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sex dreams
okay so my boyfriend broke up with me the end of april and i believe i do still have feelings for him. (we're both virgins and never had sex together, we dated for close to a year and i was actually thinking about having sex with him like right before we broke up..btw i didn't see the breakup coming) i had this dream that we had sex the night he broke up with me. after we broke up we waited awhile to hang out...now its july and we've hung out a few times and i had the same exact dream the night he broke up with me...does anyone know what or if this means anything?
17f & 17m if that helps
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Contrary to the poster below, its been proven that dreams have little meaning.
If you dream of something, its on your mind consciously or unconsciously. Most dreams are formed out of references in your mind. Its kind of like word association, one word makes you think of five others which make you think of five others.
Only with dreams, it can be people, places, events, almost anything. The most interesting thing about dreams to note is their progression, you can make some funny observations if you remember your dream, because often times one thing will make you think of some pretty random others while unconscious, which is why dreams can be so random. When unconscious, you're not analyzing your thoughts and prioritizing them, so associations you might not immediately make when awake are easier when asleep.
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Here is what dreaming about sex means:
To dream about sex, refers to the psychological completion and the integration of contrasting aspects of the Self. You need to be more receptive and incorporate aspects of your dream sex partner into your own character. Alternatively and a more direct interpretation of the dream, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex.�It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.�If you are looking for a place to have sex, then the dream may be analogous to your search for intimacy and closeness. To see your parents having sex in your dream, indicates that you are seeing similar aspects between their relationship and your current relationship. Most of us cringe at the thought of our parents having sex, so this dream imagery is really trying to get your attention. Consider your parents' real life relationship together and what you can learn from it.
To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship. If you dream you are having sex with a celebrity, then it indicates your drive to be successful. Consider what movies your associate this celebrity with for clues as to where and what you want to achieve success in.
**To dream that you are having sex with an ex or something that is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together. Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fiance. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.
Try translating your dreams more. Go to www.dreammoods.com. Even translating the littlest things in your dreams, like a fence, grass, etc. could help you out. Dreaming is what your subconcious mind is thinking. Take some time to reflect on your dreams and try to understand what they mean.
I hope this helps! :)
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I don't think there's an exact reason you're having these dreams, but it's probably because you miss him. I think that tou still do have feelings b/c you wouldn't just randomly dream about a guy that ou didn't care about.
Jasmina. <3
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