I am 15. my birthday is febraury 15 1995 Anyway i role play as a neko. Im a foxgirl and im clasterophobic.
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Theres a friend i havent seen since i was 7. we were real close. i found her on facebook recently and saw see was in a complicated relationship so i asked her to hang out and she said yes and the day before we hung out her status changed to single and said looking for a relationship. we went to the movies and got something to eat and it kind of felt more like a date. After she said we should do it again so valentines was a week away so asked her to breakfast and to be my valentine and she said yes. the day before breakfast she asked one of those question on facebook asking who would you spend your whole saturday with and she put my name then changed her status to complicated again
Breakfast went good and she explained that the guy she used to be with called her to much and his parents didnt like her so she dumped but is still going to go to prom with him. after breakfast we had a quick kiss, and i asked if she was happy and she said yes, her status still says complicated, i dont expect a relationship between us so soon but why is her status still complicated? (link)
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She probably still has a little feeligns for him but have feelings for you too and is wondering who she likes more and can't chose. I've been that way before it is harder if someone trieds to rush you so give her some time to think.
-Jay-
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does anyone know any good initation facebook sites that would work in my school ? tanks :) (link)
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http://unblockedflickr.info/index.php?e=no_hotlink
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okay so yea theres this guy im a sohpmore and i see him in the hallway all the time. i think hes is really cute. i know friends who i think know him but im not sure what to do? help please. (link)
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First become friends with him so you can get to now him better. Once your more comfortable around him than get him alone and ask him out. Dont take too long to get to know him because someone might take him good luck. ;)
Jay
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(please dont judge by the age judge by wat i tell you first than if you want than judge by the age than judge the age thx)ok anyway i have a boyfriend named jack. he is 14 turnin 15. im 14 btw. well my bf is never really on anymore or never really emails me he waits until i email him and when i ask him why he didnt email me or why he hasnt been on he either says he has been sick or its his parents fault not his (i dont now if this is true or not i just now his parents sometimes doesnt let him stay on as long but he could email me u now) well now i have this crush who is 17. he's name is lane. we use to be like best friends but now we have a crush on each other. lane nows i have a bf and doesnt want to rush me but he asked me why i didnt dump my bf if i liked him so much. i told him i didnt have a good enough reason. my bf says he loves me a whole lot but he never really acts like it i mean he says he loves me and stuff but he never acts interested in wat i am sayin if he does ive missed it. so you see i dont want jack no more i want lane but i dont have a good enough reason you think you have any good reason for me? a reason he will understand and wont be sad and maybe we can still b friends afterwards? thx
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I dont have any easons sry but i do think that it doesnt sound like he doesnt love u and is makin an excuse about somethin ok l8r
Jay
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i am 13 years old and i have a friend who has this prob with a guy she has liked for a really long time and has been best friend with him for 3 years now. my friend and the guy have never gone out...but the guy has a gf already....soo my friend wants to know if she should move on or stay with the guy she has liked for as long as she has known him. she asks me this question every nite please help! (link)
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tell her to tell him how she feels. IF he doesn't feel the same way tough forget him and to move on. He probably feels the same way and is shy. Or he just thinks of her as a friend. Tell her to take a risk and see if he and her will be togther or will she move on. It be a good thing to move on and stay away from him if he doesnt liek her. Avoid him so she wouldnt have to deal with it until she is clear out of the mind of him. But thats only if he doesnt like her.
Jay
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My friend has been going around spreading rumours about me having affairs with 4 guys at one time and she's made my life a living hell.she goes around and gives people the impression like I am a monster.I try talking to everyone at school but I dont have a true friend.everyone thinks low of me as if I were a slut.and this friend is really selffish she uses me all the time to get her way and everytime I tell myself it may be misunderstanding but it clearly isn't because I heard her say something about me to another girl.whenever I confront her she always refuses it and starts misbehaving.I am dying to change my school and my mother keeps telling me I am just being an escapist and I need to be strong and although I dunt show it itz hell for me.I have six months left in high school and I want to change my school.please tell
me how I should deal with this.how can I convince my mother to let me change schools? (link)
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Well you have told your mom right? well maybe it is time and show her what's going on and how you are feeling. Really get itout there to her. MMaybe some teachers who have heard or seen this could help convince your mom. After all i have been in this before except they were picking on me and stuff. Anyway the way i got my mom to change my school was i kept telling her and finally showed her what was happening and got some teachers to even talk to her about that problem. The school talked to the kids and they promised not to mess with me and my mom asked me did i still want to move out that school and i said yes. I think you should get a litte prove since she won't listen to your words. My mom says it is just jealously she could be right but it doesnt stop it from hurting. Tell your mom that your trying to be brave but it doesnt help because your still feeling hurt. tell her from the heart how you feel and this time make sure she is listening wisely and ask her what if it was her in the same stuff. I hope i helped.
Jay
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my boyfriend and i were together for about 1 year and then we broke up cuz his ex gf wasnt ready to leave him..we were ot of contact for about 6 months and then we started talking again and we got physical.this continued for about 2 years then i went out of country for a a few months and behind my back he made out with his gf again who he claimed to not have loved.i was heart broken cuz i thought he loved me for 3 years and everything felt a lie to me...anyway i stopped talking to him and then he started frequently calling,messaging,mailing telling me he has totally changed and will never hurt me again.he has changed a lot but i am pretty insecure..the thing is if he gets angry or depressed i cant work ,i cant do anything...itz like i am eddicted to him...please advice (link)
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Maybe you shoulf listen to what he has to say. Than if you don't think he is telling the truth just let him down easy. The way to tell if he is lying or not is to see if he sounds like he is depressed without you. Try and find signs of him lying. But if you feel he is gonan cheat on you don't go back with him try and avoid him. Ignore his calls and messages and mailing. When you feel safe enough you can stop avoiding him. Get some fresh air and get to now new people. don't think about him clear your mind. Get rid of any pictures you have of him and get rid of anything that could remind you of him. Hope this helps
Jay
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How do you know? I mean, I don't actually know if there is love or not really. I don't think I've ever felt that emotion. Is it like in the movies? Butterflies and all of that? Or is it something else? Can anybody describe it? (link)
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Hmm i'll try and explain it. It's when you always want to spend time with someone and you get either jealous or over protective over that certain person. Than When your not with them your always thinking of them. You can barely get your mind off them. Thinking what would it be like in the future for you two. Sometimes you even dream about that person (not everyone dreams about that person this is just like a bonus.) This is how my three friends, and I feel when we are in love. Hope i help.
♥Jay♥
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I'm a senior in high school and there's this i guy i liked and still like and talked to a lot last year. I pretty much didn't see him all summer. Today was the first day of school and I was scared he wasn't gonna be happy to see me but thank god he was and said hi to me and talked to me. I really, really wanna keep talking to him and i really want him to keep on flirting a lot with me but there are a couple of problems. One, we were both in the play together last year, which brought us together but i think he might not be doing it this year and i'm scared it just won't be the same as last year if he doesn't do it. We're in a few classes together but it's not the same. Also, the bigger issue is that he's pretty popular and hangs out with a completely different crowd than i do (he hangs out with pretty much all girls, though) so it's kind of out of the question for us to hang out. It's kind of also out of the question for us to go out for the same reason (i don't really care about that THAT much though, i kind of just wanna flirt/socialize with him A LOT like i did last year). Do you think i should still try to make an effort or just give up? Is there no point?And how can i keep socializing with him if he doesn't do the play? (link)
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♥You should tell him how you feel. It will make you feel better. And you never now he might feel the same way. I now i told my boyfriend how i felt and a week later we started going out so give it a try at least. You never now what could happen. Also you could talk to him during lunch hour or during pass time or any other free time you guys have. Try and get him alone. If your afraid of his crowd than try and ge his attention and finger him to come here.♥
Jay
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Alright for a really long time I never believed in any form of paranormal things, no psychic crap, mind reading, talking to the dead, ghosts..nothing..but I really want to know whats going on with me. I have dreams that are really short and random. About a month ago I had a dream that I had just gotten home from the dentist and I was talking to my dad about something non-related while watching a show I had never seen before on tv and then the dream just ends. Today it happened, right down to every non important detail including my bag of stuff from the dentist and the odd tv show that I didn't know existed. This happens A LOT! The other thing is a weird useless talent I guess. Whenever I'm playing my ipod I can sort of predict the next song. Which sounds stupid but the other day I had my ipod hooked up in my car and one song ended and there was a pause before the next song and I started singing a random song in my head and then it started playing..this happened 5 times in a row and my ipod was on shuffle so its not like I just memorized the order. I feel like a crazy person just thinking that I could possibly have some sort of mind power. My aunt is a medium and my family always thought she was a little nuts, including myself. Well what do you think? Is there any possibilities that some people have a little extra brain power than others? (link)
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hmm could be i dont now how i figured out i could see spirits and sometimes i can predict the future but not really it happens barely with the future seeing but i only see spirits if they want me to so 9 out of 10 u are psychic.
Jay
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i wanna believe that wishes are real and can come true and i've found myself making alot of wishes lately. I'm finding myself getting into magic more and more lately. is that bad?
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no its not really bad if you dont think wishes can slove everthing.
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Hi! 14/ f
I'm a writer:) I write books, and my mind is totally fried! lol i dont have any ideas of what should my book topic be. Can you people help me out? I usually write in the generes drama, horror, or romantic. Thanks for whoever helps! (link)
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hmm since you do romantic stories as do i than thy can write about a mystery, drama story as in a girl running away and finding love but there is traggic in the way keeping them apart and thy man mightdie. will he make it?
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ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. he left for college almost 2 weeks ago and wont be home for another 2 because of the fact that his schools 3 hours away and he doesnt have a car. i miss him sooo much. he's always on my mind and i just want him back here so much. i know that nothings gonna changet the fact that he's gone and so i've been trying to just live my life and be fine but its so hard. we used to talk all the time and now we dont talk nearly as much as we did. i understand he's in college now but like. ok the past two nights i've called him to say goodnight like i always do and he's been like ok i'll call you back in a few minutes and then he never does.. i just dont know if i can do a relationship when we're this far apart. its to hard and like. i love him with my whole heart i really do. and before he left we told eachother that love would be enough to get us through anything.. but i just dont know if it is anymore.. i have no idea what to do. could someone please help me.. :( (link)
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DO what you think is right. Take a deep breath. Think of road A and road B. Down road A your with your boyfriend longer and yyou guys get to talk about things you havent talk about when you see him and when he is down with college. Down road B you have yourself and wondering if you did theright way. Free to date anyway you please. After a few months you get over him. But you dont get to see or hear how he has done in college. You dont now if he failed so you can covert him and if he succeed than you can congratale him but youll meet new poeple. Which one seems better to you? i would pick the one with my boyfriend.
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im 14 and female and i like my friend. hes a very depressed person (i am too but not as much as he is) who used to not be very nice to me. he was never really open and he never gave me high fives like everyone else. but now hes starting to be a little more open towards me and hes giving me high fives. this all happened very quickly. i dont know if he likes me the way i like him. it bothers me a lot. please give me advice. (link)
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If you like him that much get him alone. Than ask him not to be mad but you like him and wanted to now if he liked you and if so if he wanted to go out. If he says no say you hope it didnt ruin your friendship and can you guys plz still be friends.
Jay
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OK so i like this guy and he is one of my best friends.i have known him sence 1st grade. his dad and my dad work with eachother so i get to see him kinda a lot.
i dont think he likes me but then again you never know.I really want to ask him out but i dont want to ruin our friendship. should i just keep on being friends with him? being friends with him is really fun because he is really nice and all theese 7th graders like him. i really dont know if i should ask him out or keep being friends with him!!
please help!!
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If you really like him get him alone and tell him you like him and ask him does he like you and if so does he want to go out with you. If not ask him can you guys please can still be friends.
Jay
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Okay, so there is this one guy and he likes me and I like him back and I heard he was going to ask me out! I'm really excited about it, but i don't know if i want to say yes because I think he only wants to use me for his pleasure! What should I do? (link)
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You shouldn't do his pleasure if your not comfortable and not for sure if he likes you for you and wants you afterwards too. If he doesnt than dont waste your time on him. NO use trying to ask him you'll be wasting your time because he would say he wasnt either way. Ask some of his ex's. They'll now the answer. But only ask the ex's who dumped him not him dump her. If their all dump by them den you ask them why he dump them. BINGO
Jay
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Okay i'm 14, and i'm horney like all the time..
i like this guy, but he's a little older then me?
i really want to have sex with him, but i'm scared of all the things that could happen, i've been finger and it's okay, but tomarrow i'm supose to have sex???? what should i do? (link)
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You should be comfortable with this. You should make sure you really want to do this and make sure you really want to do it with this guy. Also two more things. MAKE SURE YOU USE BIRTHCONTROL AND A CONDOM IF YOU DO!
Jay
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Hi,I am 13 and I really need some help.
All of my friends have matured, and....they...look...drop...dead...gorgeuos.
But, then there is me, I have matured also(I have hips.I HATE them!) But that is the only place I have matured. I do not want to have a chest I just want to be tall (I am only 4'11)
and to have cheekbones.I am more of a round girl, and all the time I try to lose weight, I do but thenit never is the amount I want,and it comes back on. I just want to be the size that I was back in grade 6.
alright sorry for such a long introduction but, I think my real question is is it natural for in 1 year to go up 3 sizes in pants? Or ,4 depending on the pant.
My friends are all so nice like they gain weight but, not as much as I did.
I have cut back on my food but, that is not helping.
I also work out so much it kills,Do you know why this is happening to me?(Sorry that is 3 questions)
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i now how you feel. I use to feel like that until i met my boyfriend. I would always argue with him about me being ugly. Finally i just realize he was right. What he was right about is everyone is beatiful in there own way. Especially you N. No one is ugly i can tell you that. No one is the RIGHT beatiful. There's no such thing. I swear to you everyone is beatiful in there own way. Your not losing no weight because your perfect the way you are. The more older you get the more beatiful you get. Like i said everyone is beatiful in there own way. And its not just happening to you. ITs happening to some others around your city or state or the world. And if someone tells you otherwise you just say i now i am beatiful. Everyone is beatiful in there own way and i got this beatiful.
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I really liked this kid, a whole lot. We both liked each other, but no move was made to do take our relationship further than just "friends". So he moved on, and I'm still upset over what could have been. I know he doesn't care, because he likes someone else who likes them. Its extremely awkward because I see him every time I go to my friends house, and we both get that weird feeling of old-like. I'm positive he doesn't like me anymore though. So, I want to move on really bad. How do i get rid of him in my head? How did you move on from someone ? Every been in this situation? What did you do? Please, I find it hard to like anyone else now, Thanks everyone :(.
16/f
-Unrequited. (link)
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Maybe you should aviod him for a while. Get some fresh air. I'm not saying not be friends just aviod him for a while. Get to now new people. I have been in this situtation. After a month i got over him because i stayed away for awhile and met new people. After that month i started talking to him again. I didnt feel like i liked him at all anymore.
Jay
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My guy friend and i have been friends for ever but now that we're older i think he likes me. i dont want to go out with him cuz if we broke up i no we wouldnt be friends no more! we r both 13 and i am a female. (link)
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MAybe you should find out if he likes you before you judge. Also most people who are ex's still become friends. How do you now he won't be your friend if you guys broke up. MAybe you should give him a chance.
Jay
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