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I'm stuck???? I've been in this relationship now for three years, it's been great for awhile, but now it's gotten phsycial and crazy... I've been really depressed lately mainly because he's been this dick asshole to me but again he see's it differently and i'm the bitch. We got in a fight and my finger got broke, but then he got mad one morning and he was grabing my face and shit, pinching me and screaming at me and telling me to shut up but not in so many words. Second I got this text on my phone from a guy I know long before I knew him and it ended up being a mistake, he was trying to text his wife telling her goodnight sweetheard but had texted me. but he apologized the next morning for texting the wrong person and he was some what sorry for it. But my point is i do everything for this man cook, clean, some of his homework for school, plus i do my homework and work, all while he plays video games. He gave me a ring which he says was for commitment ring so i accepted it and now i've been really depressed and i feel like he is pushing me away slowly either to kill myself or drive me to another man. He calls me stupid almost all the time. I really have been thinking of suicide the last three days and have slowly been seting up a time and date to do it and what i'm going to use and been doing research on what that medication would do and the time it would take to kill myself all of it...Please someone give me advice (link)
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Sweetie, sweetie, sweetie -- DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE!!
If a man makes you feel like that, you need to go your seperate way. One thing that stuck out to me:
i feel like he is pushing me away slowly either to kill myself or drive me to another man. He calls me stupid almost all the time. I really have been thinking of suicide the last three days and have slowly been setting up a time and date to do it
Three years is a long time, I know. But some people divorce after 19 years!! Just think, if you feel like this with him after three years, how would you feel in seven years??? could it get better?
Ask yourself if it is worth the risk of losing your self. Obviously he's not the one in pain, so why would he change? He will change on his own time, therefore -- my advice would to be step away. If he wants you and deserves you bad enough that bullshit will change.
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16/f
On New Years Eve my friends and I went to my best friend's boyfriend's house. A bunch of his friends were there, they're seniors and my friends are juniors. I ended up flirting with his good friend who I always thought was really hot and there was just something about him but I had never even talked to him before that night. I never thought about being with him since he has had the same girlfriend since practically freshman year. I hear that he really doesn't like her, it's one of those things that they've been going out so long that it's just easier to be together until they go off to college...who knows. I was confused because yeah guys can be flirty even when they have gf's but he was SUPER flirty like trying to impress me, practically trying to get with me but not being so forward. I had such a good time with him, we really connected. BUT HE HAS A GF GRRR! I am not one to everrr break up a couple but I can't get him out of my mind. I feel like I'm passing up something that could be really special. Apparantely his gf said he could hook up with other girls just dont tell her about it...WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IS THAT. UGH SO CONFUSED. I havent talken to him since. I pass him in the hall but we dont make eye contact...its weird. There were just so many things that showed he was so into me. What do you think I should do?? I cant even tell you what I felt, there was so much chemistry thats why I just cant seem to let it go.Just be honest. Thanks guys (link)
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Hello - I am a 20yr old female
Been in a relationship for 5 years, with a son
I just want you to think about it more. What if they break up, and you end up getting with him. You would eventually have trust issues. As time passes in relationships, things start to clear up and you feel like you were so blind at first. You find out who the person REALLY IS.
What if y'all start arguing and going through stuff and he starts flirting with a girl just like he did with you? What if he tells the "next girl" the same things he said to you. What if he told another girl that you said he could cheat on you?
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15/f
I've been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months. We were friends before that. His ex was one of my friends. She cheated on him a few times and all that. He deserved better. But now she claims she loves him, but she also likes another guy. She's not making any sense. She said she loved him but she also hates him, for asking me out and so on. But the thing is, she said she's totally fine with me, she only feels bad for me cause I'm dating him. I know I shouldn't let this stuff get to me. But it does, and you can't really help it.
So he is the sweetest guy to me and I know he cares about me. He was my first kiss but now its like weird. Only because it's not like a normal fast kiss anymore. He's more into it. I don't have a problem with it but I just don't like it at school. I don't know if that is normal or weird. At first it was weird with hugging so much at school. I didn't find it that bad but the kissing is just so different. I don't really know what I should about it. Like when we hang out outside of school, its totally fine, but I don't know why its bugging me in school. What should I do? (link)
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I am no expert or anything - This is unprofessional advice! I am twenty years old.
I have been in a relationship with my fiance for five years, and we have a four year old son. Take it or leave it!!
I just want to say that if he will do it to your friend, he will do it to you. Even if you don't cheat on him -- there are so many reasons to leave or be with some one. So, just know that most likely, you have a guy that will ask your friend out if y'all are over or arguing.
On the kissing thing, Its not bad to kiss in public. Its also not weird for you to feel uncomfortable inside school. That's the point - school. I feel you on that one. My fiance understands that I like to be professional if I am at school or work. He also respects that.
Try to talk it out with him and tell him that you are uncomfortable expressing passion in certain places, and that you would like to be treated like a lady - not a rebound fling!!
Talk to me though, hope all goes well ;p
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