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Sex? Should i do it?
Okay i'm 14, and i'm horney like all the time..
i like this guy, but he's a little older then me?
i really want to have sex with him, but i'm scared of all the things that could happen, i've been finger and it's okay, but tomarrow i'm supose to have sex???? what should i do?
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hello, if you really want to then go for it. but make suyre your safe... always be safe. no one can stop you from doing something you want to do, not me or anyone giveing you advice. just make sure you know the consecuenses if your not safe. be carefull.
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You should NOT have sex. You're 14. If you're horny, masturbate. Having sex can lead to lots of negative things and that's why only adults should have sex. You are not an adult so keep it in your pants until you're old enough.
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That's what sex is like. So don't do it.
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Please please pleaseee do not feel pressured you need to have sex with this boy to please him. your only 14 and from the sounds of what youve said i can tell your not ready either!if a boy isnt going to wait for you and respects the fact that you dont want to have sex then he wasnt worth it to start off with.
sex can make your life change..i mean imagine if you got pregnant what will you do?do you think hell hang around? do you think your parents would approve? please atleast wait a few years before considering sex. atleast when your older youll know if hes the right guy to have sex with or not because in those few years of saving yourself for mr right you would of learnt alot more than you do now about sex and its outcome and possibilities..please dont, sex is soemthing special once youv lost it you cant get it back
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I'm 14 too. And teen to teen, majority of these columnists are right-you are wayyy to young.
Of course, you have the final decision, but please think about it. Is a couple hours of pleasure really worth a lifetime of responsibility? (i'm saying this part because of your age)
The reason you're being really horny lately is because your horomones are developing, and its only gonna get worse from here. But you have to learn how to control yourself. (If you don't know how to.)
If you're dating this person, discuss your boundaries-what you don't and do feel comfortable doing. Expect him to do the same. And if he doesn't respect what you are and aren't willing ot do, then he really isn't worth it.
Be young and enjoy your teen years. Worry about the serious stuff later.
Hope i helped!
AK
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You are still a 14-year-old girl. Stay out of sex for now. If you do have sex now, you will regret it later.
You are still very young; you don't even know enough about sex yet. You don't know the risks of getting pregnant; you don't know the risks of getting STDs; you don't know the risk of getting oropharyngeal cancers. Don't let a second of curiosity ruin your entire life.
As said by a columnist earlier, a girl's "virginity" is a precious thing.
What is sex to you anyway? A game? A new trend? Does virginity mean anything to you at all? Please, please, please think about it carefully. If you must, masturbate or something. But just stay out of sex for now. Wait until you are older, wait until you are more mature.
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Honestly, in my opinion, I don't think you should.
Virginity is an expensive thing, and you want to keep it as long as possible.
You're still long, you have time. There is other ways to pleasure yourself, then going straight to sex. If you're smart enough, you'd listen to me, and not do it.
Feel free to ask anything else, if needed.
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If you are asking online here for advice if you should have sex. Dont? You arent ready you are young.
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You should be comfortable with this. You should make sure you really want to do this and make sure you really want to do it with this guy. Also two more things. MAKE SURE YOU USE BIRTHCONTROL AND A CONDOM IF YOU DO!
Jay
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Not have sex.
The risk is WAAAY to high, pregnancy, STDs, not to mention the emotional risk of having sex with some guy you kind of like just cause you want to have sex.
Seriously, I have no problem with teens having sex, but at least do it with someone you really care about, and who cares about you. At least that way, if it goes bad or if you have to face some real disasters, you can do it together.
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