Question Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 1:04 am
19/female. i've had the biggest crush on my friend probably for about 3 years now. i let him borrow my handcuffs and whip haha yeaaah, and so when i get them back from him i kind of want to say something sexy. i dont want to be like "did you have fun??" because obviously he did, and i dont want to know or need to know what he did with them!! but i dont want to make it all awkward and be like .. "i'll use them on you next time" or something really obvious. when i gave them to him i said .. i have three instructions. DONT LOSE THE KEYS TO THE HANDCUFFS, THEY BETTER COME BACK CLEAN AND HAVE FUN!:) and he just kind of smiled and said no worries ;) i know hes attracted to me, we talk about sexual things all the time but have never done anything yet. i dont know what i could say that would be cute/sexy when he gives them back. and i dont want to just be like "thanks" and then leave, ya know??
any suggestions? i mean i'm also pretty new to this whole thing too like the handcuffs and stuff so also any ideas i could do with those tooo! thanks:)
jynx answered Thursday January 21 2010, 12:25 pm: Why would you share toys with anyone? Those things should be kept private between partners and not shared with others who might be diseased. And, if you like the guy why would you let him borrow sex toys that he is going to use with some one other than you? Next time someone asks for your toys tell them nicely to buy their own. [ jynx's advice column | Ask jynx A Question ]
loveydovey224 answered Wednesday January 20 2010, 7:17 pm: um this might be a little too much info but you could say something like, "I'm just starting to get into trying new things with props and i was wondering if you had any pointers for me?" or something like that... it's honest and not too nosy or anything and then if he answers you, you could say something like "oohhh id love to try that" or "that sounds fun" or something.
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