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Wanting to die
I'm stuck???? I've been in this relationship now for three years, it's been great for awhile, but now it's gotten phsycial and crazy... I've been really depressed lately mainly because he's been this dick asshole to me but again he see's it differently and i'm the bitch. We got in a fight and my finger got broke, but then he got mad one morning and he was grabing my face and shit, pinching me and screaming at me and telling me to shut up but not in so many words. Second I got this text on my phone from a guy I know long before I knew him and it ended up being a mistake, he was trying to text his wife telling her goodnight sweetheard but had texted me. but he apologized the next morning for texting the wrong person and he was some what sorry for it. But my point is i do everything for this man cook, clean, some of his homework for school, plus i do my homework and work, all while he plays video games. He gave me a ring which he says was for commitment ring so i accepted it and now i've been really depressed and i feel like he is pushing me away slowly either to kill myself or drive me to another man. He calls me stupid almost all the time. I really have been thinking of suicide the last three days and have slowly been seting up a time and date to do it and what i'm going to use and been doing research on what that medication would do and the time it would take to kill myself all of it...Please someone give me advice
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What you're experiencing is physical, emotional & mental abuse. He is making you feel low, and running you ragged. Not to mention he's putting his hands on you. What you need to do is flush that fucking ring down the toilet, and leave him. You do not deserve what he is dishing.
Dump his ass and stay single. You need to get your confidence back. Don't take his shit anymore.
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If I can rip off a phrase from one of my favorite advice columnists - Dump the Mother Fucker Already! (DTMFA). Seriously, I know there are two sides to every story, but there is absolutely NO excuse for him to get physical with you and hurt you. None. You don't mention kids, so I assume that's not an issue. You can walk away. Make arrangements to stay with family or friends, pack your stuff and move out, and look for another place. Or if it's your place, tell him it's over, and if he touches you again, you're calling the police, and MEAN IT. Don't put up with that bullshit, not one more day. Get your own space, take a couple of months off men and just relax. Then maybe start to look around again. You can do it, just believe it.
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Sweetie, sweetie, sweetie -- DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE!!
If a man makes you feel like that, you need to go your seperate way. One thing that stuck out to me:
i feel like he is pushing me away slowly either to kill myself or drive me to another man. He calls me stupid almost all the time. I really have been thinking of suicide the last three days and have slowly been setting up a time and date to do it
Three years is a long time, I know. But some people divorce after 19 years!! Just think, if you feel like this with him after three years, how would you feel in seven years??? could it get better?
Ask yourself if it is worth the risk of losing your self. Obviously he's not the one in pain, so why would he change? He will change on his own time, therefore -- my advice would to be step away. If he wants you and deserves you bad enough that bullshit will change.
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