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im 16 and hes 18...weve been dating my for 8 months now and were very much in love...and a few weeks ago he gave me his email passwords so i could put up a picture...and i did but i got curious and i looked through his sent messages [i kno shame!] but i found something that realy upset me...there was a message to his ex who had just recently came back from military training [she left already yay!jan 01]and the message said he thought about her and i recall something about dinner and him wanting her to stay...i told him what i did and he wasnt mad at all he said he loved me and nothing could ever change that and that it was just a good good bye...i ddnt ask about the whole dinner part because i believed that he loved me and since he didnt throw a fit i ddnt think i had a reason flip out...but now my friend is saying that he just trying to have his cake and eat it to....i love my boyfriend but ive been played before so i have major trust issues... since that he hasnt changed his password o nothing...so should i just forget it...because like theres nothing that seems like hes doing something wrong but then i have my friend saying he is.... ugh!! i just dont kno
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I think you should trust him. Considering he still hasn't changed it, even though you looked through it the first time, I don't think he's cheating on you. I mean, who would allow their significant other to watch them cheating on her? He sounds like a pretty smart guy to me, one who would want to stay out of arguments. Especially counting the fact that he didn't get mad when you told him what you did. That is perfect trust right there :) He obviously trusts you with everything or he wouldn't let you get into his email in the first place :) Oh yeah, and NEVER listen to your friends opinions about your relationship! I can not stress that enough, it WILL turn out bad. If they actually have some kind of proof, then yes, listen to them and ask the guy about it, but if they're just saying it, don't listen to it! Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
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If I were in your position, I'd just trust him on it. Surely, he may have known you'd go through a few things, since he gave you his password.. and if he had anything to hide, that would be a pretty dumb move to let you see it.
Maybe it *was* just a "good goodbye".. what are the chances he's gonna see her again anyway?
Forget what your friend is saying, because there's no way your friend 100% knows what's going on anyway, as do any of us on Advicenators.
I'm just telling you how it sounds from my perspective and if he's not acting dodgy and you have no other reason to believe he's playing you.. just let it go. You've voiced your concerns to him and he told you straight and to the point his side of the story.
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