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Question Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 8:35 pm

16/f
On New Years Eve my friends and I went to my best friend's boyfriend's house. A bunch of his friends were there, they're seniors and my friends are juniors. I ended up flirting with his good friend who I always thought was really hot and there was just something about him but I had never even talked to him before that night. I never thought about being with him since he has had the same girlfriend since practically freshman year. I hear that he really doesn't like her, it's one of those things that they've been going out so long that it's just easier to be together until they go off to college...who knows. I was confused because yeah guys can be flirty even when they have gf's but he was SUPER flirty like trying to impress me, practically trying to get with me but not being so forward. I had such a good time with him, we really connected. BUT HE HAS A GF GRRR! I am not one to everrr break up a couple but I can't get him out of my mind. I feel like I'm passing up something that could be really special. Apparantely his gf said he could hook up with other girls just dont tell her about it...WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IS THAT. UGH SO CONFUSED. I havent talken to him since. I pass him in the hall but we dont make eye contact...its weird. There were just so many things that showed he was so into me. What do you think I should do?? I cant even tell you what I felt, there was so much chemistry thats why I just cant seem to let it go.Just be honest. Thanks guys<3


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SoloButterfly answered Friday January 22 2010, 12:52 pm:
Hello - I am a 20yr old female
Been in a relationship for 5 years, with a son

I just want you to think about it more. What if they break up, and you end up getting with him. You would eventually have trust issues. As time passes in relationships, things start to clear up and you feel like you were so blind at first. You find out who the person REALLY IS.

What if y'all start arguing and going through stuff and he starts flirting with a girl just like he did with you? What if he tells the "next girl" the same things he said to you. What if he told another girl that you said he could cheat on you?

Hit me back!

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Faith42 answered Thursday January 21 2010, 4:56 pm:
Well, guys are really hard to figure out..we all no tht. hhaha Hmm..well that's a pretty good sign that he see's something in you. :) That's not really a relationship in my eyes? What girl friend lets someone hook up with other girls? That's horrible. I think they should break up. ;/ You don't have to break them up..just try getting closer to him..don't over do it..though you don't want trouble. Just try that out and if it doesn't work think about something else..you never know..he could do the same thing with u if you date? Try to hook up with other girls. Maybe he lied and said his gf don't mind it. ;/ You never know..just be care full and good luck.

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