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is it worth it?
14/m
theres a girl that I like that im pretty sure likes me, but i only see her once a week. We hang out sometimes on other days but mostly Its only once a week. Im wondering if its even worth it asking her out even if she says yes because I wouldnt get to see her a ton
your thoughts?
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Honestly, what do you have to lose by going for it? It could turn out to be the best thing to happen to you in a while.
Good luck
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well it all depends on how you really feel.If you really like her then I say give it a shot because if you dont you could lose something great.But be careful because alot of people get turned down.Im sure youre an awesome person and im sure she may like you as well but if things dont work out just dont give up you will find someone someday youre still young and you still have a lot to learn.Keep your chin held high with your confidence up to and youll be great.Hope this advice helps.
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I think it depends entirely on you. I dated a guy that I only got to see once a week. We tried to talk on the phone a lot, but it was just pointless. By only seeing each other once a week, we couldn't really get to know one another. He said it was unfair to me to have a boyfriend that I never got to hang out with. We got along fine other than that, so we decided to be just friends... except it's kind of awkward now. So the moral of this story is, if you date her and it ends badly, it could be awkward. And if she says no, it could be awkward. Do you want to risk the friendship?
Another thing- I assume that neither of you drive since you're 14. That makes it harder to date someone. I waited until I could drive before I dated anyone. So here's another thing... do you like her enough that you could wait a few years until you can drive and have an actual relationship?
Personally, I think you should wait a little while and see if you could possibly be content with being just really good friends. If that drives you crazy, then go for it- ask her out.
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I think you should ask just to see what she would say, I mean if she says yes, there's a bigger chance of her liking you. I think it's totally worth finding that out. & Plus you'll still get to see her :) that's a plus.
I hope I helped.
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If you like each other, you should be able to work around seeing each other once a week. Heck, once a week isn't even that bad. It's not like you 2 won't communicate other days anyway.
I say go for it!
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Some relationships are actually better if you don't see the other person a lot. Think about it this way...when your with her...you won't have time to fight with her becuase you will want the time spent with her to be good.
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