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Hey, the names Jasmina. I'm 17, & a senior. I have 6 months left of school, & then will be attending UMSL. I love sports, & cheering. I love my boyfriend

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so i had a question i went on a date with this guy and we cuddled and hold hands. but did nothing else so should i kiss him on the second date when we go and hangout at the mall? does anyone here have any stories or tips as well? thanks. :)

I usually kiss on the first date. But sometimes it just doesn't happen. I think it will happen the second one, I mean you guys already held hands, & what not. A way to get him to know you want to, when you're looking at him, look down at his lips, and back into his eyes. It's a sign, and if he's smart enough, he'll realize.

GOOD LUCK.

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Girls.
My Dick is 4.5 Soft.
And 6.5 hard.
Is that big?

You're average, not bad (:

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At what age should a girl be able to shave her legs?

Around 13-14.

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if you really hate cleaning your room like i do whats the fastest and more fun way to do it?

I have the same problem! But usually when I clean mine, I just put on music, and it seems as if the time goes by faster. I hope it helps you, :)

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Okay i'm 14, and i'm horney like all the time..
i like this guy, but he's a little older then me?
i really want to have sex with him, but i'm scared of all the things that could happen, i've been finger and it's okay, but tomarrow i'm supose to have sex???? what should i do?

Honestly, in my opinion, I don't think you should.

Virginity is an expensive thing, and you want to keep it as long as possible.
You're still long, you have time. There is other ways to pleasure yourself, then going straight to sex. If you're smart enough, you'd listen to me, and not do it.

Feel free to ask anything else, if needed.

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So i'm african american and i have dark, almond shaped eyes. How can I make a smoked eye and make my eyes look bigger?
I also have these deep creases under my eye. There not wrinkles or anything like that, their natural. I don't think i can get rid of them but how can i reduce the appearance?

To make your eyes look bigger, and pop out more, try using eye liner, and/or mascara. & for the under the eyes situation, try using a conciler that will cover it up. Make sure you get the one that matches your skin color.

Good Luck !

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\So there's this guy. I don't have any feelings for him at all, honestly. He's just really nice to me and we could be friends. But there's something he does that really annoys/confuses me. I want to know what he thinks of me.

During class, he's always calling my name and like whenever I'm in the hallway and he's behind me, he catches up to me just to talk to me. Sometimes he even ignores his friends for me.

Sometimes I ignore him but he insists on talking to me. And like usually when we talk I think he's fun and easy to talk to. He also does this to another girl in my class, Sarah. He is closer to Sarah than he is to me. He has a grlfriend too, Mimi.

Okay so here is the problem. I don't mind that he has a girlfriend and a girl friend that he's close to. I don't have feelings for this guy. If it matters, I used to have a crush on him and I told him after I got over it. It didn't affect him, so I don't think that's important.

But the problem is sometimes when we talk I think he's really annoying because he brings up Mimi and Sarah, right? And he's like, "You know, Mimi is so perfect. She's so frikking cute."
Like, literally, out of nowhere. We aren't talking about relationships, crushes, or who we prefer or ANYTHING. We could be talking about a movie or a celebrity or something funny that happened in class that has nothing related to Mimi or Sarah and all of a sudden he goes, "Sarah is so pretty and cute. So cute." It's like, why are you telling me this?

Whenever this happens, I pretend I don't mind and go, "Yeah, she is adorable!" and then like get quiet because I don't know what else to say.

To be honest, I find it insulting that he brings up girls in my conversations. I know he doesn't talk about me that way to Sarah or Mimi. I don't mind if he does, but, c'mon guys, you wouldn't like it if your girl friend (just a friend) talks to you constantly about other guys.

So should I stop talking to him? It's getting on ym nerves. He's nice and all, but is he disrespecting me? What do you, a guy, think is on his mind when he does this? Maybe I'm overthinking it??

First I think you should talk to him about it, and tell him it's bothering you. Maybe he's not doing this on purpose. He'll never know how you feel if you don't tell him. That's why talk to him about it. If it continues even after you guys talk, then I guess you shouldn't talk to him, bc he's basically choosing them over you..

Good Luck !

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Okay, you just answered one of my questions you know the guy at the pool my friend and i met? Ya well we called him and had really fun talking to each other. I found out he liked me also. He told me that he likes us but he likes one of us a lil bit more, but he doesn't want to say who because he doesn't want that person to be mad. Well i have a feeling he likes her more..but i have no clue. Hw won't tell me who yet. What should i do?

Honestly, I don't think you should worry about who he likes more. All that really matters is that he likes you back. He'll get over the fact that he likes your friend after you and him start talking, so I suggest you do the same. Not meaning this in a bad way or anything.

If you need anything else, feel free to ask me girlyy [:

Good Luck !

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okay so my boyfriend broke up with me the end of april and i believe i do still have feelings for him. (we're both virgins and never had sex together, we dated for close to a year and i was actually thinking about having sex with him like right before we broke up..btw i didn't see the breakup coming) i had this dream that we had sex the night he broke up with me. after we broke up we waited awhile to hang out...now its july and we've hung out a few times and i had the same exact dream the night he broke up with me...does anyone know what or if this means anything?
17f & 17m if that helps

I don't think there's an exact reason you're having these dreams, but it's probably because you miss him. I think that tou still do have feelings b/c you wouldn't just randomly dream about a guy that ou didn't care about.

Jasmina.

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I don't have a boyfriend, I like this guy named Jimmy my friend and I met him at the pool. He was talking to us he was nice,and flirty. He talked to me first so i thought he liked me but, he told this other girl that he was hanging with (she was hanging with us two) that he thought my friend was cute. So..he likes her, and we are friends on My space now(he added me) he asked me if she liked me, i said no because she has a boy friend. So i don't know what to do. I really want a boyfriend, but i can't find one. My friend told me that i should stop looking the right guy will find me when the time is right. So ...ugg i don't know what to do. help??

I still think you should talk to the guy to met at the pool. Even if he does like your friend, he doesn't have a chance with her, because she has a bf. So I say you give it a try ! Try & start talking to him, start a conversation, and see where that goes.

I wish you the best of luck ! If you need anything else, just drop it in my inbox. [:

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how I can dress like the girls on seventeen and teen vogue and celebrities for cheap. just really cute stuff for not a lot of money.

:)

My first suggestion is Plato's Closet, it has amzing clothes for amazing prices ! They also dress up the dolls at the stores, so you can always get ideas off of them. & you will be able to get so much stuff for a price that is worth it all. ex. Shirts can go down as low as 5 dollars, and it only has name brand stuff that was gently used, and you can also sell clothes there for money !

Mt second suggestion is Forever 21. They always have sales on amazing things. I really like it, and that's why i'm reccomending it. The clothes they have are always the newest styles.

Good Luck !

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I found this song on this Music MySpace

http://www.myspace.com/hiphopraplove

it's called "Te Amo"

I was wondering who sings it? Does anyone know?

Thanks mucho !

Te Amo is by Makano.

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Hey okay I've recently heard this, is it true that boys are okay with inexperienced girls? That they like the "innocent type"? We're talking never been kissed...

14/F

Yes, many guys do like inexpirenced girl, because many like to be the first.

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is it possible for a guy to "cum" a litle bit and not know or feel it?

When guys pre-cum, which usually they cum a little bit, & it's usually right after they get hard, and I don't think they feel it as much as when they actually cum.

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14/f

I don't have perfect body, that's for sure. I'm short. 4'9'' to be exact and have no legs. I have what are called daikon legs which are genetically chuncky looking legs which resemble large radishes called daikon. My torso's ok i guess. I have a completely flat/slightly toned stomach, am a 34C and have a 23'' waist. I'm not fat but due to my hideous legs, I don't look skinny either. My question is, are guys really looking for the hot model looking girls? the tall girls with amazing legs? I'm so self concious about my discusting legs and hear all the time "If only she had legs, she'd be hot." It's really discouraging and everytime, my self esteem ends up stooping lower and lower. So I was just wondering...do guys really care if a girl has no legs?

I don't really think guys look at that. For the body you have, you have good sized breasts, & that ALWAYS is a plus. I don't really think the legs matter one bit. Also, a girl could never have everything, like that way everything is perfect. So don't let the legs bother you..

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ok so my bf and i were messing around yesterday and he was hard but he told me that he wasn't about to nut, and i wasn't wet at all, so i got on him for literally like three seconds, and then got back off and his dick felt kind of wet, like he had nutted just a little bit, but he swore that he hadn't at all, because he said he wasn't even close to nutting. he said that it was probably wet because i had gotten wet but, and that it definitely wasn't cum. so my question is, is it possible for that to just have been me getting wet, even though it was only 3 seconds that i was on him? can i get wet in just three seconds?

It seems like he cummed, but not really. It's called pre-cum. Which happens literally right after a guy gets hard. So yeah, that's what it probably was, it's what it sounds like.

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Alright, so I'm 15 and I'm gunna be a sophmore after this summer is over. I was thinking about where I can get new clothes for this summer and maybe even this fall for back to school. I'm not into the whole pay a hundred dollars for a tanktop with a bird on it scene. I'm getting paid around 50 dollars a week for babysitting, and I need to find places where I can get decent clothes like you'd find at places like PacSun, Hottopic, Hollister, etc. but not nearly as expensive, 'cause if I only have 50 dollars, I don't wanna blow all 50 on one thing. I live in MA, does anybody have any ideas? Also I can't shop online because I don't have a credit card and I'm pretty sure my mom doesn't either.
Thanks!

Platos closet !

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im allowed to get a tattoe thats small. i want it to be on my foot, so when i wear flip flops people can see it =) any ideas other than stars and hearts?

I think a paw would be cute on the foot.
Also, like a symbol of some sort. For
example, the symbol of love, but in chinese.

Good luck.

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Hey, im sure my question is in the wrong category, but not really. Lol.
Im having 2 surprise parties in one for my 2 bestfriends.
Theyre both girls & I want a really cute theme for the party.
Theyre also both turning 15.
Any idea about the themes?
Or dress code or anythingg?
Thanks(;

I always thought that it would be cute
if the birthday girl(s) would wear like
a color that stands out and then everyone
else wears black & white, and they could
wear like red, or purple, or pink. Therefore,
they would stand out the most out of every-
one. It's just my opinion, I hope I helped.

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okay, so when you give a guy a blowjob, i know you dont actually blow, but when a guy says suck his d*ck. does it mean actually suck it? what are some tips. thanks.

Basicallly yes, you suck it. Just ask
you would to suck a sucker.

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