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Boyfriend and I have nothing to talk about.
So me and my boyfriend started dating on Christmas. We used to talk non stop on the phone. But now..we're just kinda silent. And I want to talk to him..but I dont know what to talk to him about. We still like each other..and he still come's over all the time. But..we just have nothing to talk about..we're so different. He's all sporty..on the football team..that kinda thing. And I'm more of a stay at home person..I sit and listen to music..watch movies..I'm into the whole photography computer thing..but even though we're so different..we get along great..but we have NOTHING to talk about..which I dont really understand.
Any suggestions?
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if you have nothing to talk about why are you together? youll find someone who you never get sick of and are always comfortable and dont run out of things to talk about. thats a real relationship. id talk to him about the way you feel, maybe hes just freaked out for some reason and being weird, but if your so different maybe its not the right relationship to be in
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No. Sounds like your still in high school. Your supposed to date around and find what’s best for you anyway. This is the time in your life you can afford to be superficial. Who knows? Maybe you’ll break his heart and he will stop playing football, join a band and get all super famous playing emo songs. Then you’ll be to blame.
*sigh*
IF you really want to save it... Ask yourself: What did you talk about before you got together on the phone? Nothing? Guess what your doing that now. Since he likes games, and you like computers, buy him a sports game, you two create a team, and compete online. That’s love busygamer style.
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I went through the same thing with my current boyfriend of five months. I realized that the reason that we have nothing to talk about is because we are always together...we see everything that is going on lol so don't worry about the talking on the phone problem. Oh and about being different...i promise that it is a good thing :] Hope that helps!
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I've had that happen to me and what i would do is find something you both like and start talking about it. For example:he likes football. If you like watching football on tv, use that as a topic
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Hey there :)
This can be really frustrating, so I'll give you a few ideas to help you out.
1. Talk about his life. Football? Ask him stuff like, ... how long has he played? Does he plan on playing it in the future? As corny as it sounds, try to ask him about his interests.
2. Family, talk about his family. Ask about them. :)
3. Tell him funny things that have happened to you. "Haha I have a story to tell you. One time I was at the mall and I ran up to hug my mom, but it turns out it was some random lady. She ran way screaming!" Just lame stuff like that. :)
4. Talk to him about your interests.
5. Go out and do something! The best way to start conversation is be reminiscing. So go out bowling, and later you can laugh about how one of you got five gutter balls in one game. Things like that work really well.
6. Talk about things you do have in common. Do you go to the same school? Talk about things like that.
Good Luck
Kymmy :)
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