much. :) [ ivycheang's advice column | Ask ivycheang A Question ]
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